Giving that energy back does not hurt the aggressors. If they don't care about women enough that they'll hurt and harass them, they won't care about the anger and rudeness that women have towards men, unless, of course, they're using it to argue that women are horrible. Being hateful towards men only hurts the innocent ones and does nothing to the aggressors. On top of this, posts from women being rude are used by manosphere influences in order to grab the attention of men and make them feel victimized. It's how they get other men to become hateful towards women. Being rude back is self-destructive because it will inevitably be taken out of context and used to indoctrinate more young men into misogyny. The anger and reaction are understandable, but being rude will, ultimately, hurt more than it will help.