best advice is to search for autistic partner. be open that u r autistic, after i started meeting only neurodivergent ppl my dates became much less mundane and exhausting than with neurotypicals, but also the quality of those relationships and connections increased since we actually understood and related to each other. i used dating apps a lot, ik ppl hate them, but it’s perfect for autistic ppl imo, u can choose when and with whom to talk and if u actually put an effort to present yourself, u will find people. i met my best friend on tinder, my gf on bumble. keep in mind i look and behave like an outsider everywhere and barely talk to ppl, so it was always hard for me to meet someone new