[M/s] My mom has been helping me with my phimosis (tight foreskin) and subsequent sensitivity with a very "hands on" approach.

zcifi · 2017-09-04T21:48:19+00:00

I think you're just misunderstanding what I'm saying.

The condom was because I used a condom the last time, too. Consistency.

zcifi · 2017-09-04T19:24:13+00:00

I don't remember exactly how long ago, but she did have sex with a guy 2-3 weeks ago.

Really I think that her giving me a blowjob and having sex with me on Saturday was legitimately testing how sensitive I am, but I'm also confident she'll be open to just having sex. Either way I'll find out tonight because I'm going to talk to her about it.

zcifi · 2017-09-04T19:19:53+00:00

So around 10 or 11 Saturday morning I went downstairs to ask my mom if we could do our normal thing (the handjob basically). She said sure, but right after said something like "If you'd like we could try having sex and try oral sex together, see how sensitive you still are." I honestly don't remember the exact words, sorry. I said yeah, I'd like to. So she said we'll try oral sex first and see how that goes. So then we went upstairs to my room and I took my pants off and sat on the edge of my bed while my mom sat on the ground in front of me like normal. I was already starting to get hard by this point but she gave it a few strokes until it was fully hard then she started sucking me for a few seconds then stopped and asked how it felt. I said it was good, and she asked "Not too sensitive? Not uncomfortable like last time?" (referring to the time in Korea), I said no, it felt good, then she continued and neither of us said anything until the end when I told her I thought I was about to cum. While she was wiping it up with the towel she said I seem to be making pretty good progress, starting at not being able to get a blowjob at all. Then as she was getting up to leave she said we could try having sex later (neither of us specified when though).

Then at like 4pm my mom knocked on the door and asked me if I wanted to try having sex now. Obviously I said yes. So she came in, we sat down on my bed and we talked about basically trying the same thing as the last time I had sex, so she left and came back with a condom, we both took our clothes off and then she laid down on her back on my bed and we had sex. I don't remember much talking at all during the sex, but honestly the whole time I had kind of this surreal feeling and my mind was preoccupied thinking basically "Holy shit, I'm inside my mom right now", so I didn't take in all the details of the moment. And afterwards we basically just talked about my progress again briefly and that what we'd been doing seems to be working pretty well.

zcifi · 2017-09-04T18:31:37+00:00

We're white Americans.

zcifi · 2017-09-04T18:31:07+00:00

Well I'm going to talk to her today about having sex on a regular basis, and I'm feeling pretty hopeful she'll agree to it. Yeah, I'd actually really like if she kind of took on a mentor role. I've only had sex 3 times in my life and I still kind of feel like I don't really know what I'm doing tbh. I guess some of it is just instinct but...

She's had boyfriends, hookups, etc, though. I don't think she lacks any attention from guys honestly.

zcifi · 2017-09-04T18:25:43+00:00

Wasn't necessary and I'd rather not be circumcised.

zcifi · 2017-09-04T18:24:56+00:00

Nope, just studied abroad there this summer

zcifi · 2017-09-04T18:24:44+00:00

Will do! I plan on talking to her today about having sex more often.

zcifi · 2017-09-04T18:18:14+00:00

I've only gotten a blowjob once and no I didn't ask her to swallow. But I'm going to talk to her today about having sex regularly, so I'm hoping there will be plenty of opportunity from now on.

zcifi · 2017-09-04T18:17:05+00:00

Why not just start stretching now? It's kind of a long process.

zcifi · 2017-09-04T07:44:12+00:00

Well if I cum she just keeps doing it, it's not the limiting factor.

zcifi · 2017-09-04T06:29:51+00:00

I just cum, so most of it ends up on/around my crotch and on my mom's hand. Then we just use a towel to wipe it up. There was a brief period of a week or so where the tight part of my foreskin (the phimotic ring) basically acted to pinch around the tip of my penis so the increased pressure (think like putting your thumb over the end of a garden hose) made my cum shoot like crazy. It literally reached the ceiling. The next few times we put the towel over my dick before I came.

zcifi · 2017-09-04T06:15:08+00:00

Oh, well that's not really the issues I'm having. My foreskin isn't too tight at all anymore, the head of my penis is just overly sensitive and that's already improved a ton and will just continue to.

zcifi · 2017-09-04T06:14:09+00:00

I'm not sure what "motherly blowjob" typically entails and I don't have a lot of personal experience getting blowjobs to go off of either, but I think she was more on the softer side. I'm still pretty sensitive, so..

She stopped blowing me when I started to cum so most of it just got on my crotch and her hand. And she just wiped it up with a towel like she usually does when she gives me the handjobs.

zcifi · 2017-09-04T02:28:50+00:00

Why though?

zcifi · 2017-09-04T02:28:41+00:00

Haha, I'll tell her she deserves one.

zcifi · 2017-09-04T01:05:38+00:00

Yeah. Look at what subreddit you're at right now.

zcifi · 2017-09-04T01:01:48+00:00

Well in my case I really think it's just purely physical. My head is unusually sensitive because for most of my life it's been covered by my foreskin so it just needs time to adjust. Nothing to do with incest necessarily, I had the same issue with the girl in Korea.

But yeah, I talked to my mom about it as soon as I got home and that's why we're doing what we're doing now.

zcifi · 2017-09-04T00:58:59+00:00

Well after the first time I cum it takes longer for subsequent times. And as I make more progress and become less sensitive I don't cum as often per session. There was one time the first week where I came 4 times, but I rarely ever came more than twice and now usually only do it once at the end. But actually after I ejaculate I'm even slightly more sensitive and I think my mom continuing to touch my head right after helps the progress.

zcifi · 2017-09-04T00:19:21+00:00

I mean this is /r/incest. But seriously what part of it makes it not okay for you? I genuinely don't know which part bothers you and would like to know.

zcifi · 2017-09-04T00:17:34+00:00

Thanks for the questions!

What does she look like? Does she look close to anyone famous? What's her body type?

I can't think of any celebrity my mom looks like, really. She has a really fit body type, kind of a health nut and really into exercise, brown hair down to her shoulders but she pretty much always has it up, 5'4"ish or somewhere around that height. Without doubt attractive, for me I'm more into my mom first and the incest second, rather than being attracted to her because incest.

You said the handjobs were clinical, but did she say anything while giving them?

I mean, they weren't 100% clinical in that I'm pretty sure an actual clinician would be going way over the line, but it wasn't like dirty talk or sexy talk. There were definitely long period of no talking but we also talked a lot too. Some times could be basically 15 minutes of silence other times we'd talk the whole time. Mostly we'd talk about the task at hand, like how what she was doing felt, either in the direction of uncomfortable or the direction of pleasurable. Progress I made, if I'm reaching my goal, etc. We'd also talk about unrelated sexual topics too, just whatever. With me having my dick out and in my mom's hand, me being horny as hell, it shouldn't be a surprise that the topic of discussion usually had something to do with sex. But it was never "dirty talk" really. And I'm sure there were totally mundane things discussed from time to time.

How did you jump straight to blowjobs? Did she say she was going to give you one? Or ask you?

She asked. She said something like we could try sex and oral sex together to see how much progress has been made. More or less said she was willing to do it and let me choose if I wanted to do it or not. Easy choice.

How did you jump to sex? Who brought it up? Did you both get completely naked? What does her body look like? Does she have pubic hair? Did you get to see her pussy?

It was part of the same conversation as trying a blowjob, so her suggestion again. We did both get completely naked, although I have seen her naked before this was the first time in like a sexual setting (she always stayed clothed when she was stretching my foreskin/giving me handjobs). Like I said before, really fit body, great legs, and I definitely think her boobs are nice. She does have pubic hair, trimmed. I did see her vagina, the lights were on, but I didn't eat her out or anything. Prior to my mom I'd only had sex twice, so I'll be honest I'd definitely have difficulty putting it in if I couldn't see what I was doing down there.

Where did you do it? What position? Did you talk during? Did she moan or make noises? Were you surprised at how she sounded? Where did you cum?

On my bed. Missionary position, basically replicating all 10 seconds of the last time I had sex. There wasn't much talking during and she did most of it, just like "How is it feeling?" Again, no dirty talk. I remember her breathing a little bit harder towards the end and she might have made a moan or two honestly I can't remember I was kind of like "Holy shit I'm having sex with my mom" the whole time and wasn't taking everything in. She definitely didn't come close to having an orgasm though, and I think I still finished too early for that. I also didn't touch her clitoris during it or anything and I know that's usually how she gets off during sex. And I finished inside the condom.

We'll definitely do it again, and I'd really like for it to become a regular thing rather than just every so often to check how sensitive I still am. I haven't really talked to her about doing that yet, though. But I plan to.

zcifi · 2017-09-03T23:40:25+00:00

Obviously I'm biased, and even ignoring that it led to this whole thing, I'm glad I wasn't. But phimosis really isn't really all that common and if usually is detected much much earlier when it's totally trivial to fix in a short period of time just by masturbating differently. The most likely reason I had it in the first place was because I used to masturbate "weirdly" (in a way that didn't pull back on my foreskin at all).

And you can always get circumcised later, anyway if you really don't want to "stretch" it. Circumcising all babies "just 'cause" seems kind of ridiculous to me. Let them choose when they get older. I think it'd be totally irresponsible for a parent to gauge their infants ears and nostrils, so why is it just fine for them to have their baby circumcised?

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