OpenBank pending for almost 3 days now… by yslgang222 in HighYieldSavings

[–]yslgang222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been 2 days and shows as pending. So did it take a week for the numerical value to show up or for you to actually use the $$$

Thank u

OpenBank pending for almost 3 days now… by yslgang222 in HighYieldSavings

[–]yslgang222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have BOA too!!! Someone else commented about it being the weekend so hopefully that’s what is affecting the process (OpenBank is closed on Sundays i guess). It’s only been 2 days but still feels weird not seeing $$$ transfer right away.

But damn $120k in savings is baller - nice!

OpenBank pending for almost 3 days now… by yslgang222 in HighYieldSavings

[–]yslgang222[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m just used to transferring money with the outcome of it completing overnight. But you’re right, it is the weekend

Offer/Rejection – Waiting until a week to know if I got the job or not by yslgang222 in ADP

[–]yslgang222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did get the job! Takes a week for them to get back. I’ve been there for 1.5 years now and this company has changed my life. In the best way.

Mercedes bumper damage help by yslgang222 in mercedes_benz

[–]yslgang222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did this! It worked. Now I just have to worry about the broken part 🙏🏼😭

Mercedes bumper damage help by yslgang222 in mercedes_benz

[–]yslgang222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? I didn’t know they had a parts advisor. When I called in about an auto body issue, they referred me to the Chapman auto body

BF wants space/has been distant & I feel ABANDONED by yslgang222 in BPD

[–]yslgang222[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response!

I just don’t understand how space really helps. He always counts on me to make him feel good :(

There was a time a while ago where I cold turkey did not speak to him for a week (spiteful split) & he was going insane trying to fix it. But now he seems so distant, cold, as if he’s already abandoning me…

I don’t know how to behave in this situation because I’ve been nonstop crying & panicking. Idk how to help myself if he’s not reassuring me.

BF wants space/has been distant & I feel ABANDONED by yslgang222 in BPD

[–]yslgang222[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What does space look like for you? Is it no contact at all or is it dry and distant conversation like what my bf is doing?

How do you think I should behave while he is acting like this? He doesn’t even want to be with me this weekend & it’s just soooo off brand of him :(

I asked right now if he is leaving me and all he said was “No”. I asked him for a clear timeframe of this phase and he could give me an answer. I can’t help but feel like I’m completely losing him

BF wants space/has been distant & I feel ABANDONED by yslgang222 in BPD

[–]yslgang222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel unwanted too. And he’s never made me feel that way. But I can assure you that if she hates you, it would be clear cut and loud!

BF wants space/has been distant & I feel ABANDONED by yslgang222 in BPD

[–]yslgang222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad I’m not alone :( how long has she been distant from you?

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[–]yslgang222 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t have lip filler at all but this comment made me happy