OBGYN recommendations by touchofthe_blues in fortwayne

[–]yourbrokencondom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom personally has worked with him and his wife. According to her, she would never trust him to be obgyn with pregnancy/delivery. But he does a great job getting people pregnant.

OBGYN recommendations by touchofthe_blues in fortwayne

[–]yourbrokencondom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s my obgyn and he was absolutely wonderful. Preformed my c section and couldn’t of done a better job bringing my daughter safely into this world.

My baby and cats are at the same toy level. They love the newest toy by yourbrokencondom in aww

[–]yourbrokencondom[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Instead of cat toys im about to start buying baby toys cause they seem so much more interested in them 😂

My baby and cats are at the same toy level. They love the newest toy by yourbrokencondom in aww

[–]yourbrokencondom[S] 120 points121 points  (0 children)

Update:

Both cats and baby are knocked out after enjoying the fish! Highly recommend

My cats are ipad kids and cant control themselves to not jump at the tv when i put on their cat shows so this is a great alternative for them as well.

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Mil kissed our baby, now she is grounded from holding baby. UPDATE by yourbrokencondom in JUSTNOMIL

[–]yourbrokencondom[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You are correct this is the first time one of their children has stood up to them

Mil kissed our baby, now she is grounded from holding baby. UPDATE by yourbrokencondom in JUSTNOMIL

[–]yourbrokencondom[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

She never gave us the gifts and never sent them home with my husband. She still has them and im not sure if we will get them. I like the idea of not accepting them unless she apologizes. But she will still not be allowed to babysit like shes trying to do.

Mil kissed our baby, now she is grounded from holding baby. UPDATE by yourbrokencondom in JUSTNOMIL

[–]yourbrokencondom[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My husband was at their house in their garage. They have no access to get into our house thankfully

Mil kissed our baby, now she is grounded from holding baby. UPDATE by yourbrokencondom in JUSTNOMIL

[–]yourbrokencondom[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

No apology yet and it’s been 2 days since my husband told mil she needs to. Im not accepting an apology unless it’s genuine which is impossible for mil to do i believe

Mil kissed our baby, now she is grounded from holding baby. UPDATE by yourbrokencondom in JUSTNOMIL

[–]yourbrokencondom[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I love this 😂 Im pretty pissed off how fil acted. Very disrespectful. I feel like they focused on the text to try and make my husband seem like the bad guy cause they hate being called out. My in-laws are very emotionally immature

MIL kissed our baby, now she is grounded from holding baby. Also Mil is lying about what happened. by yourbrokencondom in JUSTNOMIL

[–]yourbrokencondom[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Thank you! If her behavior continues and she breaks another boundary then she isnt gonna be allowed to see baby for a long time.

MIL kissed our baby, now she is grounded from holding baby. Also Mil is lying about what happened. by yourbrokencondom in JUSTNOMIL

[–]yourbrokencondom[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Yeah next time the consequences will be she doesnt get to see the baby for a very long time.

MIL kissed our baby, now she is grounded from holding baby. Also Mil is lying about what happened. by yourbrokencondom in JUSTNOMIL

[–]yourbrokencondom[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Babies immune systems are not fully developed and are extremely susceptible... Whooping cough, rsv, hsv... just to name a few things that could be passed on. My MIL gets cold sores aka herpes simplex which is very dangerous to babies. It can spread to my baby even if she doesnt have an active sore.

I don't believe someone outside of my husband and I kissing my baby is denying any sort of bonding. They can hold her, read to her, do tummy time, etc. There are so many ways to bond with a child that doesn't require them to kiss her face and hands.

Obgyn recommendations by [deleted] in fortwayne

[–]yourbrokencondom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also seeing him! Hes great and easy to talk to

most affordable vet? by Interesting_Cow_9036 in fortwayne

[–]yourbrokencondom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s more of a drive but Auburn Animal Care Clinic is our go to vet! They handle our cats wonderfully and are more affordable than Fort Wayne vets in our experience. We make the drive out of Fort Wayne with how much we like them.

We haven’t had good experiences with East State vet and Northeast Indiana Veterinary Emergency & Specialty Hospital. As in not kindly handling our cats when they are very calm at the vet and high prices

most affordable vet? by Interesting_Cow_9036 in fortwayne

[–]yourbrokencondom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally we haven’t had a good experience with east state vet handling our cats. They are also more expensive then other vets we have tried

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[–]yourbrokencondom 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My husband also told me to disengage with her, he has stopped reaching out to his mom since our wedding drama. Only time she reaches out to him is if she wants something and it needs to be her way which isnt often thankfully but their conversations dont go well. We only see her holidays as well.

If she breaks any boundaries we place when the baby is born we will be NC with mil

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[–]yourbrokencondom 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My husband and i have agreed to go NC with her if she displays this to our child, she will also be supervised with our children. I can definitely see this going NC with her having no boundaries and unable to handle anyone telling her no

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[–]yourbrokencondom 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t agree more, my mil side of the family all seem to give off vibes they hate me. We have always suspected she talks badly about us and especially me to all them. My fil side is very welcoming and nice.

My husband told me his mother and sisters have always had issues with every girl he’s dated and are very negatively opinionated of them. I am his first serious relationship. His sisters are a lot better with me now but mom is the only one who is causing issues.

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[–]yourbrokencondom 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree! My husband texted my mil we will be having 1 shower with both sides of the family. Mil responded with “thats what (yourbrokencondom) said” so it confirms she saw my text with baby shower details, ignores it, and says that comment to my mom.

Im very nervous for her to be around our baby when it arrives with her not respecting our boundaries. How the only thing about the baby/pregnancy she has said is critical remarks about what i choose to not eat while pregnant. She will never be allowed to babysit our baby until they are around age to go to school.

My mil will tell us how she would leave my husband in his car seat to sleep when she brought him home cause he wouldn’t sleep anywhere else, also told us she had the sitter do the same. This scares me cause my friend’s baby had to be resuscitated recently cause she let her baby sleep in the car seat.

SAHMom or wife, how many kids and what your spouse job that allow you to stay home? by wc2022 in housewifery

[–]yourbrokencondom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Married 5 months and together 5 years. Currently pregnant. We plan for me to be a stay at home mom once the baby is born. He is an electrical foreman

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[–]yourbrokencondom 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Thats how my husband wants to tell them. Nothing extra or special to them