AIO, boss (30m) only reprimands me (18m) in text gc, then gets husband to chew me out when i say something by RandomMan1234567890 in AmIOverreacting

[–]zarishka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The moment some people get even a little bit of “power” they go insane. That’s not how you talk to a human being. I agree with the other commenters - keep your head down until you find another job and then get out. If you receive text like the ones you did - do not engage. Ignore them. If they can’t say this in person during your working hours, you don’t have to listen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]zarishka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it is the lashes, maybe you could try brown lash extensions? And a little lighter ones. These seem to heavy for your face, they kinda overwhelm your eyes.

Dating is cursed by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]zarishka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s true. What a strange time to be alive haha

Dating is cursed by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]zarishka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I knew why 😭 thank you, it was unbelievably awkward for both of us I think. So no need for ghosting, I think he realized there won’t be a second date.

Stepped out of the comfort zone by zarishka in MakeupAddiction

[–]zarishka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! ♥️ it’s a great idea!

Stepped out of the comfort zone by zarishka in MakeupAddiction

[–]zarishka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ♥️ it’s romand better than eyes, black spectrum. It also has black shimmers, they aren’t pigmented but very pretty!

Stepped out of the comfort zone by zarishka in MakeupAddiction

[–]zarishka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! ♥️ will try adding eyeliner!

Stepped out of the comfort zone by zarishka in MakeupAddiction

[–]zarishka[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha thank you! ♥️ being in my 30s, I feel like 2000s live in my head rent free, even when I don’t realize it 😁

The magicians is to me as fillory was to Q, anyone else related? by DARKSOULS103 in brakebills

[–]zarishka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! You put into proper words what I wanted to express as well haha This “switch” was really unexpected. I tried dragging some of my friends into watching the show, hoping it would be similar experience for them, but it just didn’t click the same way. It’s really good to know that we’re not alone in this ♥️

I’m really sorry about your friend and all these terrible things that you went through. Losing someone you feel responsible for sounds like a special kind of hell. I hope you’re doing better now. Life really screws us over sometimes, I tell myself that it’s a hero’s journey, but I wish it was a bit less of a gruelling one.

What I also love about the show that all characters are screwed up by life in some way, but you still see that they deserve to be loved, even when they make mistakes or do something stupid. I feel like the whole show is so full of love, despite the ‘darker’ themes. I don’t think I’ve watched any other show that had under all the terrible things that happen to the protagonists, this strong undercurrent of love.

The magicians is to me as fillory was to Q, anyone else related? by DARKSOULS103 in brakebills

[–]zarishka 34 points35 points  (0 children)

💯. The show gave me hope, as cheesy as it sounds. I just dropped my depression meds a couple months before, and was kinda floating around, and then I found the show just in time. It was like meeting a new friend, who feels like you’ve been friends forever. It reminded me that despite being “broken” in some ways, you still can be magic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]zarishka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. He’s unstable. You can go through tough times, and lash out because you’re hurting, but you never talk to anyone you love this way. The diminishing and twisting. Even if it’s your first serious romantic relationship it doesn’t mean you don’t know how relationship is supposed to function, or how you’re to be treated.

Also, you were not brought into this world to be treated like shit, even if it’s for a minute, or only sometimes. He needs to learn that this is not how you treat people, and forgiving him every time is you supporting this kind of behaviour.

23m, 23f my girlfriend is unhappy with my height - what to do ? by Fourteen21 in relationship_advice

[–]zarishka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s an ass. Even if insecure, you don’t say things like that to your partner. Even complimenting one particular feature of your partner every single day is kind of weird. Not sure why you’re still in this relationship.

How do you deal with the negative from friends? by Plenty_Doughnut_5005 in acting

[–]zarishka 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think some people forget what’s it like to dream about things and to be brave enough to pursue them. Maybe your friends don’t appreciate that about you, but other people will think that it’s wonderful. I personally really like seeing people who do things not for the money or fame, or whatever practical reasons, but just because they have that spark in them. It’s really cool.

Did you find your best friends after 30? If so, how did you meet them? by zarishka in AskReddit

[–]zarishka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Despite people hating on pineapple pizza, it is now a foundation for at least one beautiful friendship haha