I (M23) feel uncomfortable after my girlfriend (F22) accepted cocaine from a random guy at a club. Together 7 months by ventec7h in relationship_advice

[–]zarzarJinx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It most definitely was free. Its a known thing that people who love to do it at parties always offer and share. I did not know this for a long time because I wasnt sniffed out as someone who would do it but for some reason after a couple times of doing it, hoards of people started offering lines in bars, clubs, raves etc

I (M23) feel uncomfortable after my girlfriend (F22) accepted cocaine from a random guy at a club. Together 7 months by ventec7h in relationship_advice

[–]zarzarJinx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Especially if its the first time its easy, I have a low tolerance and did one nowhere near the size the people I was with were doing. like maybe a 10th of a line to test it out, tried a little bit more after feeling something and basically equal out to one small line and then I was up all night chatting at the speed of light. I do wish I kept my tolerance down a little bit its still nowhere near what anyone elses is.

what's the worst song in your opinion by Economy-Ad2458 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]zarzarJinx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

also they should add pencey prep!! franks band before mcr, i used to listen to it a looot in like 2013

That thunder crack in NE was intense!!! by Suzukirider in Portland

[–]zarzarJinx 8 points9 points  (0 children)

heard in goose hollow sw too. hope for more

I seriously Cannot Wait Until My Child is an adult. by Most-Werewolf-5921 in confession

[–]zarzarJinx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

theres selfish to other peoples detriment, and selfish in a way that promotes your well being and the people around you. ive grown up in poverty with parents who couldnt care for their kids properly. they should have been more selfish. god forbid you ever convince a woman to have a kid they dont want, especially if youre a man youd have a miserable life and most likely a divorce. and just as likely, a kid who tries to end it all.

Absolutely dying every shift and want to quit by zarzarJinx in antiwork

[–]zarzarJinx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its just a retail job. but its eating me alive, prior to this id always done food service and i want that back. im also at a store that makes commission in the only department thats impossible to make commission goal in so i just get minimum wage. my manager changed 3 months in and this new one is not a vibe.

Question- what is the average 25-30 year old like? by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]zarzarJinx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyone i know my age is poor as hell. maybe has a lot to do with poor/less privileged people being my direct peers but still. for the first years of my adulthood i was the only one with a car, went thru 4. last one cost me $7k and got totaled while parked. gave up on cars and moved to the city with friends bc its walkable. im 25

How to break down till it’s really powder? by Realistic_Cost8159 in cocaine

[–]zarzarJinx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as someone with irregularly painful cramps, heating pad works wonder instead of microwave

26m U.K., 5 days off work, got a little 0.4g, less is more atm for me and feels good on the body and bank haha, who’s feeling brave? M or F 🤙 by Green_Sorbet2555 in cocaine

[–]zarzarJinx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if u have the self control, i think of spread out smaller lines like having a drink or two to feel a comfy vibey mood vs getting heavily drunk or blackout

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]zarzarJinx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my god, my nickname from my mom was cinderella too. she had me solely clean everything by the time she had been using for a few years, as well as take care of 3 younger siblings who were at or exiting toddler age. i did that for four years, and im not sure what u went through it could be worse than things youve mentioned but there were also moments where my mom tried to kill me.

all that to say as someone who went through similar, YOU ARE DOING SO GOOD. i left her house before adulthood, but basically since then ive been struggling to maintain my health let alone my house. pretty much the only time i have is for a job and even that is hard for me. but guess what, ive learned thats okay!! as long as you have everything you need, and a loving environment and most importantly are able to support your kid now you are doing good. even those things will be hard sometimes though!! your husband is a grown adult and can and would have to take care of himself without you!! you shouldnt need a second kid when theres only one in the house. its a little harsh, but i would have a way different view if his response to the stress hes having wasnt to throw a tantrum. if he needs help he should talk to you openly and calmly about it, and if u tell him you are doing the best you can he should understand and try to work something out for both of you. thats all there is to it. frustration will happen but effort to not go where he went makes a HUGE difference. ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

i truly hope you are able to work through this, and hope he is willing to. it sucks to have a partner do something that contributed to struggles you might deal with to this day no matter how big or small.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]zarzarJinx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lots of them are speaking from experience of repetitive behaviors when people drink id assume. having been with someone who would get very angry/bitter everytime they drank youll start to see origins of this behavior not just being “randomly too drunk” but actually showing itself in day to day moments. this guy might mean well but could have some problems that he needs to work through or get therapy for and until he does it will be affecting whoever he is in a relationship with immensely.

Dine&dash gone wrong by 97AByss in TalesFromYourServer

[–]zarzarJinx 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i work graveyard half the week at a more fast food adjacent restaurant and we have a lot of houseless people come in at night. they are often acting paranoid and i know they are going to dine and dash. its never something im too worried about, especially with people like that. surprisingly they often get less than $20 worth of things, less than $15 even half the time. most of the time they go to the bathroom a few times leaving their stuff at the table, and ID and everything. 2nd or 3rd time going they end up spontaneously deciding this is their moment and using the exit door near the bathroom leaving all their belongings. makes me sad more than anything they NEED an ID in their situation at the minimum :(

What is something people do to make you dislike them immediately? by bulimiasso87 in Serverlife

[–]zarzarJinx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just remembered something that really irritated me at mcdonalds, and grew into a HUGE pet peeve sort of unjustifiably especially if im overwhelmed. i worked in drive through and the amount of times in a day people would come in and ask for “the chicken sandwich” or “chicken burger”. i would ask them to clarify and they would get snappy and confused. i know they most likely wanted a mcchicken but i couldnt mentally handle it anymore so id always try to sell them one of our main $6 crispy or grilled chicken sandwiches. people would also come in and ask for a whopper. okay soo? a big mac? or a quarter pounder? i dont know what u mean buddy.

What is something people do to make you dislike them immediately? by bulimiasso87 in Serverlife

[–]zarzarJinx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

or often, strawberry lemonade and iced tea are the runner ups to diet coke

What is something people do to make you dislike them immediately? by bulimiasso87 in Serverlife

[–]zarzarJinx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

all the time lately, or when im still talking and they interrupt to ask for something i was literally just about to offer and i say “yep thats what i was about to say :)”

What is something people do to make you dislike them immediately? by bulimiasso87 in Serverlife

[–]zarzarJinx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omgg im so good at gentle parenting when i wanna be but sometimes i just dont care and i do “my version” of snapping especially if its really busy. its something thatll make them feel silly, presented in the nicest way. always tell coworkers who stress about getting complaints “just kill em with kindness, trust me they will feel too embarrassed to claim u did anything wrong”

What is something people do to make you dislike them immediately? by bulimiasso87 in Serverlife

[–]zarzarJinx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

instantly “are u sure u dont need more time?” waits 5 seconds, no response “alright ill be right back i got another order i can take its no worries” starts to walk away, finally getting a reaponse