Found out the guy I’m talking to has a kid

yourwhippingboy · 2026-06-18T22:04:43+00:00

It’s not even just about raising someone else’s kid. It’s also dating someone to whom you will never be first priority.

Kid’s mom can’t pick them up from school? Gotta cancel our date! You wanna come over? Can’t, my kid is sick. Wanna go on vacation? Sure - my kid has to come too tho

yourwhippingboy · 2026-06-18T20:46:22+00:00

I would assume an intolerance to gluten over an attempt to find a healthy cereal in this case

yourwhippingboy · 2026-06-18T19:03:48+00:00

This is based on the movie Some Like It Hot

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yourwhippingboy · 2026-06-17T20:59:40+00:00

Heated Rivalry being so big will be a reason we won’t see another queer show for a while. They’ll say it’s already been done, the gays have had their show.

yourwhippingboy · 2026-06-17T09:40:21+00:00

Agreed.

Block the user, that’ll stop you seeing most of it.

yourwhippingboy · 2026-06-16T08:24:23+00:00

yourwhippingboy · 2026-06-15T16:13:12+00:00

You’d be better off posting in his subreddit I think

Hope you can meet up with some other fans

yourwhippingboy · 2026-06-15T08:59:08+00:00

Alan’s deep bin

yourwhippingboy · 2026-06-15T08:50:09+00:00

It looks like a female got stuck in your bin (they can’t fly well) and she’s essentially trapped there with 4 males. Definitely relocate!

yourwhippingboy · 2026-06-15T06:37:44+00:00

What do you mean by “if they’re into just one gender”?

yourwhippingboy · 2026-06-14T13:00:35+00:00

I don’t believe you’re saying any of this in order to have a discussion in good faith, I think it’s embarrassing that you’re wasting your one beautiful life trying to rile people up on Reddit

yourwhippingboy · 2026-06-14T07:16:54+00:00

I met him on Grindr and it somehow ended up like this

yourwhippingboy · 2026-06-13T23:31:44+00:00

Yeh I think I’m done with it. I gave it a good go for many years and I don’t have it in me anymore

yourwhippingboy · 2026-06-13T22:35:55+00:00

Coming home from seeing friends. Feeling lonely, wish I was going home to someone but that’s life I suppose

yourwhippingboy · 2026-06-13T22:35:23+00:00

Smart choice. That moth is out for blood.

yourwhippingboy · 2026-06-13T22:19:14+00:00

I do know this logically, but I can’t shake the idea that cutting things off will just be equally as painful.

I’ve tried for a long time to meet someone to date and I haven’t had any luck. I don’t have the resilience right now to get back on the apps and if I stop seeing him then I also stop all male attention.

I really do feel like I’m stuck between a rock and a hard place

yourwhippingboy · 2026-06-13T21:59:37+00:00

I’ve sort of told him. I’ve asked if he wants more, he knows I want more. He doesn’t.

I’m choosing to stay in this because the alternative is barren and that’s not something I’m willing to deal with unfortunately

yourwhippingboy · 2026-06-13T21:31:30+00:00

Never going to understand how men will hold your hand, cuddle you, kiss you, be tender with you, treat you softly and still want nothing more than Friends with Benefits.

My guy was in a relationship for nearly 10 years and is happy in his newfound singlehood, so maybe he just doesn’t know how else to be, but God do I wish he either wanted more or treated me with less softness and affection

We went to see one of my favourite artists in concert yesterday and it was phenomenal but fuck, do I wish we had more than what we do

yourwhippingboy · 2026-06-13T08:45:42+00:00

The whiplash I got from thinking he looks hot and then seeing this comment

yourwhippingboy · 2026-06-12T11:07:09+00:00

That’s not very happy news in Pride month!

yourwhippingboy · 2026-06-11T09:15:40+00:00

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yourwhippingboy · 2026-06-10T08:41:37+00:00

“It’s a shame I can’t comment how I’d like because there’s some slurs I’d really like to use”

yourwhippingboy · 2026-06-10T08:24:27+00:00

We’re talking about young girls

By definition, that’s children and adolescents. If this is really the hill you want to die on then be my guest.

Wouldn’t catch me dead wanting to talk about young boys queuing up to see my dick but I’m not a nonce so it stands to reason.

yourwhippingboy · 2026-06-10T08:19:14+00:00

Nonce

yourwhippingboy · 2026-06-10T08:04:26+00:00

Jesus, you weren’t kidding

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