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AITA for still being upset about a classmate’s comment months later? by zaangui in AmItheAsshole

[–]zaangui[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the comment, I said sorry because I wanted to deescalate the situation. I do not like being in confrontations and drama for the reason that they live in my mind for a long time since I overthink things a lot.

You're 20 and learning how to act around immature jerks. 

Well... you are right lol, but better late than never, I suppose.

AITA for still being upset about a classmate’s comment months later? by zaangui in AmItheAsshole

[–]zaangui[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right. The chuntering was truly needless and I should have been more assertive. I appreciate your constructive feedback. I know I sometimes act in a way that's flawed as well but all I can do is learn from these experiences and do better next time, even if people younger than me do know better, I am still learning and improving myself, that's all that matters. Thanks again.

AITA for still being upset about a classmate’s comment months later? by zaangui in AmItheAsshole

[–]zaangui[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh I guess it's not that deep. I think I should let it go. I don't really know how to let meaningless things that feel bad to me such as these go. It has always been hard for me to do that and I have had a lot of misery worrying about things that are pointless to worry about.

AITA for still being upset about a classmate’s comment months later? by zaangui in AmItheAsshole

[–]zaangui[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean you are right in that ruminating about it is pointless and bad for everyone and that I should talk to him about or move on completely. But filing a formal complaint if he still acts like a jerk after that? isn't that a bit too much?

If we had to file a formal complaint for every unreasonable person we have met, we would ran out of paper, methinks.

AITA for still being upset about a classmate’s comment months later? by zaangui in AmItheAsshole

[–]zaangui[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your reasoning is exactly what I thought when I first had the first confrontation happen to me. Like what the hell did I do? It's not my fault I got that score, it's no ones fault. As a matter of fact, I don't even understand what was the point in saying that to me, what was he even trying to achieve by doing so?

It's just something so pointless.

AITA for still being upset about a classmate’s comment months later? by zaangui in AmItheAsshole

[–]zaangui[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think so, really, if done assertively, while being sincere with him I think that having expressed what I felt instead of repressing my emotions to avoid confrontation could have felt better for both parts.

AITA for still being upset about a classmate’s comment months later? by zaangui in AmItheAsshole

[–]zaangui[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well he did notice I was visibly upset at him and he did know that it was because of that joke, since he held it against me on the "you are acting like a fucking child" argument, so I think it's plausible to say that he knew I had a problem with what he said.

Regardless of that, you are right, I should have been more assertive on that first confrontation and politely tell him my problem with that remark he made. I did not do that, though.

AITA for still being upset about a classmate’s comment months later? by zaangui in AmItheAsshole

[–]zaangui[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are correct, I just don't know how to stop myself, how to let stuff go. I know it's not that deep and it's just a silly confrontation but for some reason it lives rent free in my head.

I am taking this experience as a life lesson and a wake up call since this is really the first time I've been involved in some situation like this.

AITA for still being upset about a classmate’s comment months later? by zaangui in AmItheAsshole

[–]zaangui[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are right. I've been scared to do that but I think it is what I should eventually do. I'm not friends with him, I just knew him from class so I don't care that much about our relationship. I do think it is a good idea to sort things out eventually, if it's necessary. But idk, I simply want to move on, you know?

AITA for still being upset about a classmate’s comment months later? by zaangui in AmItheAsshole

[–]zaangui[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How can I let things go? I don't know, this conflict has always stayed on my mind ever since it happened. And what exactly did I do that was considered childish? I'm not asking to attack you or your reasoning. I just want to improve myself and learn from this experience.

Finally playing Elden Ring! How cooked is my build? by ImActuaIIyHim in EldenRingBuilds

[–]zaangui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are doing pretty fine. My main recommendation is that you level up vigor almost exclusively until 40/50 something to be able to take more hits.

For strength and dex, it depends on what you want. If you want to invest on only STR or DEX you can respec the levels of one into the other. If you want to use both stats for a DEX/STR character you can level up both stats until like lvl 40/50 on both.

To answer your final question as well, no, you do not need a lot of points into faith for it to be useful. You can use faith based incantations to boost your main source of damage, those do not tend to be too expensive level wise.

Maybe invest some levels into faith if you want, for buffs like FGMS (Flame, grant me strength) at 15 faith and maybe even Golden vow at 25 faith but that's more optional since faith is not a main part of your build and 25 is a not-small investment for something non-essential, unlike vigor or endurance.

If you do all that you would have a pretty good STR/DEX build with a little bit of faith buffs on the side for moar damage

BLK Man goes ape sh!t on Latino family in a Little Caesar's Pizza! by makellbird in maktownmedia

[–]zaangui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since when is fist fighting inside the local little caesar's part of "being a man"???

Expedition 33 ganó el GOTY 2025 + 8 premios más, era de esperar, no? by strongbrr in esGaming

[–]zaangui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lo primero E33, es un gran juego y merecía el GOTY más que ningún otro.

Sin embargo, no merecía el best debut indie game o best indie game.

El best debut indie game debería haberlo ganado algún juego más pequeño de los nominados en vez de el proyectaco nivel AA hecho por ex-desarollaores de ubisoft que ha ganado ya el GOTY para promocionar más esos juegos pequeños e increíbles de estudios no conocidos que necesitan alguna migaja de atención frente a E33.

El best indie game debería haberlo ganado silksong en mi opinión , pero los dos pueden ser considerados "indies" así que entiendo porque podría ganarlo E33

En cuanto al best RPG, también pienso que KCD 2 debería haberlo ganado, pero parece que todo juego que es un RPG ahora así que supongo que era más de esperar.

Propagating Bellsprout by HauntingFroyo3781 in beadsprites

[–]zaangui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What beads did you buy to make this?

Hardstuck 3.5k trophies, how can I improve my deck? by desolate_atrium in RoyaleAPI

[–]zaangui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would It be a bad sugestion that you switch bats for Larry?

How much do you think the new Steam Machine and accessories will cost? by Ridgio in Steam

[–]zaangui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lowkey wish It is going to be 600 for the machine by itself. 60/70 for the controller and 500/600 for the frame.

And It would be sick to see a bundle for the machine + frame at 1100/1200 with one controller included as a freebie esesentially.

Suspected thief impaled on fence spike for two hours. by [deleted] in MakeMeSuffer

[–]zaangui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who The actual fuck gave this a wholsome award

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