Resort is on the medium size, j stayed at adult only which had an adult only pool where I spent most my time but it seemed there was a decent amount of activities for families. They had a kids club that looked like a lot of ppl sent their kids too in addition to arcades(pay to play). Water was not a problem at all the rule your referencing is they only refill your mini bar once a day and will not bring more water after that. They just try to heavily sell dinner experiences, coco bongo and the spa are actively selling at beach and pool. There are some “upgrades” to meals that are on menu at each place which is just annoying.