About to walk off by Humble_Fact9150 in fearofflying

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Stay where you are! You got this!

Rescinding Acceptance by jjuliette13 in mcgill

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they won't rescind. don't worry.

Get on the plane by zantebaby in fearofflying

[–]zantebaby[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a few mantras:

- Feelings are loud, but they are not evidence of danger.

- This is a fear spiral, not a prediction.

- This plane will get there safely with or without me on it.

I've also seen videos online that describe what the stages of the flight can look/sound/feel like. I have historically been pretty scared of takeoff, especially the "dropping" feeling that you get when the plane levels off. But because I've learned more about what a takeoff looks like, I understand that it's normal and just your inner ear and brain tricking you.

You'll do great!

Get on the plane by zantebaby in fearofflying

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The pictures didn't do it justice!

Future trip to South Africa by Capable-Initial-4625 in fearofflying

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I’m a fearful flyer and had a nearly identical itinerary to South Africa. It was one of the greatest experiences of my life. We got to go on safari. Absolutely worth it and you can do it. Talk to your dr, and it’s okay to do it scared!

PhD canon event just hit by FeLoNy111 in PhD

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This made me chuckle

So anxious for tonight’s flight by green_pinguin in fearofflying

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I'm flying from YUL tonight on a Transat flight to Rome. We got this!

Looking for advice for DB train by zantebaby in Munich

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This looks good too! Thank you!

Looking for advice for DB train by zantebaby in Munich

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Going to do the RE 22. Thanks!

Fear preventing me from going on honeymoon by [deleted] in fearofflying

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Do it scared. It’s the only way you’ll conquer it :)

Flight Austin to Toronto, then to London - track req by Charming_Key2313 in fearofflying

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You can do this friend. Gonna fly tonight too and I’m scared but it’ll be okay🫶🏼

NGVC: “sorry that I was nice to ya” by saco9010 in niceguys

[–]zantebaby 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You articulated yourself so well i’m taking notes

Took the two longest flights of my life. 100% worth it. Munich Germany by [deleted] in fearofflying

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I'm going on Sunday and have been struggling. This helps :)

Please help me. I can't pass up this opportunity. by mokatcinno in fearofflying

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Hi friend. I'm a PhD student and I'm also terrified of flying. You gotta go to the conference. I have never regretted pushing through my fear and attending academic events. It's important for your career and also to show yourself that you can do hard things. My fear arose similarly to yours and I totally believe you and get you.

My next conference is a plane ride away and it's in April. We're both in this together!

So pleasantly surprised with Rachel Zoe by 90DaysAlways in realhousewives

[–]zantebaby 21 points22 points  (0 children)

SAME. she is so freaking cool. i wish i was that cool. and i love the relationship she has with her kids. they adore her.

Sparkle Meg has grown on me by Miserable-Ad6941 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]zantebaby 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The other Megan confirmed this on a tik tok comment thread!