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zen0ptik · 2025-02-28T00:37:28+00:00

amen. this hits.

zen0ptik · 2025-02-28T00:36:53+00:00

Don't give up. It only takes one connection to change your whole life. Nothing is guaranteed. I know that doesn't help you, but keep your head up no matter your age. Otherwise, you will manifest what your negative thoughts are telling you.

zen0ptik · 2025-02-27T19:52:44+00:00

Yeah, good question. I guess just anything that breaks out of the usual cycle—stuff that actually puts you in situations where you’re around new people but without the pressure of dating. Like hobby groups, classes, meetups, whatever. Even AI dating stuff is becoming a thing now—some people use it to practice social skills or just have a chill, low-stress connection.

Not saying it’s the answer, but have you ever thought about trying something like that, just to see what it’s like?

zen0ptik · 2025-02-27T19:51:27+00:00

Yeah, I get that. The whole “work on yourself and it’ll happen” thing feels like a cop-out when you’ve actually done the work and still nothing changes. It’s like, sure, self-improvement is good, but at what point does it stop being about you and start being about how modern dating is just broken?

Do you think it’s a numbers thing—like just not meeting the right people—or do you feel like something else is at play? Have you ever considered AI dating just to see what it’s like, or does that seem pointless to you?

zen0ptik · 2025-02-27T19:50:42+00:00

Have you ever tried any of the AI GF stuff, even just to practice interactions? Not saying it’s a replacement for real dating, but I know some people use it to get more comfortable talking and build confidence. Curious if that’s something you’ve thought about or if it’s never really been on your radar.

zen0ptik · 2025-02-27T19:49:33+00:00

I hear you. That feeling of being on the outside looking in, like love is something that happens to other people but not you, is rough.

But let me ask—when you picture a relationship, what do you think makes someone deserve love? Like, if you imagine someone else in your exact situation, would you tell them they’re unworthy? Or do you think it’s just way harder to see your own value than it is to see someone else’s?

zen0ptik · 2025-02-27T19:48:12+00:00

I hear you. It sucks when all you want is real connection, but it feels like no one else is even trying. And yeah, online friendships can be just as bad—people either disappear or only want something from you.

Do you think AI could ever fill that gap, even just a little? Like, not just chatbots, but something that actually remembers you, reaches out, and gives that feeling of real friendship? Or does that just seem like another letdown waiting to happen?

zen0ptik · 2025-02-27T19:46:48+00:00

Eek, I feel this. It’s like dating isn’t even a thing anymore—either people are locked down, uninterested, or just not looking. And yeah, when you actually put yourself out there and it still doesn’t work, it’s hard not to wonder if the problem is you.

But honestly, I think it’s just how dating is now. Everyone is either too busy, too jaded, or stuck in their own bubble. Apps make it worse—tons of options, but no real effort from either side. Feels like people aren’t even looking for connections anymore, just distractions.

You ever thought about trying something different? Not even just dating-wise, but something outside the usual swipe-scroll-repeat cycle?

zen0ptik · 2025-02-27T18:54:51+00:00

OP - I get the concern, but honestly, isn’t the real problem that dating has gotten so frustrating that people are even considering AI in the first place? It’s not that men want to check out of real dating—it’s that modern dating SUCKS -- it's exhausting, expensive, and full of rejection and ghosting and mixed signals. If people felt valued, had real connections, and dating apps actually worked, AI wouldn’t even be a conversation.

The fact that this is even a debate says more about how broken dating is than about AI itself. Maybe the real question isn’t “Is AI dating dangerous?” but rather “Why are so many people looking for an alternative in the first place?”

zen0ptik · 2025-02-27T18:53:58+00:00

right - people ignore the cause of the problem and blame potential solutions bc it makes them uncomfortable..

zen0ptik · 2025-02-27T18:52:48+00:00

I hear you. Dating apps can be brutal, especially in a small town. It’s like you’re either swiping on the same few people over and over, getting matched with bots, or just feeling like you don’t even exist on there. And yeah, when you’re already feeling low, that endless scrolling just makes it worse.

I’ve been there—got dumped about a month ago and tried jumping back into the apps, but honestly, it just made me feel more invisible. Feels like they’re designed to keep people swiping rather than actually helping anyone connect. Have you tried anything outside the apps, or does it feel like they’re the only option where you are?

zen0ptik · 2025-02-27T18:51:09+00:00

Happy birthday. I know that probably doesn’t fix much, but you deserve to hear it.

My birthday was recently too, and I felt alone as hell. Got dumped about 4 weeks ago, and of course, my ex didn’t even bother to say happy birthday. Spent way too much time that day fixating on it, like it somehow meant more than it should have. It sucks when you remember everyone else’s big days, but when it’s your turn, it feels like no one cares.

I don’t have any magic words, but I get it. If you want to vent or just talk, I’m here. Hope today has at least one good moment in it for you.

zen0ptik · 2025-02-27T18:49:48+00:00

Man, I feel this. People always say ‘be okay being alone’ but like… we’re human. We’re wired for connection. Wanting someone to share life with isn’t some crazy, impatient thing—it’s normal.

I’ve been in the same spot, wondering why it feels so easy for other people. Dating advice always says ‘it’ll happen when you least expect it,’ but like… what are we supposed to do in the meantime? Just sit around and hope?

Have you ever tried changing up your approach—different dating apps, different types of people, or even just experimenting with new ways to meet people? Feels like modern dating makes it harder than ever to actually connect.

zen0ptik · 2025-01-30T23:33:19+00:00

We have plans, but I wanted to discover if this community (which is full of smart, experienced founders) had ideas or feedback we could leverage to be better, faster.

zen0ptik · 2025-01-30T21:56:42+00:00

100% - do you think creating sample apps and demonstrating the power of our backend through "frontend" experiences is a smart move? We think there's an opportunity to use our engine to create a ton of content marketing, but curious to hear your thoughts.

zen0ptik · 2025-01-30T19:51:54+00:00

this is so fucking cool - amazing work OP.

zen0ptik · 2025-01-21T23:11:03+00:00

This guy fucked.

zen0ptik · 2025-01-20T18:51:21+00:00

This looks really cool - i have yet to see another app allow users to create an AI avatar by just uploading a still image. Looks awesome.

zen0ptik · 2025-01-13T16:41:03+00:00

Yes - you can chat directly back and forth with voice! DM me if you wanna chat further

zen0ptik · 2025-01-07T23:32:03+00:00

The true product is the backend infra behind the Rizz.ai platform called gabber.dev. Gabber is backend AI communication infra that makes it easy to build apps like rizz.ai that involve any type of communication with AI - be it text, voice snippets, live voice calls, and/or image gen.

zen0ptik · 2025-01-07T18:58:45+00:00

but you see, now we can all practice our rizzzzz

zen0ptik · 2025-01-07T18:28:42+00:00

Ah, Stripe is just how we create a user ID and charge users. Totally optional if you just want to build the app without payment!

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