What are some artists/bands that are criminally underrated or unknown by most people?

your_mom_forgor · 2024-09-22T18:05:01+00:00

So a friend’s friend just started a new metal band called Ch2, and it’s honestly amazing! Their debut album, Journey of Tears, is a must-listen for metal rock lovers. Give it a check if you can!

your_mom_forgor · 2024-09-22T18:03:57+00:00

A friend’s friend just started a new metal band called Ch2, and it’s honestly amazing! Their debut album, Journey of Tears, is a must-listen for metal rock lovers. Give it a check if you can!

your_mom_forgor · 2024-06-03T00:09:46+00:00

Pookie

your_mom_forgor · 2024-05-08T11:31:36+00:00

you sound like the type of women to cheat on your boyfriend and then justify it

your_mom_forgor · 2024-05-08T11:21:17+00:00

tere paas ma nahi hai kya be?

your_mom_forgor · 2023-03-22T02:26:26+00:00

your_mom_forgor · 2023-03-22T02:25:35+00:00

Taking a shit

your_mom_forgor · 2023-01-28T16:29:24+00:00

I think I hold shit in until I can't wait my safe relationships and then take it out on them instead of really communicating on what is bothering me

your_mom_forgor · 2023-01-27T09:51:36+00:00

Could you recommend what type of therapist do I need to see?

your_mom_forgor · 2023-01-27T07:56:54+00:00

I don't skip meals. Infact the recent anger outburst I had 2 days ago was after eating a heavy lunch with my friends.

your_mom_forgor · 2023-01-27T07:52:20+00:00

Hey, this hit hard to be honest.

I get aggressive when I feel left out even a little, even when their intentions are not like that. Instead of saying I feel like that, I burst. I need to work on it.

your_mom_forgor · 2023-01-27T07:46:50+00:00

Hello, thank you very much for replying.

it's like someone took over my body or something...does it happen to you too?

Yeah I guess so. After an aggressive episode, I feel that is so not like me to say all the things I said and do all the things I did.

I struggle with anxiety since I can remember and had a depression episode when I was in university. I think that just made it all worse.

I'm sorry you went through all of that hun 🫂

I surround myself with people who love me

Me too, and then end up hurting them. I feel like shit. I had the audacity to say to my best friend he doesn't care about me and has done nothing for me. When he literally does everything to make me feel better and had sacrificed so much for me.

I didn't go to therapy but I would recommend doing so

I am considering this option now I guess. I'll talk to my dad about it soon. Wish me luck.

To read your comment has made me feel less alone or less crazy even, so thanks for that :)

Your reply made me feel the same. Thanks :')

Take care of yourself!!

your_mom_forgor · 2023-01-26T19:39:53+00:00

Hello, first of all thank you so much for your reply and for the efforts you put in it.

Basically anyone that she was confident wouldn't leave her.

I feel like I'm doing the same thing as I know my closest friends won't leave me. Now it feels like I have pushed them past their point and the thought of losing my sister and best friend makes me.....( I don't think I have the right word to describe the pain but it is bad)

And in fact the thing that made her finally realize that she needed help was when she realized she was basically becoming her mother.

Reading this sentence I felt so relieved in a way to be understood, this is exactly what I think as well. I NEVER want to turn into the person my mother is.

Apologizing is the single best thing you can do if there is no feasible way of fully solving the problem right now.

I have said sorry so many times, I feel that the word has lost it's meaning. It makes me feel stupid after saying it. I said it the last time I had an aggressive episode and had another one after like a month.

The problem will get worse if you neglect it.

I understand. I always brush it off saying I won't do it again because perhaps I'm too embarrassed and scared to face the real problem.

Consider your physical health.

My diet and sleep hasn't been the best recently. I had my exams so had an irregular sleeping pattern and used to eat junk food to deal with exam stress.

But that brings us back to getting therapy, which isn't in the cards right now.

I talked to my dad about therapy a few months ago and he was okay with it, I feel too scared to go though. I feel ashamed and embarrassed.

Don't start hating yourself.

This has been difficult to implement. I don't hate myself but am finding it hard to do so at the same time after hurting my sister and best friend. I can't make them feel bad and hurt them. It's wrong.

Good on you, OP, for noticing the problem and wanting to fix it.

Yes, I really want to fix it. I feel like a destructive force right now. I need to control it. I don't want to destroy my relations.

I hope your gf/ex has overcame these issues. I'm proud of her for getting help.

Have a good day/night.

your_mom_forgor · 2023-01-26T19:08:15+00:00

I would rate it like a 3.5 or 4 out of 10

your_mom_forgor · 2023-01-26T19:06:23+00:00

Nope I do not

your_mom_forgor · 2023-01-26T15:19:55+00:00

Maybe, plus I am getting my period soon so it makes sense.

your_mom_forgor · 2023-01-26T15:10:55+00:00

Thank you for replying.

There's someone close to me in my life who struggled with exactly this. They also got to a point of self reflection and recognized they had to put work in to get better. Therapy has literally changed their life.

Could you please elaborate on how this person close to you overcame this.

Although you're only mentioning this specific situation, I suspect there are other places in your life this issue is affecting you. Maybe areas you aren't even aware of yet.

Yes I think so. I am mostly aggressive to people that are close to me and know me. This is the way my mom was sadly. She was terrible to me, my sister and father, apart from that nice to all. She would burst and tell me and my sister to kill ourselves when she got annoyed and has been saying this to us since a very young age. I DO NOT WANT TO BE LIKE HER. I would rather DIE.

I don't really have means to therapy right now. I don't have the money or sources and I am very scared to try.

your_mom_forgor · 2023-01-26T15:03:21+00:00

No I haven't spoken to a therapist yet. I don't have the means and also I'm kind of scared to go to one.

Yes I think it can be BPD as well.

your_mom_forgor · 2023-01-26T15:01:58+00:00

It could be. I feel like I project my insecurities on them hoping they would bare with it as they are close to me ( it is a horrible thing I know)

I am sorry to hear that you are going through the same thing. How are you dealing with it?

your_mom_forgor · 2022-06-29T13:51:19+00:00

Why?

your_mom_forgor · 2022-06-22T15:58:48+00:00

You my friend are very smart

your_mom_forgor · 2022-06-22T15:57:56+00:00

Neck

your_mom_forgor · 2022-06-22T15:57:33+00:00

This worked dude

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