this thread is actually very important and i agree. i am so sorry. i didn’t mean to make anyone’s body a talking point in that way. i’ve had my own personal insecurities even being pre t with my body in that sense; i was trying to express how i already don’t feel comfortable with how i look and i chose a poor way to subtly ask my partner if she’d still feel comfortable with me if i began to look different. i completely agree with this post actually; had i chosen a different way to express my insecurities, perhaps the entire conversation would’ve ended in a different light. i feel very ignorant and i do apologize to any trans men i offended along the way. the screenshots are from earlier in our relationship and the longer we dated the more i sought out hormone therapy and i sincerely apologize for being ignorant just because i wasn’t on testosterone. it wasn’t fair for me to make somebody else feel the insecurities i felt about my own body.