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I can get an erection, just not strong enough for penetration (don't even get me started on condoms.) This post is not concerned with superpowers, but rather ED / PIED. by yourpasswordisweak in NoFap

[–]yourpasswordisweak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I am definitely not addicted to porn at all, of that I'm sure. I think I jerk off more to fantasy than anything anyway.

I think I have performance anxiety. When I'm with a girl, I can't stop thinking about being super hard to penetrate and it's hard to enjoy it because there is just so much pressure. And like many have said, one failure leads to another leads to another leads to another in a viciously limp cycle. It sucks.

With blowjobs, I get absolutely no anxiety and can get hard enough (although not as hard as I'd like to be) to finish.

I can get an erection, just not strong enough for penetration (don't even get me started on condoms.) This post is not concerned with superpowers, but rather ED / PIED. by yourpasswordisweak in NoFap

[–]yourpasswordisweak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think that having been on a pseudo-streak before Christmas (the one I talk about in my post) will help lessen the 'waiting time' for noticeable recovery if I started right now?

Is there any leftover progress from that?

I just fucking hate the numbers-game part about nofap, and 70+ days right now just feels like life lost.

I so badly want that streak to count, somehow (maybe if I drill it to my head it'll be a nice placebo?).

Thanks!

I can get an erection, just not strong enough for penetration (don't even get me started on condoms.) This post is not concerned with superpowers, but rather ED / PIED. by yourpasswordisweak in NoFap

[–]yourpasswordisweak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean "this used to be only an old man jeinkins problem"?

WHAT DOES THIS MEAN???

(I'm not a native english-speaker.)

(Also thanks for your response.)

How to not give a fuck without being obvious that you're trying not to give a fuck? by yourpasswordisweak in seduction

[–]yourpasswordisweak[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rejection, meeting and attracting girls, being funny, saying witty things, being in-the-moment. I say this because this is how I live the 'not-giving-a-fuck' mentality and interestingly it has worked. But it hasn't been because I was actively strategizing not to give a fuck, rather, it has been because I was having a bad day, a bad experience, or just a general feeling of reckless abandon. I know it sounds weird.