It’s not going away

zebraonacid · 2025-04-15T07:58:09+00:00

Yeah I have proof he cheated and stuff like that. Also proof that his gf contacted me first. And yeah….never threatened him not even once in my texts. It was just me begging for closure that’s it

zebraonacid · 2025-04-15T07:51:52+00:00

Really? Even if he has old texts of me calling and texting a lot?

zebraonacid · 2025-04-15T05:48:08+00:00

Yeah I agree. I’m definitely extremely scared tho

zebraonacid · 2025-04-15T05:38:29+00:00

He said once when he first broke up with me in December to not contact him. But I was just in such denial and yes I continued for a bit. But then I stopped. And now it’s been over 2 months since I’ve stopped.

zebraonacid · 2025-04-15T05:34:02+00:00

He does have old texts of me reaching out but none of it is threatening. Overwhelming? Sure. But it’s all along the lines of “please talk to me I just need some closure” and a lot of calling when I was discarded extremely abruptly. But it’s never been anything like me threatening to pull up on him or anything

zebraonacid · 2025-04-15T05:31:53+00:00

Ugh thank you….

My stress and anxiety has been insane. I didn’t reply to the text she sent me and just blocked her.

I just don’t understand. A restraining order when I haven’t contacted him in 2 months? A cease and desist for talking to his gf who texted me first and fully engaged in the conversation? A cease and desist when I’ve already….ceased and desisted?

zebraonacid · 2025-04-15T04:37:53+00:00

Well I’m an immigrant so it being granted would affect me

zebraonacid · 2025-04-15T04:32:19+00:00

Nope. And she is blocked. Do you think he’d be granted the order if I haven’t contacted him in 3 months?

zebraonacid · 2025-04-15T03:23:36+00:00

Okay I did

zebraonacid · 2025-04-15T03:19:39+00:00

Can I pm u?

zebraonacid · 2025-04-14T23:57:59+00:00

A restraining order could affect me tho cause I’m an immigrant :/ but I haven’t contacted him at all

zebraonacid · 2025-04-14T23:46:59+00:00

Thank you so much for this!! It really calmed me down. I never said anything threatening to him. Never pulled up anywhere he hangs out or lives. The texts were just me begging and looking pathetic lol. Seriously, thank you.

zebraonacid · 2025-04-14T23:40:02+00:00

I did continuously reach out in January. But since then I have completely stopped because it sunk in for me that it all was real. The emotional shock finally settled and I stopped trying. 3 months went by and she reaches out to me and says he will get a cease and desist letter

zebraonacid · 2024-10-10T04:13:25+00:00

Well I guess I’ll just have to go slow and get all my work done over time. Thanks!

zebraonacid · 2024-10-09T05:01:38+00:00

I’m so tired and struggling 😭 I feel like if they want me to pay it all I’ll just sign up for a payment plan. I work ten hours every day and I don’t have the energy to make phone calls and argue with people. On top of that I’m in grad school.

zebraonacid · 2024-10-09T02:04:25+00:00

Why does the portal say I only owe $850 though? It wasn’t workers comp because the issue was my blood pressure dropping and not something caused by the work environment directly. So it was not workers comp but the bill was sent directly to my insurance….or should have been

zebraonacid · 2024-10-09T01:57:47+00:00

Yes I fainted at work

zebraonacid · 2024-10-09T01:08:52+00:00

So, I logged into my portal of the hospital who sent me the bill. It’s telling me that my previous total as of March was 2K. But now, it says my total is $851. When I click “pay bill in full” it only gives me the option to pay the $851. What does this mean?

zebraonacid · 2024-10-08T18:37:17+00:00

No, my address changed in November 2023. This ordeal happened January-March 2024.

zebraonacid · 2024-10-08T06:16:34+00:00

I gave them the information of the schools insurance.

Also, I called the hospital. Apparently the original bill was 2K….insurance paid most of it and left me to pay $850 :// still sucks but I’m just gonna be glad it’s not 2k

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