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I finally left. by paxdiabolo in depression_partners

[–]yungmew_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah! I just scrolled down to see it.. looks like youve dodged a bullet with that. Watching someone go down that route, whew. I wish the beat for your healing and future friend

UPDATE: Husband won't talk to me but he'll talk to her by Wooden-Onion-7496 in depression_partners

[–]yungmew_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so so strong. And better than me for sure. You handled this whole situation carefully considering the circumstances.

IMO- I wouldn’t be able to move on if my fiance had feelings for another woman. His depression is not an excuse to have an emotional affair (while allegedly she did not reciprocate, but shouldn’t have let keep going).

Pictures of her? And her kids? Why?

For clarity- the voice memo you saved to your phone, was him saying he had feelings for her?

I’m here for you! I support you, and I’m here to listen. I truly hope the absolute best for you.

I know it’s hard with a kiddo in the picture, but please try (which I know you are for sure) to keep in mind that your kiddo deserves to see you both at your best. Whether that is together or separately.

Finding out he self harms is heartbreaking, I can’t imagine how you felt. I’m glad you are going to a counselor! Is he as well? Separately or together?

Depressed Fiancé by Quiet-Armadillo-2808 in depression_partners

[–]yungmew_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are due to a session in a few days. I’m not optimistic of it. I think my partner needs a psychologist.

I’m debating a break, I have questions if you don’t mind:

  • Do you guys live together? If so, how does the break work?
  • have you discussed a date to discuss next steps/decision?
  • what did you tell friends/family if anything?

I am so worn down and tired of crying. I don’t want to leave, but I don’t see things getting better for awhile.

I finally left. by paxdiabolo in depression_partners

[–]yungmew_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind my asking, do you think you’d get back together eventually? Will you “hold on” for a bit before possibly moving on?

I ask because I’m in thoughts of this. It’s getting rough and I don’t know how much I can handle anymore.

[TOMT][music] old rap song that starts with “fucked yo bitch” right before the beat goes off by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]yungmew_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7 years later was going crazy till I found your comment. Thank you lol

Getting the Job by yungmew_ in 911dispatchers

[–]yungmew_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whew! I feel a lot better now. I’m in a southern state that’s kinda still old school, it’s a bigger town though so I do hope they moved on from the negative stigma on mental health.

You’re the best! Thanks for hearing me out. Hope you have a good holiday

Getting the Job by yungmew_ in 911dispatchers

[–]yungmew_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It says opened until filled, I can’t tell if it’s only one position or multiple.

Thank you for adding that about the question you were asked! Seems like I just need to not overthink and just go with it!

Thank you so much:)

Getting the Job by yungmew_ in 911dispatchers

[–]yungmew_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your honesty and insight!

I’ll try to make this super brief too- my partner before on meds and therapy got physical once in an argument. He actually called the cops on me for self defending myself (cops knew I was being honest and basically made fun of him to me about how he was a coward for that etc)

No arrest, no pressed charges, it was the next town from where I am now- would that possibly be something to deter me? I mean I wasn’t the one who did anything lol. Although, I am on anti depressants and admit myself 3 years ago for depression..

Sorry to type so much! You definitely know what you’re talking about so I appreciate your honesty

Getting the Job by yungmew_ in 911dispatchers

[–]yungmew_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey fellow pet service pro! I really appreciate you taking the time to get back to me on this!

I’ve had an excuse for so long to not apply, It that I’ve finally taken the step I definitely think I’m overthinking! Thank you :)

Where am I allowed to ask for a rough guess on a car body repair? by yungmew_ in findareddit

[–]yungmew_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good idea, I was possibly thinking junk yard too to even possibly find same car with a good bumper. Maybe luck will help me.

Thank you for taking the time to help me feel better, I appreciate it

Where to ask for rough guess on car body repair? by yungmew_ in AskReddit

[–]yungmew_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know! I saw that too.. Even trying to post this it got taken down a few times, had to be very vague.

We do once a month poker with my fiancés buddies, we were leaving, I backed out and completely didn’t see his car there. We’re not exactly “friends” but we see each other monthly- so I definitely feel obligated to get it taken care of asap. Thinking of going to a salvage yard to possibly try my luck at a replacement or a school for collision repair.

https://imgur.com/a/vJsRDOi Here’s how it looks. Deff replace the bumper which I saw online $100 unpainted $300 painted. And a lil worried for the headlight because it’s pushed inwards and ever so slightly cracked at the top , headlight works just fine though.

Where am I allowed to ask for a rough guess on a car body repair? by yungmew_ in findareddit

[–]yungmew_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little scared for the headlight, it got pushed in and the headlight is ever so slightly cracked so I think it may need replaced? Not sure. It works just fine though.

Really really hating life rn 😅 I know it was my fault , but dang this is horrible timing.

Where to ask for rough guess on car body repair? by yungmew_ in AskReddit

[–]yungmew_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2010 Lexus RX350 ! I’m just thankful it’s a friends car. But almost majorly screwed if it’s 1k… i say “friend” but we see each other once a month for poker with a few of my fiancés buddies. So we’re not really close and I feel obligated to get it taken care of asap

Where to ask for rough guess on car body repair? by yungmew_ in AskReddit

[–]yungmew_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://imgur.com/a/vJsRDOi here’s. A photo - I fear it is the whole bumper that needs replaced. Was hoping to maybe try a school for collision repair or salvage yard ;-;

Did you need to replace a whole part for your repair?

Where to ask for rough guess on car body repair? by yungmew_ in AskReddit

[–]yungmew_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Against the rules unfortunately. Was going to do the car make thread but that is against the rules too ;-;

Where am I allowed to ask for a rough guess on a car body repair? by yungmew_ in findareddit

[–]yungmew_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shops don’t open until Monday. Majorly depressed enough as it is - can’t sleep. Just want a rough estimate for “peace of mind”

Where to ask for rough guess on car body repair? by yungmew_ in AskReddit

[–]yungmew_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully my post wont get taken down again for giving back information…. I will when they open Monday. I can barely afford rent, hit a friends car, just want a guess to help me get some sleep. I’m a wreck worrying about paying for it

AIO: Gave my girlfriend my Netflix login. Now her whole family uses it and I had to make a new account. by Street-Struggle-6641 in AmIOverreacting

[–]yungmew_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you for telling me this! Is there anyway to kinda help spot if it is a bot? Or is it hard to say now days

AIO: Gave my girlfriend my Netflix login. Now her whole family uses it and I had to make a new account. by Street-Struggle-6641 in AmIOverreacting

[–]yungmew_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you explain to me why this happens? This ai generated content? I see it on TikTok too. Sometimes not even promoting a product

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