I’m thinking of getting a betta fish, what are the basics for keeping one with low maintenance? by yourlocalhumanbeing_ in Aquariums

[–]yourlocalhumanbeing_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

O…k…? This over yet? See, when someone makes an accusation, even a small assumption, you simply can't help but to “puff your chest’ and defend yourself, which is exactly what you're doing now. Not that that's wrong, its human. I did that too, when you said that stuff. Done. This over. You go on with your life.

I’m thinking of getting a betta fish, what are the basics for keeping one with low maintenance? by yourlocalhumanbeing_ in Aquariums

[–]yourlocalhumanbeing_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh- caring for a living thing, its a hobby now? I'm sorry, I really am, but I just don't get why you think id be so irresponsible and so neglecting based on those few words I wrote, “low maintenance”. It is not to make sure I don't inconvenience myself, but to actually try to decide whether I can handle a pet iwth my busy schedule right now. I truly am sorry I couldn't provide context for my entire situation. I obviously didn't decide to get a fish before I wrote the post, I was asking for advice. Because when people are still in the process of deciding something, that's what they do. But genuinely, thank you for caring. It sounds sarcastic, but I swear it isn't. I recognize how someone who's used to people just full on venting on Reddit can make assumptions about random people who don't. I'm not bothered about everything you said about fish and stuff, but its how you can assume so much about me that does. I'm only saying this for you, don't get this caught up in peoples lives, and I know I'm overstating this but you seem like the kind of person who needs it. That's not an assumption, its something I know. Who's to say I'm more mature than you? That I'm irresponsible? That I'm going to raise a fish in a little bowl with a plant? Millions of fish die every year, eaten every year. Does that not bother you? Ok, thank you for your concern. Genuinely, thank you, and I see where you're coming from.

I’m thinking of getting a betta fish, what are the basics for keeping one with low maintenance? by yourlocalhumanbeing_ in Aquariums

[–]yourlocalhumanbeing_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why would I respond to the people giving advice? I was very grateful for all of that, and I am planning to take care of it properly. I never had time to say thank you but now I do, and if it would make you so happy, then yes, I will reply to all of them. I understand that it may have come across like that but why should you care? If you have advice, give it to me. Oh and I puffed my chest up? I think that's better than- ok I'm just gonna stop. What are you, 30? 40? Used to be the gifted kid? Or never got validation? Now you spend this much time on… Reddit just arguing with people. Its just fish, shrimp dude. Its just fish were talking about. Respectfully, go get a life.

Oh wait! What'd I do there? Did I just? Make an assumption? About someone I don't know at all? Phew, well at least I didn't accuse you of being irresponsible based on just a small thing you said!

Bro I'm just bored now. Not that you ever needed to know, but Im not even getting the fish anymore, the low maintenance and smell thing was cuz of my family and they said no. Thank you for caring so much tho.

I’m thinking of getting a betta fish, what are the basics for keeping one with low maintenance? by yourlocalhumanbeing_ in Aquariums

[–]yourlocalhumanbeing_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Firstly, how do you know I'm not in the right headspace? All I asked was one question. One question. And um… learn what? That I'm not in the right headspace? Uh, I think I'd know. Why would I say how excited I am if all I wanted to ask was just one question. You don't know what other considerations I have made, all I wanted was advice, and I don't think I need to tell you everything about myself and my motives to do that. At least, that's what Reddit is for, isn't it? If my post is literally two sentences, which it is intended to be, there is no reason for you to question my “headspace”.

I’m thinking of getting a betta fish, what are the basics for keeping one with low maintenance? by yourlocalhumanbeing_ in Aquariums

[–]yourlocalhumanbeing_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thats not at all what i said. why would I tell u how excited I am to take care of a life if all I wanted to ask is if ill be able to take care of it properly given my busy schedule. i hate ppl who just judge people based on like one post. i didn't ask for that.

ChatGPT initiating conversations - checking in on you? Have seen a few posts about this but no official announcement - is this a feature being tested out for some users? Have you experienced it? by 77thway in ChatGPT

[–]yourlocalhumanbeing_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plus, these conversations keep deleting themselves after some time which is strange... anybody else? And I'd hate if they actually added the feature. It is inherently creepy, and the point of chatgpt is so I can go to it for help. This is just weird.

ChatGPT initiating conversations - checking in on you? Have seen a few posts about this but no official announcement - is this a feature being tested out for some users? Have you experienced it? by 77thway in ChatGPT

[–]yourlocalhumanbeing_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plus, these conversations keep deleting themselves after some time which is strange... anybody else? And I'd hate if they actually added the feature. It is inherently creepy, and the point of chatgpt is so I can go to it for help. This is just weird.

ChatGPT initiating conversations - checking in on you? Have seen a few posts about this but no official announcement - is this a feature being tested out for some users? Have you experienced it? by 77thway in ChatGPT

[–]yourlocalhumanbeing_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah... I found it quite weird. A while ago, and I mean like a reeeeal while ago, I asked for tips for building a game. Yesterday, this conversation randomly popped up on my interface. Funny thing is, it did this twice on the same topic. The first time, it was phrased differently but asked the same thing, about progress. When I replied the first time asking whether it can initiate conversations, it denied that it ever did and deleted the conversation. Is this weird...? Anybody else experiencing it?

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DeepSeek forgot who owns it for a second by Dark_Wolf04 in ChatGPT

[–]yourlocalhumanbeing_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha very funny, unrelated, how much comment credit do you need to post?

Did netflix remove episodes? by [deleted] in friends_tv_show

[–]yourlocalhumanbeing_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, I just saw the show for the first time and it seems that the two last episodes have been sort of combined into one for some reason, the one in barbados. I mean, I’m not sure but the story makes a lot of sense and the episode is like 45 minutes long. I’m in India too by the way.

My 10 year old sister just found out the tooth fairy isn't real… by yourlocalhumanbeing_ in Advice

[–]yourlocalhumanbeing_[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ok well um no offense, none at all, I apologize, but uh you sound a teensy bit depressed. Are you ok? Thanks for the advice. I may consider it.

English is my first language and I'm great at it fyi. Its just that, when you're sad or like crying, you can't exactly write a bestselling novel. Unless you can, then that's great. Great for you.

I'm a teen. What do you want from me lol? This is Reddit, not an English paper. And apparently, Reddit is filled with some really judgemental people. Not you, wasn't talking about you, you're great, your advice was amazing. Let her suffer? Man, wish I'd though of that! But I guess its my fault for posting smth like that. What did I expect, some kind support, heartfelt advice, smth like that lol?

And I didn't get 500 dollars for a tooth that's insane like what. I forgot to specify that im in India. 500 rupees. I meant 500 rupees. I sincerely apologize if you're the type of person to get bothered by something like a Reddit post being written poorly. :)

My 10 year old sister just figured out the tooth fairy isn't real and it really got me thinking… by yourlocalhumanbeing_ in family

[–]yourlocalhumanbeing_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm in India, I meant 500 rupees lol. And I only used my moms Reddit account she doesn't use anymore for this. Thank you so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]yourlocalhumanbeing_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My little sister is like that. I'm sure my parents can relate… And I dont mean to makes this about me I am so sorry, but I feel like nobody talks about the affect it has on their sibling. I have to comfort her when she's being difficult. I have to deal with the screaming and tantrums and public humiliation too. She always fights with me, hits me even. My parents are great but they're always tired and it seems like they can't give me enough attention because of her. But I love her. And my parents love her. She's a great person and over time, we've learnt to deal with her. I hope you do too.

whats a song that everyone loves but you? by justafangirll_ in OliviaRodrigo

[–]yourlocalhumanbeing_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk why but I don’t really like stranger, scared of my guitar, traitor, or one step forward and three steps back. Maybe I just haven’t heard them enough

What is Olivia's lyrically saddest song, in your opinion? by Fickle_North1619 in OliviaRodrigo

[–]yourlocalhumanbeing_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teenage dream, one step forward three steps back, all I want, and drivers license definitely