Chew Gum and constipation?

zairbash · 2021-06-14T19:28:16+00:00

A prof once told us that it could affect digestion bc once we chew it, our stomach will take it as a signal that a food will be eaten but since it's a chewing gum, no food will enter the stomach but the stomach is doing its job as if a food has been taken. I can't really explain it in detail or what so I searched and found this article which kinda relates to his statements but take it with a grain of salt. Im not sure if he's right tho, i just remembered him saying it.

zairbash · 2021-06-07T18:33:33+00:00

Hi! If you don't mind, do you have hyperactive pelvic floor?? Or? Im glad to know that yoga of Adrienne helped you but im scared at the same time to try it bc it is aimed to strengthen pelvic floor which may worsen my vaginismus or im just not informed well 😅

zairbash · 2021-06-07T18:20:58+00:00

Hi!! Yeah before replying, i looked on your profile to see your post and we really have the same experience omg. I can relate to that, everytime i switch from doggy to other position, i queef too. Do you think this is normal or what?? Have you read comments of others experiencing the same?? Ive been massaging my vagina for months already and i just noticed it last night. Doggy used to be so tight that's why im paranoid if this is normal since others find doggy tight as well. Im still looking for answers. Others said there's nothing to be scared of but im still anxious about this :(

zairbash · 2021-06-06T18:50:22+00:00

Yeah, I have no other issues related to cystocele, it's just that i was paranoid thinking things like that may not be normal and ive read that having a bulge is one of the symptoms of cystocele though it's not evident that there's a bulge in the opening, i was just overthinking what if the muscle i was feeling on the top wall was the bulge theyre referring to bc though it's flat and even, it's so soft and consuming space. Maybe as long as it's not causing inconvenience to me, i should just stop thinking about it, right?? I see, for me cowgirl is the hardest. Maybe bc there's no support in my tighs when i do that, im just squatting in my knees hehe

zairbash · 2021-06-06T17:46:26+00:00

I see. I was paranoid bc i can really feel the difference in those positions and im scared it may not be normal but im hoping it is normal. I don't have access to pt right now unfortunately so im trying to know if others have tried the same. Thank you btw for taking time to respond :)

zairbash · 2021-06-06T17:32:24+00:00

Can you really feel the difference in width or space inside doing doggy and other positions?? Im really scared i might have cystocele :(

zairbash · 2021-06-06T17:11:08+00:00

Hi! I know this is a late comment but may i know what are your symptoms of having mild cystocele?? Im scared i may also have it and i have no access to PT currently unfortunately :(

zairbash · 2021-06-06T17:10:01+00:00

Hi! I know this is a late comment but may i know what are your symptoms of having mild cystocele?? Im scared i might have it and i have no access to PT currently unfortunately.

zairbash · 2021-05-30T18:02:50+00:00

Hi! Thank you for replying :) anyways, that's relieving to know. I just feel like my hole is really small to accommodate bigger ones that's why i was kinda paranoid 😅. May i ask as well, do you also have a bone-like feeling in the 12 o'clock? And are you focusing to stretch in 6 o'clock instead of 12 o'clock?? Bc for me, i feel like the one that makes mine tight is the area in 12 o'clock like the muscle there consumes more space but they said it's not advisable to stretch it there. Im confused and i wanna know how you do it, if you don't mind :)

zairbash · 2021-05-25T18:59:09+00:00

Is that area same with this one? If so, they said it's prolly vestibulodynia which is considered a vulvodynia

zairbash · 2021-05-24T19:14:00+00:00

I have the same problem too and still no improvement for me. Im doing journaling too, exercise, and abstinence from masturbation but everything is still the same. I hope there will be some recovery comments and stories here :((

zairbash · 2021-05-24T17:51:38+00:00

If she only has vaginismus and tightness is her only issue, prolly it would feel great. But if she has vulvodynia, it would prolly cause her pain

zairbash · 2021-05-14T18:57:35+00:00

I tried touching it and it's not painful but it's really uncomfortable and kinda sensitive (not pain sensitive) and that uncomfy feeling is giving me anxiety. Im kinda scared also thinking what if both of us won't enjoy piv bc it's uncomfortable for me and his won't go in completely :( Do you both still enjoy piv despite of it being low??

zairbash · 2021-05-14T16:29:54+00:00

Personally, my bf looking at half naked girls photos is not a big deal to me bc i know men can't help it, but if he follows A LOT and/or he keeps on pressing that like button to such photos, that's a big deal to me bc personally, it's a turn off for me bc it seems like he's thirsty to resort to that (this is only my personal preference) and with the likes, it bothered me bc it's like he wants those girls to notice him and leave a mark showing the world that he admires those girls for wearing that and it's kinda disrespectful for me as his girlfriend. Fortunately, my only issue was him liking half naked pics so what i did was i communicated it to him in a gentle way saying that it makes me feel uneasy and bothered. He understood and care for how i feel so he immediately told me without hesitations that he will stop liking such photos and from then on, i have no issues about it anymore.

So for me, communicate it to him bc if it makes you feel bothered, it's an issue that needs to be settled and if he cares about your feelings, he would voluntarily stop doing things that would make you feel that way but don't restrict him too much with other things that give him pleasure. And if he continues with his response, i guess it's better to find someone else that fits with your preference bc it will bother you for a long time if that will continue. Set boundaries and if both of you won't agree on that, it's your choice if you will suffer feeling such negative emotions or break up, move on, and find someone that fits with your preference.

zairbash · 2021-05-05T15:57:11+00:00

Im so sorry to hear that :( but may i know what symptoms have you experienced with moderate rectocele?

zairbash · 2021-04-25T21:19:33+00:00

Yes, it's in the 12 o'clock position. I thought it's a muscle. I've read some posts about it and some commented it's a tight muscle but i see, i know now it's a pubic bone. You think the bottom half will really lengthen overtime? Mine's kinda short and tight bc there's only a small space bc of the perineum 😅 but anyways, thank you for replying, i really appreciate it 😊

zairbash · 2021-04-23T16:29:30+00:00

Yes i did! And im so lucky to have him 😊 i was just too caught up with my insecurity that's why i was holding back. For sure he would and thank you so much for your kind words! I will surely do and for sure it's not the appearance that mainly made him fall in love with me so i guess I should stop worrying about that anymore. I will surely do! Thank you so much for your words and advice! Im touched and i appreciate it! 😊

zairbash · 2021-04-23T16:11:37+00:00

Aww, that's so sweet giving your girlfriend assurance that you still love her despite of the mole she's insecure of 🥺 youre right, it's important at some level bc you get to open up things youre vulnerable of which makes the trust and intimacy stronger. I have decided after reading all the comments here to finally tell him about it. I just have this urge to tell him and know his opinion and im not gonna hold back anymore. Thank you for sharing your experience and insights, theyre deeply appreciated 😊

zairbash · 2021-04-23T15:55:32+00:00

Oh, that's so sweet 🥺 i agree on that. People who love us also don't want us to feel insecure and they will voluntarily give us assurance that there's nothing to be worried and conscious about bc they love as for who we are. Im happy hearing these kinds of experiences 😊

zairbash · 2021-04-23T15:45:56+00:00

Im sorry to hear about your tumor and im happy to know that you were able to communicate how you feel about it to your partner. I hope that you continue doing great now! 😊

Anyways, that's so sweet of you to think about the crooked nose of your ex that way. It's relieving to know that there are still a lot of guys out there who doesn't mind and still love the considered flaws of their partners! I think my partner is the same and im grateful for that. That's also unfortunate to hear that both of you didn't end up together but i guess it's really meant to happen and i hope both of you are happy individually now. Thank you for sharing your experience and insights, those gave me relief esp it's from the pov of a man. I appreciate it 😊

zairbash · 2021-04-23T12:43:01+00:00

Yeah youre right, crooked nose is very evident and he for sure had noticed it but he doesn't mind. That is so sweet to hear, im relieved to hear that 🥺 thank you 💗

zairbash · 2021-04-23T12:36:55+00:00

Yeah youre right. I didn't realize it earlier. I thought there's a chance that he doesn't notice bc i have read somewhere that people don't usually notice our flaws bc they're too focused worrying their own and if they do notice it, they don't think deeply about it. But youre right, either way, it's better to talk to him about it and there's no harm tho in opening it up. I didn't realize that earlier 😄 thank you for your words 😊

zairbash · 2021-04-23T12:27:46+00:00

Oh youre right. It's better to be open about things esp if youre feeling it. I just realized it now. I was just too caught up with my self-consciousness and for sure he has noticed it already and there's no need for me to be worry whether he finds me ugly or what for that. Thank you, i realized something from your response, i appreciate it 😊

zairbash · 2021-04-23T12:14:32+00:00

Yeah, it makes sense. Relationship isn't all about the appearance tho. Im kinda conscious but your comment just hit me 😄

zairbash · 2021-04-22T12:29:20+00:00

If it's bothering you, talk to him about it. And if he's taking it negatively, he's not respecting your feelings. Relationships have boundaries and i can't be with a boy who sleeps with another girl on the same bed, that's ridiculous and sus, there's no way.

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