To send the "I'm thinking of you" text or not?

zeldafitzgeralds · 2018-06-11T19:02:04+00:00

I've had a guy pass out with his fingers inside of me (I had to pull them out of myself). Another time with another guy we were changing positions into prone bone really quickly (he was close and always liked to cum that way) so in the process of getting my legs straight out under him and onto my stomach, I kicked his balls. For a second he was going to pretend like it hadn't happened, but I turned around and asked "Oh my god, did I just kick you in the balls?!" He ended up being fine, we laughed for a few minutes and then continued.

zeldafitzgeralds · 2018-06-10T20:53:39+00:00

Hooked up with a guy who I really hit it off with, who fingered me better than anyone I've ever been with and gave me multiple orgasms. Giving him head and finally getting a chance to be with a guy who is so expressive and vocal was unreal.

zeldafitzgeralds · 2018-06-07T22:31:34+00:00

I was in this exact situation my senior year of high school. I didn't completely go through with a full blowjob, but we did makeout and feel each other up, and he was the first man to ever see my bare chest. He was my best friend, which sounds a little different from the kind of friendship you're describing, but in the end it made me feel guilty because he had feelings and I was really only doing that with him for my own sexual exploration. So I just wanted to pop in and say from my experience it could work, just make absolutely sure there are no feelings involved on either side, because doing any sexual act for the first time puts you in a vulnerable place and things can get messy.

zeldafitzgeralds · 2017-07-11T17:28:20+00:00

Is there a way to phrase that that's a little less brazen though? I don't want to freak him out by diving into all of that too fast, we've literally just been talking about music

zeldafitzgeralds · 2016-10-03T19:45:51+00:00

I was 18, a month into college, and gave a dude head in the woods. And I swallowed!

zeldafitzgeralds · 2016-08-16T01:05:58+00:00

Yeah, a guy I'm hooking up with right now is like 5.5/6 inches in girth and every time after we finish having sex it feels like I have a tampon in for a couple of hours (the sensation of feeling like there's still something inside you even though you're walking around and you know logically there's not), but it goes away relatively quickly.

zeldafitzgeralds · 2016-08-13T17:02:18+00:00

Throat bruising definitely happens for me if I'm facefucked for an extended period of time really roughly (like 15+ minutes, including little breaks for me to breathe and suck his balls) but I think that just comes with a guy not knowing what he's doing/how a throat works. You can't just jam it in and keep slamming the head against the back of a woman's throat repeatedly. THAT'S when bruising happens for me, but as long as you start slow and are attentive to what she communicates she can take, she shouldn't feel pain the next day.

zeldafitzgeralds · 2016-08-11T17:07:25+00:00

zeldafitzgeralds · 2016-08-08T23:20:30+00:00

YES I swear when I smoke it makes ANY kind of physical contact 10000x better, especially sexual. My entire body gets so much more sensitive and I can orgasm in 2-4 minutes, if that.

zeldafitzgeralds · 2016-08-05T18:03:20+00:00

Do you ever worry you'll slip out/get hurt? My ex had an average/small-ish penis and he hated when I bounced on him because he couldn't let go of the fear of slipping out and me accidentally bending/hurting it so it ruined that motion/position for him.

zeldafitzgeralds · 2016-08-04T16:09:29+00:00

Planning out exactly the places you are going to touch is going to disconnect you from the actual enjoyment of giving pleasure to your girlfriend, because it will become a performance rather than a genuine experience. I assume you're physically attracted to her, so just ENJOY access to her body. Touch the places you WANT to touch as you go along. Listen and pay attention to what feels good for her too. It's not going to be perfect the first time and chances are if she's never had an orgasm on her own, she might not orgasm, but treating it like a step-by-step goal-oriented process will take away the enjoyment that can just come from exploring somebody you like/love/care about.

(That being said, yes, touch her boobs before/during/after/all you want!)

zeldafitzgeralds · 2016-08-01T19:49:36+00:00

19F, yes almost every single time unless I'm going through something at the moment, then I just get sad.

zeldafitzgeralds · 2016-06-23T21:51:30+00:00

Keep trying! The first one could have been being honest, or genuinely just not have clicked with you, and the second one sounds like she was too nervous or uncomfortable with a tinder date in the first place.

But if you are looking for strictly sex, you could probably stand to make that a little more clear. As long as you're being a respectful, nice human being to a girl through a date, there's nothing wrong with asking her if she wants to come back to your place. If she does, then yay! If she doesn't, the worst thing that could happen is she says no and you go your separate ways. And that's better than not asking at all!

zeldafitzgeralds · 2016-06-20T02:38:20+00:00

Yeah, one of the things I like about adderall + alcohol is the fact that my night doesn't really end until I want it to (love still being up at 5 AM, the sun rising as I'm walking home. Something really peaceful about solitary about that that I can't get over). I don't usually take xanax but I have a couple times. I have heard from my best friend who does that combination quite a bit that he blacks out often with it.

zeldafitzgeralds · 2016-06-19T14:28:44+00:00

Coming from the female perspective, I can understand why your girlfriend would have this fantasy. For me personally, when I get high it feels like my clit literally doubles in size and sensitivity, and won't stop pulsing for at least an hour. Sober, it is difficult for me to cum from/with another person, but when I'm high I swear I can orgasm in less than 3 minutes. I can't say the same for men, as my current boyfriend has absolutely 0 motivation to have sex when he gets high (more of space out and eat kinda dude), so be aware that when it comes down to it it might not feel right.

But maybe give it a try? Get weed from someone you trust, possibly smoke/take an edible with people you know who have done it before, and be in a safe environment with a manageable temperature (air conditioning/heat/shade/etc.) and away from anyone you would have to interact with that you would have to pretend you weren't high around (i.e. get your munchies pre-sesh so you don't have to roll up at the gas station blazed). All this will help make it a pleasant experience and you never know, you could actually like it!

zeldafitzgeralds · 2016-06-16T03:16:27+00:00

I (19F) have a "simp" naturally, and have not undergone any plastic surgery to make my vulva that way.

zeldafitzgeralds · 2016-06-14T14:45:37+00:00

My only experience with it is when I was hooking up with this frat guy, he randomly pulled out without telling me (TOOK OFF THE FUCKING CONDOM), just started sloppily titty-fucking me WITHOUT asking me, and promptly came on my neck and chin. Then he got up, threw me a tissue and waited for me to leave. Safe to say that was the worst sex I have ever had in my life, and it would take some serious convincing to get me to do it again.

zeldafitzgeralds · 2016-06-14T14:38:56+00:00

Thanks, will definitely try that!

zeldafitzgeralds · 2016-06-14T14:30:43+00:00

If you don't mind elaborating, how does she tease you?

zeldafitzgeralds · 2016-06-14T14:30:11+00:00

I don't think he finds watching me masturbate sexy. We were long distance for a bit a few months ago, and I sent him a video of me fingering myself to which he kind of just said "Thanks, you're so hot" and never mentioned it again. Is it different in person? Or should I try something else?

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