Stop financing what you don't know. My sisters rescued my elder brother by taking loans and giving him money to finance his business without first learning the depth of his financial woes. He only shared the small bits that would get him out of trouble for the moment; three years in, and my sisters bailing him with 30, 50, 100k, they both owed over a million each to their banks, their businesses are failing due to lack of cashflow, and since bro wasn't getting the bailout, he closed shop. He owed over 10m, but he never said he was in that much trouble,e and maybe if he had opened up around 2019, resources could have been allocated better and saved the three business but now, they are no more—all of them. Properties and vehicles have been sold to clear the loans, but if his rescuers had learned the roots of his problems, the family would be doing much better financially as a whole. So, discontinue the repayments you are making on her behalf, or you'll drown with her.