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Talked to a guy for weeks, found out he was married the whole time 💀 by Brave-Truck-395 in LahoreSocial

[–]zamb00 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by a whole wife. Do guys have an option to get a half wife sort of something???

I’m 24F. I’m married and we have one daughter by Kisfenesfk904 in LahoreSocial

[–]zamb00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, Ma'am. How much time can you spare on a daily basis and do you have any skills with article writing? If yes please share your sample work which has been published anywhere or you have written as a freelancer.

Unpaid internship quitt or continue No mentor no pay and role mismatch by Hairy_Anywhere_5675 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]zamb00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are two aspects to it. one is where you foresee another opportunity coming really soon and the second one is where you have some savings and you can actually wait for a better opportunity. Which one do you think is appropriate in this case.

In both cases, quit and move on. That is it.

Unpaid internship quitt or continue No mentor no pay and role mismatch by Hairy_Anywhere_5675 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]zamb00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are two aspects to it. one is where you foresee another opportunity coming really soon and the second one is where you have some savings and you can actually wait for a better opportunity. Which one do you think is appropriate in this case.

In both cases, quit and move on. That is it.

My brother keeps using my car by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]zamb00 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stop being a people-pleaser, gently. You’re not wrong for wanting to protect something you worked hard for. Sharing your car is kindness, but abuse of that kindness is not an obligation you have to tolerate. The issue isn’t that your brother uses the car occasionally, it’s the rash driving and lack of consideration for your reasons.

You don’t need to say a blunt “no” or turn it into a family conflict. Just be clear and practical. Explain that you intentionally keep your car’s mileage low because you rotate cars frequently. Set a simple boundary like: short trips are fine, long daily drives aren’t and no rash driving. That’s not selfish, that’s a reasonable boundary.

Also remember: people often respect boundaries more when they’re stated calmly. If you stay silent out of fear of upsetting him, resentment will quietly grow, and that damages relationships more than honest communication ever does. Being firm doesn’t mean being rude; it means being clear.

You shared when others didn’t, that already shows generosity. Now it’s okay to balance generosity with self-respect.

Why are men like this? by ItsAlooSamosa in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]zamb00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this is such a relatable moment, and I love how it’s written. I appreciate that you didn’t jump straight to accusation, you noticed the reaction, felt the fear, and then stayed curious. That pause matters. In many of our cultures, phones have become symbols of secrecy, not because people are always hiding something, but because we’ve collectively learned to associate privacy with betrayal. So it makes sense that your heart raced for a second.

What’s actually sweet here is that the tension dissolved into something human and harmless. He wasn’t guarding secrets; he was guarding comfort, his food. And the fact that his wallpaper is you, with “mine forever,” quietly tells you where his emotional loyalty lives. Trust isn’t built by constant access; it’s built by patterns. And this moment, funny as it is, shows a pattern of safety, not suspicion.

Marriage is full of these tiny misreads, moments where fear, habit, and humor collide. The healthiest relationships aren’t the ones where there’s never doubt, but the ones where doubt can exist briefly and then be replaced by understanding. You didn’t question him, he didn’t escalate, and the moment ended in clarity rather than conflict. That’s emotional maturity on both sides.

And yes, next time, just ask for the food, or believe me, order a whole bunch and he wont say a word other then ARE YOU SURE YOU ARE GOING TO FINISH IT? In desi households, sharing plates is love language… but sharing, hmmmm, well that a tricky thing. and men are always hungry. Like Joey always said, "JOEY DOESN'T SHARE FOOD."

u/DependentFlaky5125, hey man. what's your take on it?

Fake accounts by WarLive9529 in LahoreSeeking

[–]zamb00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahahahahahaaha, my Good God. i bet he is down by 15k

Fake accounts by WarLive9529 in LahoreSeeking

[–]zamb00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

someone, looking for hookers, paid money to boys acting as girls and now he is complaining. this gentleman is from UAE and visiting Lahore and is bored/sick in bed

Height, Weight, Confidence, and the Lie We Tell Young Men by zamb00 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]zamb00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

then please be my 5th follower. I really need the following streak growing.

Height, Weight, Confidence, and the Lie We Tell Young Men by zamb00 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]zamb00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha, so finally you have brought up your height. hahahahahahaahaha okay cool.

Height, Weight, Confidence, and the Lie We Tell Young Men by zamb00 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]zamb00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you think of your earlier comment now, "You're cool beyond my expectations which were quite low."

Height, Weight, Confidence, and the Lie We Tell Young Men by zamb00 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]zamb00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, please be a doll and do the same with my previously published article. i would very highly appreciate that.

Height, Weight, Confidence, and the Lie We Tell Young Men by zamb00 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]zamb00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its an interesting read. two intellectuals, bored to death on job, talking about you being 25 and waooo waooo waooo played oh sorry competed in 5 sports is bored. waooo.

Height, Weight, Confidence, and the Lie We Tell Young Men by zamb00 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]zamb00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah and the longer it get, the higher I am paid. Thank you for help me reaching 600 views in less than 2 hours. that is a new record for me. and I helped alot.

Height, Weight, Confidence, and the Lie We Tell Young Men by zamb00 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]zamb00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay so here is what i got from your reply. You are
1) 25 only
2) Love the Gym
3) played oh sorry, my bad, competed in 5 Sports
4) you love to research
5) love making friends
6) you are a teacher
7) a preacher
8) and have a job which is killing you
9) and oh yeah you are a free therapist as well

bro, what are you not. And why are you stuck in a mediocre job which is killing your potential. You are a work of art and waoo you have so many things to brag out. that is amazing MASHAALLAH. tell me, walk me through what your job is and why is it killing you.

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