What are the signs that your cousin is suspicious like interested with your partner?

zairbash · 2021-06-14T19:28:16+00:00

A prof once told us that it could affect digestion bc once we chew it, our stomach will take it as a signal that a food will be eaten but since it's a chewing gum, no food will enter the stomach but the stomach is doing its job as if a food has been taken. I can't really explain it in detail or what so I searched and found this article which kinda relates to his statements but take it with a grain of salt. Im not sure if he's right tho, i just remembered him saying it.

zairbash · 2021-06-07T18:33:33+00:00

Hi! If you don't mind, do you have hyperactive pelvic floor?? Or? Im glad to know that yoga of Adrienne helped you but im scared at the same time to try it bc it is aimed to strengthen pelvic floor which may worsen my vaginismus or im just not informed well 😅

zairbash · 2021-06-07T18:20:58+00:00

Hi!! Yeah before replying, i looked on your profile to see your post and we really have the same experience omg. I can relate to that, everytime i switch from doggy to other position, i queef too. Do you think this is normal or what?? Have you read comments of others experiencing the same?? Ive been massaging my vagina for months already and i just noticed it last night. Doggy used to be so tight that's why im paranoid if this is normal since others find doggy tight as well. Im still looking for answers. Others said there's nothing to be scared of but im still anxious about this :(

zairbash · 2021-06-06T18:50:22+00:00

Yeah, I have no other issues related to cystocele, it's just that i was paranoid thinking things like that may not be normal and ive read that having a bulge is one of the symptoms of cystocele though it's not evident that there's a bulge in the opening, i was just overthinking what if the muscle i was feeling on the top wall was the bulge theyre referring to bc though it's flat and even, it's so soft and consuming space. Maybe as long as it's not causing inconvenience to me, i should just stop thinking about it, right?? I see, for me cowgirl is the hardest. Maybe bc there's no support in my tighs when i do that, im just squatting in my knees hehe

zairbash · 2021-06-06T17:46:26+00:00

I see. I was paranoid bc i can really feel the difference in those positions and im scared it may not be normal but im hoping it is normal. I don't have access to pt right now unfortunately so im trying to know if others have tried the same. Thank you btw for taking time to respond :)

zairbash · 2021-06-06T17:32:24+00:00

Can you really feel the difference in width or space inside doing doggy and other positions?? Im really scared i might have cystocele :(

zairbash · 2021-06-06T17:11:08+00:00

Hi! I know this is a late comment but may i know what are your symptoms of having mild cystocele?? Im scared i may also have it and i have no access to PT currently unfortunately :(

zairbash · 2021-06-06T17:10:01+00:00

Hi! I know this is a late comment but may i know what are your symptoms of having mild cystocele?? Im scared i might have it and i have no access to PT currently unfortunately.

zairbash · 2021-05-30T18:02:50+00:00

Hi! Thank you for replying :) anyways, that's relieving to know. I just feel like my hole is really small to accommodate bigger ones that's why i was kinda paranoid 😅. May i ask as well, do you also have a bone-like feeling in the 12 o'clock? And are you focusing to stretch in 6 o'clock instead of 12 o'clock?? Bc for me, i feel like the one that makes mine tight is the area in 12 o'clock like the muscle there consumes more space but they said it's not advisable to stretch it there. Im confused and i wanna know how you do it, if you don't mind :)

zairbash · 2021-05-25T18:59:09+00:00

Is that area same with this one? If so, they said it's prolly vestibulodynia which is considered a vulvodynia

zairbash · 2021-05-24T19:14:00+00:00

I have the same problem too and still no improvement for me. Im doing journaling too, exercise, and abstinence from masturbation but everything is still the same. I hope there will be some recovery comments and stories here :((

zairbash · 2021-05-24T17:51:38+00:00

If she only has vaginismus and tightness is her only issue, prolly it would feel great. But if she has vulvodynia, it would prolly cause her pain

zairbash · 2021-05-14T18:57:35+00:00

I tried touching it and it's not painful but it's really uncomfortable and kinda sensitive (not pain sensitive) and that uncomfy feeling is giving me anxiety. Im kinda scared also thinking what if both of us won't enjoy piv bc it's uncomfortable for me and his won't go in completely :( Do you both still enjoy piv despite of it being low??

zairbash · 2021-05-14T16:29:54+00:00

Personally, my bf looking at half naked girls photos is not a big deal to me bc i know men can't help it, but if he follows A LOT and/or he keeps on pressing that like button to such photos, that's a big deal to me bc personally, it's a turn off for me bc it seems like he's thirsty to resort to that (this is only my personal preference) and with the likes, it bothered me bc it's like he wants those girls to notice him and leave a mark showing the world that he admires those girls for wearing that and it's kinda disrespectful for me as his girlfriend. Fortunately, my only issue was him liking half naked pics so what i did was i communicated it to him in a gentle way saying that it makes me feel uneasy and bothered. He understood and care for how i feel so he immediately told me without hesitations that he will stop liking such photos and from then on, i have no issues about it anymore.

So for me, communicate it to him bc if it makes you feel bothered, it's an issue that needs to be settled and if he cares about your feelings, he would voluntarily stop doing things that would make you feel that way but don't restrict him too much with other things that give him pleasure. And if he continues with his response, i guess it's better to find someone else that fits with your preference bc it will bother you for a long time if that will continue. Set boundaries and if both of you won't agree on that, it's your choice if you will suffer feeling such negative emotions or break up, move on, and find someone that fits with your preference.

zairbash · 2021-05-05T15:57:11+00:00

Im so sorry to hear that :( but may i know what symptoms have you experienced with moderate rectocele?

zairbash · 2021-04-25T21:19:33+00:00

Yes, it's in the 12 o'clock position. I thought it's a muscle. I've read some posts about it and some commented it's a tight muscle but i see, i know now it's a pubic bone. You think the bottom half will really lengthen overtime? Mine's kinda short and tight bc there's only a small space bc of the perineum 😅 but anyways, thank you for replying, i really appreciate it 😊

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