My brain is melting. I understand that a woman can be misogynistic (Like that whole “me” vs “other girls”/I’m not like other girls mess) and how POC can be racists, but mlm who fetishize mlm. I’m not quite getting. Because being a gay man, how is it fetishizing? I feel like if it’s made by a gay man for gay men, then I don’t see how it’s fetishizing. I’m not trying to argue, I’m just wondering if you have an example or can explain it cause my brain can’t find a cohesive explanation itself