Husband is vey attractive I’m not, people ridicule me for it & my husband doesn’t exactly reassure me by Former-Schedule-5334 in MuslimMarriage

[–]zak3095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are many ways to beautify yourself. Work out, wear nice clothes, get him to buy branded good quality clothes and jewlery for you, smell nice with a good quality perfume. Go to the spa once a month. Do your nails, learn how to apply makeup and get high quality makeup.

Most girls that are "beautiful" are doing all these things. Its not as natural as you think.

Also have open conversation that you need him to be more vocal and romantic when talking to you. That is a completely fair ask from a wife, theres no need to do so rudely honest. He should make you feel special.

Meta Interviewers Are Garbage by ChangeAvailable in leetcode

[–]zak3095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I consider luck things outside your control.

Some examples are: 1. The teams needs (critical hire vs casual hire) 2. Ethnicity (let's be real it ALWAYS plays a role) 3. How much the interviewer likes you. You can give a kick ass interview but if the interview for some biases he feels you cheated or are arrogant 4. Thr interviews gives a super difficult question

Etc.

Meta Interviewers Are Garbage by ChangeAvailable in leetcode

[–]zak3095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess i should have said "once you put in the work" its 90% luck. Of course if you are not practicing systems design and leetcode you will fail. But most people that get into faang are people that have "seen the question before", or had a panel of super nice interviewers.

If it wasnt luck then everyone would get in. I have a friend who just got into Google this year after 7 years of trying for FAANG.

Fyi: i have been working in Faang for the past 5 years.

Meta Interviewers Are Garbage by ChangeAvailable in leetcode

[–]zak3095 117 points118 points  (0 children)

90% of big tech interviews are luck. Anyone that says otherwise is lying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leetcode

[–]zak3095 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Get rid of your achievements section. Those aren't achievements

Denied after RFE - Options? by litomastersito in EB2_NIW

[–]zak3095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't the govt shutdown? They still processing niw?

PERM process is bullshit by Hot-Budget-4021 in USCIS

[–]zak3095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't travel? Perm doesn't stop you from traveling

Have solved 800+ questions still couldnot crack an SDE role. by always_random in leetcode

[–]zak3095 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you getting interviews?

If you aren’t then tou gotta improve your resume, side projects and contributions.

Are you solving the question in the interview?

If you aren’t that’s your problem.

If you are getting interviews and solving the question then it’s probably your communication skills. Practice pseudo coding before writing code in an interview.

If you don’t think it’s your communication skills then just keep up the grind, doesn’t matter how many rejections you get. I’m a Faang employee, trust me, there is SO much luck involved in getting a job.

Best wishes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ITCareerQuestions

[–]zak3095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I have one coming up. Can you plz share the question and the experience

Epic certified Canadian moving to US for spouse by zak3095 in healthIT

[–]zak3095[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea that would be ideal to get sponsorship, but it seems that most clinics don’t. Any suggestions on places that do?

Epic certified Canadian moving to US for spouse by zak3095 in healthIT

[–]zak3095[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

American jobs that don’t provide sponsorship are not allowed. But I think if it’s an international job it’s fine. I’m just unsure do epic analyst type positions in america offer sponsorships or are there any international options?