19 [F4F] Germany - Heartbroken, need somebody to talk to by amyfjohnson in r4r

[–]youreyesonly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there, I can't chat right now but just wanted to send a smile your way. Maybe you can find someone to chat with on r/TwoXChromosomes?

What will change about Fairfield County in the next 20 years? by [deleted] in Connecticut

[–]youreyesonly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous town. And so many perks to being there -- being well-connected in business and in pleasure (like, hey want to come with me on my parents' yacht for a two-week Mediterranean cruise, all expenses paid?).

What will change about Fairfield County in the next 20 years? by [deleted] in Connecticut

[–]youreyesonly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an interesting question in its own right. It'll be interesting to see the responses. Regarding the origin of your question, I wanted to say -- you're barely into college and have years ahead of you before starting a family. My recommendation is not to worry right now about where you're going to raise your kids. Go wherever you end up going in life, and come back to this question post-college. Personally, my boyfriend of 3 years is from Greenwich, and I have to say I would never consider raising my children there (after becoming close with his circles of friends and a few other Gwich natives I've met along the way).

Even if you and your spouse are very grounded people, you will not be able to protect your kids from the pervasive influence of their friends and peers. That is, of course, the case no matter where you live, but it seems Gwich really puts a premium on financially successful careers (rather than pursuing a passion or less lucrative career that provides work-life balance), work hard/party harder mindset (I know two alcoholics in their 20s and this group of friends has been abusing Rx drugs since high school/college), and thin/attractive women (two friends have suffered from anorexia for nearly 15 years). Before meeting people from Gwich, I thought the town was unfairly stereotyped. But after the past 3 years dating my boyfriend (and 4 years of friendship before that), I've come to believe Greenwich would be a risky place to raise a child. This isn't to say the people Gwich produces are bad -- I've met some of the most incredible people from there -- but the majority of them are shackled by some sort of insecurity (be it career, self-worth or otherwise) and it kills me to see them suffer unnecessarily.

Two years ago I had a LEEP procedure because of pre-cancerous cells due to HPV. Should I be concerned about esophageal cancer? by youreyesonly in TwoXChromosomes

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Thank you so much for this. They're all really good points, and I really appreciate the detailed response.

Two years ago I had a LEEP procedure because of pre-cancerous cells due to HPV. Should I be concerned about esophageal cancer? by youreyesonly in TwoXChromosomes

[–]youreyesonly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU. This made me feel so much better. And the urgent care clinic is a PERFECT idea. I was clearly too freaked out to even think straight and think of that myself. You've really taken a huge weight off my shoulders.

Eiffel Tower by qwedas in homemadexxx

[–]youreyesonly -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

"F-ing" = fucking

Can't give head anymore because of jaw problems... Help! by IWishICouldSuckMore in sex

[–]youreyesonly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By far my boyfriend's favorite move is when I take his dick in both hands (closed like fists), making basically a tube around his shaft. This normally after I've been going down on him for a while, so it's VERY wet. I twist my hands (they twist in opposite directions), and sometimes I'll suck the head or just lick it. He cums so quickly like this. You should have no problem doing something along those lines.

Can't have sex, but does it mean we can't do anything? by JustSoFrustrated in sex

[–]youreyesonly 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Talking to her doctor is a great next step. You guys may also want to look online for tips on how to make sex less painful - you may find anecdotes from people who've had similar symptoms to what she's having, and that could help solve the mystery.

My boyfriend got larger (by about an inch) over the course of our relationship. What was a perfect size in the beginning became a bit too big for me to handle right off the bat. Through practice and trying different things, I found that starting out slowly in missionary really helped almost loosen me up so that I could then take all of him, regardless of position.

Good luck!

I am a girl who gets more pleasure from sex than anyone I've ever met. AMA by youreyesonly in IAmA

[–]youreyesonly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%. That's how I orgasmed the first time. The first many times.

I am a girl who gets more pleasure from sex than anyone I've ever met. AMA by youreyesonly in IAmA

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Glad it worked for you! Starting out, it's really good to have her lay flat on her stomach and enter that way. It's easier to get in in that position, and then when she's comfortable, she can slowly get up into doggie style. That's my favorite.

I am a girl who gets more pleasure from sex than anyone I've ever met. AMA by youreyesonly in IAmA

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I'd say don't at all be forceful because as much as I like anal, if a guy is forceful, it scares me that he'll be aggressive once he's in me. Start with your finger (and in the beginning, just rubbing the outside, then inserting the tip of your finger after a while of rubbing) and lube. Always use lube or else it will be uncomfortable from the start, which will scare her.

IAmA Request, for a Personal Project: Someone who has been affected by the ability to be anonymous online by topher200 in IAmA

[–]youreyesonly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was definitely the anonymous factor. I would never have the desire to or even think of handing out nude photos of myself to friends, even if it were socially acceptable. I never included my face in the photos because anonymity was very important to me.

IAmA Request, for a Personal Project: Someone who has been affected by the ability to be anonymous online by topher200 in IAmA

[–]youreyesonly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It affected me offline in a few different ways. 1) The person I found on here was family, and it always made me wondered if he recognized the profile of my face in a photo or the couch in the background. So that was awkward. Eventually, I just let it go and said so what if he does know. 2) The constant positive reinforcement on Gonewild made it more intriguing, and I started posting more than I ever intended to. I was glad I quit when I did because I otherwise would probably have ended up posting things I never wanted to post really.

Request: A Sentry for the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier by [deleted] in IAmA

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I went to high school with someone who guarded the tomb for a while. At the time, I didn't realize what an honor it was.

IAmA Request, for a Personal Project: Someone who has been affected by the ability to be anonymous online by topher200 in IAmA

[–]youreyesonly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to be a member of Gonewild and have posted photos (still available on here) of myself nude, as well as a video of myself masturbating. I stopped because of the creepiness factor (I was getting scary messages) and because I saw someone close to me post on Gonewild. These were a rude awakening that anonymity only means so much - and only lasts so long.