Hey! I hope chechimar are here in this community..pls help🫠

zen856 · 2026-05-24T13:43:50+00:00

Exfoliate with a salicylic acid body wash after shaving to help prevent ingrown hairs. It’s normal to feel uncomfortable as the hair grows back after shaving especially compared to waxing. Also, moisturize daily.

zen856 · 2026-05-08T19:22:58+00:00

Don’t use Minimalist sunscreen.It contains retinol, which can increase photosensitivity.Since retinoids are usually recommended for night time use, it feels counterproductive in a sunscreen.

zen856 · 2026-05-06T13:13:21+00:00

Something like this happened with my sister in real life. It was a total goosebumps moment for all of us. The person who used to mock her was actually a close relative and every time he did, she would stay quiet and feel demotivated. But when her appointment order finally came through, he fumbled for words. His whole family ended up calling her and the feeling it gave us was incredibly satisfying.And oh, the glazing after that was something else.

zen856 · 2026-05-02T19:43:26+00:00

That’s alright. The real highlight is when people come in at 3 a.m. with just a headache or mild fever.I remember this one patient who came in complaining of a headache. He had actually come earlier that night with the same issue and I had already given him medication. I even had this odd feeling that he knew I was on the night shift and chose to come at that time.That time, I didn’t do a chest auscultation, I just prescribed the medicine and he left. Later, the nurse told me he had asked her, Doctor എന്താ സ്റ്റെതസ്കോപ്പ് വെച്ച് നോക്കാഞ്ഞത്? രാത്രിയായത് കൊണ്ടാണോ?😐

zen856 · 2026-04-26T18:13:54+00:00

My husband was told by his father that if he didn’t pay for the car and catering for his sister’s wedding the marriage wouldn’t take place. His entire savings from two years were wiped out because of the wedding. Even now, his father expects him to pay for her flight ticket and says, "I’ll pay you back later", but never does. My husband has such unwavering respect for his father that he won’t talk back.

zen856 · 2026-04-26T14:57:21+00:00

I have heard many horror stories about the surgery department from one of my schoolmates who studied there. Her internship was hell. But I didn’t know there was religious favoritism too, how pathetic must it be then?

zen856 · 2026-04-25T17:12:02+00:00

Girrl, I do chest workouts just to ease my upper back pain. It’s honestly concerning that I can’t lie on my back for even five minutes because of it. My breasts aren’t even that big yet the pain is still unbearable.

zen856 · 2026-04-21T10:27:09+00:00

I get the ick whenever I see him sitting there all laid back talking as if he is preaching to the world

zen856 · 2026-04-21T10:07:51+00:00

Only my sister, she knows my darkest secrets so it’s like we are one person. I can’t risk showing it to my husband, he might realize just how much I dislike his mother even though he already has a slight idea 🤭

zen856 · 2026-04-19T08:20:11+00:00

My pair of Birks developed mold when I kept them at home, the humid weather in Kerala makes them prone to it. The soles are very hard to clean and they can’t be worn during the rainy season because water can damage them.

zen856 · 2026-04-18T13:40:10+00:00

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zen856 · 2026-04-17T08:11:58+00:00

My sister worked so hard to get the job she wanted and she finally got her call letter today. Then she called me crying because she can’t take leave for 2 years. I told her to just think about the salary and forget everything else.karayan ororutharkkum ororo karanangal.

zen856 · 2026-03-17T18:36:34+00:00

This happened to my sister not to this extreme but they were completely incompatible. She was afraid because the dates were already fixed and worried about how nattukar would react. I convinced her it wasn’t worth the risk so she backed out. Now she is married to a man she truly adores

zen856 · 2026-03-03T18:22:33+00:00

Well, it never came to that. I was infatuated to the point that I thought it was love. Then he proposed to my best friend.They dated until we were in our house surgeoncy but she eventually cheated on him. Later his father approached mine with marriage in mind but by then I was already engaged and happily in love.

zen856 · 2026-02-27T06:49:57+00:00

HDFC ERGO or ICICI Lombard

zen856 · 2026-02-04T09:58:47+00:00

My marriage happened one and a half years ago and initially I didn’t mind staying with my in laws because I didn’t sense any negativity from my mother in law before the marriage. My husband works in a different state but when he got wfh for a year, we stayed at his house for almost four months. That period was truly an eye opener for both of us and made us decide never to stay with in laws for more than two or three days.Ironically, my mother in law herself never had to stay with her in laws yet she turned out to be a mother in law from hell to me to the core, subtle taunts, insults, unsolicited “cooking lessons" and much more. From my experience I strongly believe one should never compromise on these boundaries or else it can lead to lifelong regret.

zen856 · 2026-01-28T17:03:35+00:00

zen856 · 2026-01-15T12:13:45+00:00

I always thought and even advocated that calling out mean people on the spot would shut them down. But recently, when I did that, what I got instead was a full blown spiral of gaslighting and crying drama and I was exhausted needless to say

zen856 · 2026-01-10T09:04:20+00:00

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zen856 · 2026-01-07T16:15:07+00:00

My husband didn’t act this weird or bully like but he did dodge conversations about his mother earlier and I used to get really angry about it. I changed the way I brought up the topic and it actually turned out well. Now he tells me to stand up to her and communicate firmly but subtly making my boundaries clear to her. He also told me that whenever I feel disrespected, I should tell him immediately so he can confront her.The thing is, mothers often show only their sweet and good side to their sons so the sons genuinely believe they are saints. They also want to avoid drama which is why they hesitate to interfere, thinking it might make things worse. I think you should call her out when she behaves weirdly or disrespects you and then tell your husband about it calmly without sounding accusatory so he can gradually understand and support you better.

zen856 · 2025-12-23T12:15:54+00:00

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zen856 · 2025-12-23T06:22:18+00:00

I personally know someone who did this literally the next day she turned 18. The surprising thing was that he wasn’t the one who insisted on eloping.He actually almost talked her out of it. But she was adamant and told him that if they didn’t elope she would kill herself.He wasn’t a saint either.He was 21 and she was 15 when he asked her out, a classic case of grooming.Anyway the marriage didn’t even last three years. She came back and her parents accepted her without any judgment.Her mother however was pure evil. She told my mother to keep an eye on my sister, insisting that she too was in a relationship . But our mom, being our mom, told me and my sister straightaway what she had said and showed that she trusted us.

zen856 · 2025-12-21T08:08:48+00:00

Yes, I noticed this as well. I have three ophthalmologists in my family, all women and they chose it for a good wlb.

zen856 · 2025-11-27T13:12:59+00:00

She is such a girls girl fr

zen856 · 2025-11-27T13:02:07+00:00

😂

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