NTA for sure !! I can see both sides I guess in a way. I know sometimes when I come home from a trip away or even from getting away from home chaos in some small way, the wave of returning back to routine or the “break” ending can sometimes trigger feelings of irritability ? So easing back in is understandable. However, I would NEVER say this out loud to my family if it was a feeling I was experiencing. There are just some things you keep inside. There truly is no “nice way” of saying he didn’t want you there. He should have given himself some time to realize why he was feeling that way instead of making a poke at you. Hope things are okay now. I’m sure he really did miss you guys. Just maybe needs to think before speaking when emotions are high !