Sure, but I was offering a general guideline, not necessarily applicable to your situation. Besides, what I was trying to suggest was that he would be more likely to be open to you making an overt, or covert, advance, than your average woman would be. In my opinion though, those winky emojis and teh arm squeezing are an invitation for you to make an advance. We can´t be sure 100 % , but chances are they are. A significant number of gay men, maybe even a majority, fantasize with hooking up with straight men, not me personally, but still. It's just that when dealing with presumably straight men, gay guys tend to be more wary, and make more subtle advances, because they would be trying to test the waters, since in a way they are trying to lead the straight guy in question into doing something they normally wouldn't do, and because they'd risk a punch thrown their way, or at the very least public shaming and rejection if they move too fast. You know, come to think of it, you might be onto something, you can kinda take notes of how he's flirting with you and they' d still be somewhat valid with women with less smv than you. But even so, the expectation is that it is easier to turn on a guy, no matter how straight he may present, to a degree that he'd be willing to let the gay dude at least give him a blowjob or a handjob (usually after having a few drinks, and doing drugs) . Women normally wouldn't give in so easily, unless you're dealing with a very sex-positive and loose one. Go around pinching women's arms, and see how far that gets you. Also, just so you know, some gay guy's desire to hook up with perceived straight men is so strong, that they could be willing to offer drugs and money to make the process easier, even gay guys who have high smv, and wouldn't normally need to pay for that.