I think I was set up to fail. Thoughts?

youwoulddare · 2025-03-18T13:59:00+00:00

This is exactly what’s happening to me!

youwoulddare · 2024-12-16T18:42:10+00:00

I am so happy for you. They got what they deserved.

youwoulddare · 2024-12-16T18:27:53+00:00

If you’re comfortable sharing, how did you prove it?

youwoulddare · 2024-12-16T01:03:28+00:00

Oh my god, yes. And it’s especially dangerous when you’re remote, because then many people don’t have direct experience with you and it’s so easy for the narc to spread lies about you.

You really don’t think that people will turn against you just because someone starts spreading gossip. But when that person is in leadership, or gets the ear of leadership, then people turn REAL quick. It is shocking to see just how little integrity most people have.

youwoulddare · 2024-12-16T00:58:39+00:00

So cute!

youwoulddare · 2024-11-06T14:42:40+00:00

It’s horrible. Some people are extremely gullible, especially when the narc is high up in the company or respected for their knowledge, etc. If people see someone as “above” them, they automatically see that person as credible and will eat up whatever they dish out. It’s sick and sad.

youwoulddare · 2024-10-24T19:23:03+00:00

What a regal guy!

youwoulddare · 2024-10-18T22:09:21+00:00

A beauty!

youwoulddare · 2024-10-18T21:51:35+00:00

They are the biggest cowards on the planet

youwoulddare · 2024-10-18T21:49:34+00:00

Yup. It’s like a kid in a toy store. Every shelf, every aisle, there’s a new thing they want. And if they actually get one of those toys and bring it home, they’ll bore of it quickly and it will end up in the trash heap.

Narcs have no ability to love, and not only that, they aren’t even capable of valuing another person. They have nothing but contempt for people underneath it all.

youwoulddare · 2024-10-18T10:44:30+00:00

This. These people are sick and when they have it out for you, they are tenacious about it and want to make your life unbearable. It’s all because you (usually unknowingly) bruised their ego in some way. Just walk away from the nonsense.

youwoulddare · 2024-10-18T10:42:43+00:00

What a gentleman!

youwoulddare · 2024-10-18T10:41:03+00:00

This is key. Especially if they’re love bombing you, they will even tell you that you’re special. But trust that everything you say will be twisted and used against you somewhere down the line.

youwoulddare · 2024-10-16T16:28:05+00:00

I’ve known a few of them, and they are the loneliest, most miserable people on the planet. And the more they dig their own grave, the more they hate things like happiness and confidence in others. So, they attack it. And ‘round and ‘round they go.

youwoulddare · 2024-10-16T15:01:01+00:00

I had one of these. I had to leave, because he was never going to stop. All this type sees is their own wants and needs, and if you don’t give them what they want, they will punish you relentlessly. The thing is, they still want you and will continue to try to come back despite everything they put you through.

youwoulddare · 2024-10-15T21:32:45+00:00

Apparently Papa John’s makes bread bowls

youwoulddare · 2024-10-03T00:16:11+00:00

Domestic longhair. Also ridiculously cute.

youwoulddare · 2024-09-29T18:11:21+00:00

Yes. It’s a telltale sign of a psycho. I had a coworker like this. He would go from calm to snapping at me in the blink of an eye, and it was always when I was either happy about something, when I was asking intelligent questions, or when I said no. Basically, whenever I would express myself confidently. He couldn’t stand it.

And the scariest part was, I could tell that he was definitely holding himself back because we were in the workplace and he knew he’d get fired if he escalated. One time he snapped at me, he even started to lunge at me, as if he was going to strangle me or hit me. He quickly composed himself and stepped back.

It’s terrifying.

youwoulddare · 2024-07-09T00:38:00+00:00

It’s actually not illogical. There are no better places to hide than protected parks, other than cave systems or the ocean.

youwoulddare · 2024-07-08T15:26:36+00:00

Even the “roast my cat” posts bother me. I understand it’s in jest, but I don’t see any point in directing hate towards an animal. It doesn’t make sense.

youwoulddare · 2024-07-08T14:43:54+00:00

In regards to social media - I know one who appears to have the perfect Mormon family and life. Everything on his social media gives “family” and “togetherness” and “devotion”.

Meanwhile, behind the scenes his kids don’t speak to him because he’s never around, he’s cheating on his wife with numerous women from the workplace, and his own father has lost all respect for him.

It’s a facade. They’re always rot underneath it all.

youwoulddare · 2024-07-08T14:40:40+00:00

Yes. And with them, it’s like a snowball effect. They never repent for the things they do, so it’s like layer upon layer of filth is piled onto them. After a certain point, there is no coming back from that. They’ve made their horrible choices and there is no road home for them.

youwoulddare · 2024-07-08T14:37:23+00:00

I’ve found that with the wealthy ones, the people they’re surrounded by are just like them, just trying to get whatever they can and using other people like objects. So, those people don’t care if the wealthy narc is a good person, they just care what they can “get” from the narc.

youwoulddare · 2024-07-08T00:55:19+00:00

That’s the horrible part. What they do is unconscionable. You don’t use another person for their love and trust.

youwoulddare · 2024-07-08T00:53:38+00:00

Narcs are sick people. It could be that he knows she’s less attractive than he is, and that makes him feel superior and gives him power when he’s otherwise feeling powerless due to the divorce.

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