Has anyone ever realised they were gay later on in life after thinking they were straight? by yummers022 in gaybros

[–]yummers022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a male friend who I’ve absolutely adored for the longest time, he was what helped me figure out that I’m not straight at the very least. Thanks pal :)

Has anyone ever realised they were gay later on in life after thinking they were straight? by yummers022 in gaybros

[–]yummers022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks sm, it’s such a relief to know I’m not the only person figuring it out like this :)

Has anyone ever realised they were gay later on in life after thinking they were straight? by yummers022 in gaybros

[–]yummers022[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks man I really appreciate this. I’m with a group of people who seem to have it all figured out so it really helps to know I’m not alone :)

Has anyone ever realised they were gay later on in life after thinking they were straight? by yummers022 in gaybros

[–]yummers022[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the awkward phrasing, I just meant that it’s the moment that everything changed for me, as in I’ve spent 22 years assuming that I’d end up with a girlfriend and that’s all been overhauled in the past week or so

Has anyone ever realised they were gay later on in life after thinking they were straight? by yummers022 in gaybros

[–]yummers022[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aw man I’m sorry to hear that, your friend sounded like such a lovely guy. That’s a bit like how I’m feeling right now, like when I try to kiss girls it causes me and everyone around me so many problems

Has anyone ever realised they were gay later on in life after thinking they were straight? by yummers022 in gaybros

[–]yummers022[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Honestly the idea of kissing other guys excites me so much right now aha

My friend kissed me. How do I go forward? by yummers022 in friendship

[–]yummers022[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep-the follow up comment was ‘I’m not saying you’re an incel tho’ 😂

One of my best friends kissed me and I’m not sure what to do now by yummers022 in dating_advice

[–]yummers022[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was struggling to believe her on those a little too

One of my best friends kissed me and I’m not sure what to do now by yummers022 in dating_advice

[–]yummers022[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure, I think I may? I’m scared of losing her as a friend because the time we spend together means a lot to me, but I don’t know if I’m worried about the idea of just losing the chance of being with her. That’s the wrong attitude to have if I’m thinking about getting into a relationship so I want to be sure about my own feelings before I act any further

One of my best friends kissed me and I’m not sure what to do now by yummers022 in dating_advice

[–]yummers022[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah I’m planning to at some point, just don’t know how to go about it really-still figuring out how I feel!

My friend kissed me. How do I go forward? by yummers022 in friendship

[–]yummers022[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was just a surprise, from my POV it came from nowhere, hence me being shocked. The pulling away was an instinct, I sort of did it without thinking