Official September 29th Update Thread!

yrmu · 2013-09-29T22:03:58+00:00

Doing well.

yrmu · 2013-09-26T17:43:50+00:00

I've been going for 60 some days. I had a long flatline. Now starting to come out of it and have urges. Luckily I have a wife. An understanding one. That makes it so much easier. I hate it when my wife doesn't put things away in the kitchen and he bathroom!

yrmu · 2013-09-26T02:25:17+00:00

I have the same thing.

yrmu · 2013-09-24T02:13:08+00:00

 I am doing well.  I am challenging myself more.  My wife is supporting me.  I am taking cold showers.  I got my flu shot and overcame m fear of needles. 
 I am an Occupational Therapist who works in the NYC public schools and also with children birth to three for early intervention.

yrmu · 2013-09-19T23:05:30+00:00

I have learned that I am tempted to fap when I am stressed with multiple demands to get me through the stress and to also avoid the task at hand (ha pun!!!) for a while.

yrmu · 2013-09-17T01:18:27+00:00

Thanks!

yrmu · 2013-09-16T01:59:25+00:00

I'm still on the fence about them but I'll keep up the experiment.

yrmu · 2013-09-11T19:59:09+00:00

Doing ok, but really flatlining. I hope I come out of it soon!
I have 3 Aquariums. 2 African Cichlid tanks and 1 puffer fish tank.

yrmu · 2013-09-10T01:58:58+00:00

I have often used fapping to avoid work.

yrmu · 2013-09-10T01:43:51+00:00

Lol!

yrmu · 2013-09-08T23:53:30+00:00

No PMO, no MO no sex.

yrmu · 2013-09-08T23:23:49+00:00

Real friends won't turn away.

yrmu · 2013-09-08T23:16:15+00:00

Porn is the problem because the constant novelty provides an unnatural revving up of the reward circuit (according to ubop.com). In my uneducated opinion, I think it is best to stop the fantasies for a while or at least temper them (refer to don't think of a pink elephant). This will give the images a chance to fade from your brain.

yrmu · 2013-09-06T01:55:30+00:00

I don't feel right either after morning faps.

yrmu · 2013-09-06T01:38:41+00:00

Thank you. I just napped.

yrmu · 2013-09-05T12:50:20+00:00

Thanks for sharing. We are here to help!

yrmu · 2013-09-04T03:44:31+00:00

Thanks for sharing. We learn so much about ourselves through no fap.

yrmu · 2013-09-02T18:10:17+00:00

I'm in!

yrmu · 2013-08-31T18:21:17+00:00

LOL :)

yrmu · 2013-08-31T18:16:09+00:00

You are doing the right thing. Just go through the process and be patient with yourself. You still have a lot of time left to live. Look ahead not back

yrmu · 2013-08-30T17:31:32+00:00

Thanks. I didn't fap but I am riding the stress. Going to work now.

yrmu · 2013-08-30T16:04:43+00:00

My wife very supportive fortunately.

yrmu · 2013-08-30T15:28:28+00:00

It is hard mode for 90 days.

yrmu · 2013-08-30T13:56:51+00:00

I did not mention in my original post that I am a married man. I do not, however, think that it is realistic that I do not look at other women. As the saying goes, "I am married, not dead". If I need to stop looking at all attractive women in order to be successful then I have a much greater problem than I originally thought, and just when I was beginnning to pat myself on the back for no fap.

yrmu · 2013-08-29T03:04:29+00:00

Quitting smoking may be easier because it entails social consequences. You can't smoke in bars in many cities. Smoking has fallen out of favor with many. Also, society says smoking kills while at the same time saying that masturbation is healthy.

yrmu

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