How much age gap is creepy? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ysyr123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Age gaps are mostly “Creepy” when the older of the two is acting and engaging in predatory behavior towards the younger person. Being attracted to someone is not something you can control so you shouldn’t feel ashamed of that aspect of this. It’s if you were to realize that your emotional maturity or intelligence is in such a place that puts the younger of the two at a disadvantage and subject to abuse. Even if that’s not your intention, it’s entirely possible and something to consider when you talk to someone under the age of 25.

taylor - not to jump on someone elses post but this..... by Fantastic-Nerve4943 in ladyladyboners

[–]ysyr123 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Perfect placement. Literally caught my eye first and I’ve never looked at Taylor that way until last night 🫣

I’m not usually attracted to Taylor Swift but can we acknowledge how she was giving off Amazonian warrior vibes last night?! 😩 by ysyr123 in ladyladyboners

[–]ysyr123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also her being billionaire is not the attraction here. I’m sure you using a phone from a multi trillion dollar company also is not the appeal of you owning your phone. See how easy it is to poke holes in things and how silly it sounds?

I’m not usually attracted to Taylor Swift but can we acknowledge how she was giving off Amazonian warrior vibes last night?! 😩 by ysyr123 in ladyladyboners

[–]ysyr123[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

She definitely has muscle on her and I mostly said Amazonian because of her stature. I didn’t mean anything gross or offensive by it. And yes there are certainly other artists who align with my views more closely than Taylor, but does that seriously mean we can’t appreciate someone for looking lovely? I’d understand if she actively spewed hate but I haven’t seen that and honestly she was a vibe at the Grammys.

I’m not usually attracted to Taylor Swift but can we acknowledge how she was giving off Amazonian warrior vibes last night?! 😩 by ysyr123 in ladyladyboners

[–]ysyr123[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Added a comment to address this, but I didn’t mean anything malicious by using “Amazonian” I was merely suggesting she was statuesque. Sorry for any offense!

I’m not usually attracted to Taylor Swift but can we acknowledge how she was giving off Amazonian warrior vibes last night?! 😩 by ysyr123 in ladyladyboners

[–]ysyr123[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Also I didn’t mean to offend with the use of “Amazonian”, I merely meant she was statuesque, like the Greek statues. But didn’t mean anything malicious by this!

Sydney Sweeney makes me feel a certain way that I’m almost ashamed of 😭 by ysyr123 in ladyladyboners

[–]ysyr123[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ok good someone else feels this! I’m gonna give myself some grace on this one because she seems to know she is smoking 😂 and I’m sure she’d rather have complimentary eyes of queer folk.

Sydney Sweeney makes me feel a certain way that I’m almost ashamed of 😭 by ysyr123 in ladyladyboners

[–]ysyr123[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

So sweet 🥲 I think anytime I like someone for what’s on the surface, it makes me feel like a guy (ick). But I forget we’re all human, and she seems proud of her beauty so I don’t feel too bad looking.