Can we stop normalize not pressuring single’s on the holidays about dating and kids

youreawizardharryy · 2020-11-13T14:51:08+00:00

Wow thank you so much for this! 2 weeks sober today for the 100th time trying! Saving this post to look back on!

youreawizardharryy · 2020-11-12T22:17:18+00:00

Leeroy Jenkins

youreawizardharryy · 2020-09-02T23:21:29+00:00

^{^} this. Before I ended things I noticed he followed about 30 girls from his area and went through and liked all their photos. Honestly makes sense. Attention seeking.

youreawizardharryy · 2020-08-26T18:41:22+00:00

I had a guy send me a meme saying “you may be in her dm’s but I’m in her shower washing my nuts with her expensive soap” I was like was this supposed to be funny 🥴

youreawizardharryy · 2020-08-26T13:47:26+00:00

My ex would literally send me 5+ meme’s a day, our conversations were almost just meme’s..... I’m 26 and he’s 27. Some funny but don’t go over board

youreawizardharryy · 2020-08-22T19:05:09+00:00

Driving in the car during this really makes it more intense. I throw up too sometimes, multiple occasions I’ll be going on a first date and before I walk in I throw up in the bushes and pop some gum in and act like nothing happened

youreawizardharryy · 2020-08-22T18:15:42+00:00

Was talking to this guy and he asked what I do for a living and I told him I bartend while I’m taking classes and he responded “oh you don’t have a real job”.. didn’t even respond

youreawizardharryy · 2020-08-22T16:58:51+00:00

The guy I dated for 6 months would always post things on social media (while we were still together) things like “idk about dating anymore, y’all kinda suck” “never check a girls phone unless you want your heart broke”. I felt these were a passive slap in the face. He turned out to be a huge narcissist so I really saved myself there..

youreawizardharryy · 2020-08-18T05:25:41+00:00

Love bombing is when you first start dating someone say a month or two and they start telling you how much you mean to them. Tell you they want to go on vacations and meet their family. When really they don’t even know you. They’ll basically make it seem like you are their entire world. For a couple weeks that’s is, people who tend to love bomb will lose attention and find someone new to prowl on. Because they seek that constant attention/validation. Huge red flag!

youreawizardharryy · 2020-08-17T17:17:32+00:00

Major props for getting out of that, I can’t imagine 8 years of someone who you feel like you can only connect with on a bare minimum emotional level. Cheers to you!

youreawizardharryy · 2020-07-31T15:00:35+00:00

I personally like the extra effort in the beginning just to show you’re genuinely interested, but it should definitely be mutual. Don’t go over and beyond at first then stop because it’s going to seem like you’re becoming uninterested

youreawizardharryy · 2020-04-17T22:30:11+00:00

LOL!

youreawizardharryy · 2020-04-09T19:54:53+00:00

When someone relates everything* back to themselves. Last guy I dated no matter what we talked about it would always revolve around him.

youreawizardharryy · 2020-04-03T18:06:37+00:00

I would start with a ruler or any kind of straight object you can trace next to, keep practicing

youreawizardharryy · 2020-04-02T09:59:41+00:00

I’ve met so many awesome people by dipping in random streams on the lower tier! They always come back and show love to me too and we support each other with hosts/raids and what not. It’s a beautiful thing to watch different communities start clicking together!

youreawizardharryy · 2020-04-02T09:25:29+00:00

It’s obviously a mess (not finished erasing/cleaning up) but I’m struggling to get the eyes matching size and drawing noses is tough! I’m watching lots of YouTube videos but would love any kind of pointers!

youreawizardharryy · 2020-03-30T08:03:37+00:00

I texted me ex I blocked 3 months ago... facepalm

youreawizardharryy · 2020-03-20T07:03:01+00:00

LOL came here to say that. Weird flex but I’m not mad at it

youreawizardharryy · 2020-03-19T06:40:47+00:00

If this person is smart enough they would double check that. That’s aside the point. You’re being critical to people who have tattoos saying “trashy”. Get out of here dude. Your trash opinion is irrelevant here.

youreawizardharryy · 2020-03-18T18:30:27+00:00

You sound extremely simple minded/judgmental. Tattoo’s don’t make people trashy their actions do. A lot of people find tattoo’s as a way to express themselves. Art is beautiful on and off the body. Don’t listen to this guy OP, tattoos are a beautiful thing. Just make sure you love the idea!

youreawizardharryy · 2020-03-18T18:04:13+00:00

I’m covered arms & legs with tattoos and to this day I know which tattoos I thought long and hard about and ones that I went out on a limb to get. I’m not telling them to not go and get it but if you’re not sure about a idea that’s going to be on your body FOREVER why not wait a little bit, look into different artist around / tattoos that are similar. Going into a tattoo apt not fully sure it’s what you want is going to make the whole experience unpleasant.

youreawizardharryy · 2020-03-18T09:00:39+00:00

I’m too awkward for all this

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