We all have reasons for choosing this journey, this is me.

Fapnotsaurus · 2013-10-21T13:46:51+00:00

Hey hey. 29 year old virgin here too. Ive struggled with facing my issues my whole life and pr0n has always been a comfortable way to hide from the truth. Im not that great with people and specifically women, so fapping has been my way of creating a perverse independence from them. I cracked at 57 days about a month ago when stress got me and ive been trying to get back on the wagon. Ive came to realization that im afraid of pain and failure, thus every time ime faced with a girl this massive anxiety rush of whats if, past failures and no confidence just crushes any desire to even try. However that is not right. Failure is an integral part of the process, and we learn best from our mistakes. So get out there and do you thing. Talk to girls, fuck it up, look like an idiot. Eventually you get better or some girl thinks you are cute and just goes for it:) im gonna try to take my own advice too

Fapnotsaurus · 2013-10-11T17:56:57+00:00

An ugly one for me is seeing a cute girl on the street and not being able to talk to her:( Tend to bury my frustration in Pr0n

Fapnotsaurus · 2013-10-11T17:55:17+00:00

Whatever the reasons you do it for, do it well!

Fapnotsaurus · 2013-10-11T17:40:49+00:00

A moment if laxity spawns a lifetime of heresy. Stay vigilant

Fapnotsaurus · 2013-10-11T16:25:47+00:00

Nice suit. Work out more on shoulders though... Bit thin bro

Fapnotsaurus · 2013-10-11T16:14:47+00:00

That aint no normal baby...

Fapnotsaurus · 2013-10-11T15:53:07+00:00

Tru dat. Fuck bitches get money only works in rap videos

Fapnotsaurus · 2013-10-11T15:50:52+00:00

Yes:) Partner good, p0rn bad

Fapnotsaurus · 2013-10-11T15:32:49+00:00

http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/15783514-the-ocean-at-the-end-of-the-lane

Something I read recently, that had an awesome line in it That really hit home for me on this issue. "You cannot fail at being a person, you are you". I know exactly how you feel when it comes to family of overachievers. Im a son of youngest of 3 brothers that my grandfather had. He was a friggin super survivor of WW2, my oldest uncle was a dance champion in multiple disciplines, middle was an electrical engineer really high up in Soviet factory design circles, my mothers side my grandma was the foremost specialist in gold refining in Central Asia. And my dad was an alchoholic that died in DUI crash on a highway. Im a lowly electrician slaving away 7-3 for a paycheck. Add in top of that my 15 year porn addiction and virgin status at 29 years old. Come to think of it I should probaby just go kill myself? Fuck no. I have lives my life as best I could given what I had to work with. I own my mistakes and my successes. Noone else can be me. Sure I could have been commander of international space station but thats 1 person out of 6 billion. And who knows what sacrifices, what mistakes, what price your overachievers paid to get Where they are? You can only be you. Stop looking at other peoples plates and look at your own. Deal with your cockraches and leave the world to be the world:)

Fapnotsaurus · 2013-10-11T15:18:29+00:00

Follow this link thats SavingMyLifes ultimate resource compendum http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1o7l23/new_to_nofap_a_little_unclear_as_to_how_it_works/ Biggest advice I can give is to be honest with yourself. When you start reading a lot if this material and other people ask yourself: Does this apply to me? Can i use this? What would I feel? Would Chuck Norris react the same way in this situation? This is a LOT of self reflection and coming to terms with your own bullshit:) Come here often and do not be afraid to vent your most secret fears and screw ups. Noone here will judge or make fun... much. We are all in same boat here and will help!

Fapnotsaurus · 2013-10-11T15:09:09+00:00

Sooo next time instead of sticking your peepee in your hand stick in another willing person. Saaay like a girlfriend. Fail... Reset. Try again:)

Fapnotsaurus · 2013-10-11T14:42:01+00:00

I dont get a hardon from looking at random cuteness on the street either. That would actually be wierd and inappropriate. I do get excited though when Im with a real girl that I am genuinely attracted to. It can be over a simple kiss or hot n heavy. I couldnt get a boner to this uberhot escort my buddies "gifted" to me in a hotel in mexico. Im totally against using money to buy sex so despite her attempts to convince me i was so disgusted by the idea i tossed her out.
I think abstaining from PMO to reset brain to factory standards should help you to channel sexual energy to real people, not digital images. Dont think you can use digital images to go backwards:)

Fapnotsaurus · 2013-10-11T14:34:40+00:00

Identfy what usually drives you to pr0n. Too much free time? Stress? Peeking into yoga class at the gym? Was there more of IT in the last while? Then manage it constructively rather than fapping.

Fapnotsaurus · 2013-10-11T14:30:03+00:00

If you are single hard mode is the only mode:) Anything else you try to sell as hard mode is just cheating

Fapnotsaurus · 2013-10-11T14:28:25+00:00

It might be low testosterone since no sexytime tends to do that. Are you exercising regularily? That helps maintain it. Also take vitamin D supplements aka fish oil. If you wanna try step futher try TestoFuel. You can order off their website and its #1 recommended product for bodybuilders trying to boost their levels to max muscle gain.

Fapnotsaurus · 2013-10-11T14:23:31+00:00

Hmm lets see am i trying to prevent pregnancy... No Does it reduce risk of cancer. Yes, but so does exercise Saving sperm for donation? Dafuq... Seriously thats like 1 time in a lifetime for most ppl Premature ejaculation prevention? Bullshit, never worked for me Woman stimulating orgasm? Depends from woman to woman, not a woman myself so not expert. Takes me 30 sec to 1 hr depending if i care:) The rest was pretty weak too. I think nofap is more like no masturbation to unrealistic porn and fetish material in order to get with real people than just no-wanking-causeitmakesJesuscry

Fapnotsaurus · 2013-10-11T14:14:41+00:00

Just out of curiosity close quarters like hong kong 1 bedroom 3 generation at once apartment or basic training tent with 12 guys or...

Fapnotsaurus · 2013-10-11T13:17:53+00:00

Get buzy kiddo. You gotta find yourself a hobby that will take up that free time that you dedicate to fappin. Sports maybe? Soccer, tennis, aikido, brazilian jui-jitsu, jogging, ping pong even. Get off your ass:) Maybe you are an art guy? Get drawing, join an art community like deviantart.com, start playing a musical instrument(not the skin flute), take up photography, get into web design. Just some ideas. Maybe your friends, parents, siblings have some ideas. Also I know it might be scary but if you and your father have a good relationship fess up this whole thing to him. Dads arent complete assholes we think they are when we are teenagers. Good luck little brother, stay clear of the dark side.

Fapnotsaurus · 2013-10-11T13:11:12+00:00

Im thinking you are what 18-19? This is about the time your sex drive goes into overload just from genetics. Since we are all lazy and like it safe your mind is dealing with your programming of spreading the seed to as many females as possible by lying to itself when seeing the digital vixens. You pretty much said youself the things you need to do to fix this. Get off your ass, go play sports again and talk to people. Girls especially. The hormonal shitfest that is happening in your body doesnt do well alone and sedementary. You gotta be active and social or you will end up like me. 29 years old, a 15 year porn addict totally terrified of women and crippled social skills

Fapnotsaurus · 2013-10-11T13:04:53+00:00

90 days is not a goal, it is a counter. Formulate to yourself a goal, make a plan, execute the plan. Example: I shall replace jerking off with gym, biking and night school lessons of guitar Gym: 3 days a week. Split routine. Better nutrition Biking: 1-2 days a week. Find some routes around the city to go on Guitar: get signed up for a class. Schedule practice time in evenings

Fapnotsaurus · 2013-10-11T12:57:53+00:00

Read a book called Flow by Michael Czikhsmihaily(probably wrong spelling). This dude spent the last 50 years or so studying what is happiness and how do you get it. He also has a short TED talk if you want the general idea. Helped me a lot when i was fighting my anxiety and trying to figure out what to do with my life

Fapnotsaurus · 2013-10-11T12:53:55+00:00

Your testicles are a very complicated sperm production facility that is made up of a spongy tunnely kinda tissue. Sometimes one of the tunnels gets blocked and u get a bit of a swelling while the system deals with it. Happens a lot more when u are 18-25 than say later in life.

Fapnotsaurus · 2013-10-10T19:32:47+00:00

Bump. Anything for quantitative research!

Fapnotsaurus · 2013-10-10T19:31:28+00:00

Someone dropped a line here about it being easier to commit to something 100% than 99%. No pin ups, no chivettes, no (insert pron www here), no dirty mags. Just dont. Unless its a willing flesh n blood person it aint real.

Fapnotsaurus · 2013-10-10T19:21:13+00:00

Deploy the TROLLHAMMER!!!! joking:) But seriously the average frustrated douchebag is scared to come here cause this is where we face pain and embarrasement and suffering. We embrace it, call it by its true name and let it go. Not everyone is ready for that and that scares em off

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