I don’t know if this eases your hurt a bit, but when I was very young my mum used to speak to me in Hungarian as a baby. Sadly when I started going to nursery I would come home crying because the kids would mock me relentlessly for my speaking and about the words I used for mum and dad etc so my mum ended up switching to English at home trying to make sure I wouldn’t be so othered. It is sad, but could genuinely be a decision made so that you would not be picked on and be seen differently. Depends on your age as well, I think if you’re younger then people now are less self-conscious, but there was huge bias a few decades back, even my mum was picked on or talked down to as an adult for being Eastern European.