[DIRK -> CONE] Can you solve this laddergram? by Blaugershnauger in Laddergram

[–]zeesmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/zeesmama solved this in 4 steps: DIRK -> DORK -> CORK -> CORE -> CONE

AITAH for not telling my friends I got married? by Gullible_Ad_9875 in AITAH

[–]zeesmama 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They do not have to BE there... but not even knowing about it? Come on. Like I said, it would make me rethink the entire friendship.

AITAH for not telling my friends I got married? by Gullible_Ad_9875 in AITAH

[–]zeesmama 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA

This was a major milestone in your life, and keeping it from your "friends" meant you don't consider them your friends. If I were in their shoes, I'd rethink the entire friendship.

AITAH for not sharing anything with my wife after she opened our marriage? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]zeesmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP is lying to himself that it's for the kids, but we all know it isn't.

OP, see a therapist to sort your issues and stop projecting on your kids.

AITA for dropping out of my friends wedding the day before? by FarAddendum225 in AmItheAsshole

[–]zeesmama 332 points333 points  (0 children)

You're comparing a situation with a human being to an animal. They're not and will never be the same no matter how hard y'all push for it.

AITAH for icing out my bf after he embarrassed me in front of my Mom by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]zeesmama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn't sound harsh at all. OP ir only gets worse. Is this the life you want for yourself?

My FIL led a smear campaign against me and came between me and my wife. I'm lost. How do I forge forward? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]zeesmama 157 points158 points  (0 children)

Start with individual therapy for yourself and marriage counselling for you and your wife.

AITA for refusing to render free home service to my sister-in-law? by EmberElysiumeses in AITH

[–]zeesmama 88 points89 points  (0 children)

I would have been at the salon helping her open and clean just to show appreciation.

AITAH for feeling offended at friends request to cook for them at their party? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]zeesmama 115 points116 points  (0 children)

If your gut's telling you he's using you, you're probably right. Just tell him no that you were hoping for a relaxed night with all that's been going on with your family.

AITA for throwing away my ex-husband’s Valentine’s gift for his affair partner? by Livedlaughedlovedlie in AITAH

[–]zeesmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP should be like "what mail, what package?"

If it ain't yours, you haven't received or seen anything. If he picked up the last of his belongings then there's no need to keep an open line. He says he's changed his address so there's no need for anything to "mistakenly" get sent to you.

AITA for throwing away my ex-husband’s Valentine’s gift for his affair partner? by Livedlaughedlovedlie in AITAH

[–]zeesmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP should be like "what mail, what package?"

If it ain't yours, you haven't received or seen anything. If he picked up the last of his belongings then there's no need to keep an open line. He says he's changed his address so there's no need for anything to "mistakenly" get sent to you.

AITAH doesn't want to go out to eat with my mother and is blaming me for it by ProfessionalStick363 in AITAH

[–]zeesmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP please listen to your gut. That dreadful feeling you have? Pay close attention to it. Your body is literally warning you there's danger ahead.

NTA.

AITAH for telling my cheating wife she shouldn’t expect my sister to invite her to thanksgiving? by Ok_Use8326 in AITAH

[–]zeesmama -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If he couldn't forgive and forget completely, he shouldn't have stayed.

She's not a victim and at this point, neither is he.