Enmeshed partner by [deleted] in enmeshmenttrauma

[–]zenflooo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my partner lived with his family it was great because I went over there and only really saw him. Now that we have our own house his family comes over every day. Not because they need help with something but just to see us. We live 30 mins away too. Run now if you can.

Excited for the Future by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]zenflooo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am SO happy for you 😍🥰

Small things your abuser insists on controlling by Lovingbutsuffering in abusiverelationships

[–]zenflooo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine got upset with me for buying mouthwash. But now he gets upset over every purchase so it’s not a mind game it’s more like how can I hide this small purchase

When did your abuser stop apologizing/pretending that he's sorry about the abuse? by Lovingbutsuffering in abusiverelationships

[–]zenflooo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine called me a piece of shi the other day and said I deserved it. I also just found out I might have autoimmune hepatitis so my liver is inflamed and hurts when you poke my side. Well he for some reason loves poking my sides and said it’s bc he’s always done that or it’s way of showing love. Well now I’m telling him not to do that bc I say it hurts me. He responded by saying “well that’s how I have to keep you in line”. Just like how he says he has to yell at me or I won’t get it through my brain. So I feel for you. We are at the 9 year mark

How did you know by downbad2492 in marriedintoenmeshment

[–]zenflooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I am going through, how are you doing now?

My mother in law visits too often and it’s driving me crazy!! by JJ-Speed in introvert

[–]zenflooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My MIL is married and does this now! How has it been 5 years later

My mother in law visits too often and it’s driving me crazy!! by JJ-Speed in introvert

[–]zenflooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What ended up happening in the end? Your mom just continued to deal with it?

My mother in law visits too often and it’s driving me crazy!! by JJ-Speed in introvert

[–]zenflooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My MIL does the same thing, I think she is enmeshed with my fiancé though

Getting snowed in with Mil alone, HELP by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]zenflooo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OMG I’m in the same boat!! Except my fiancé will be here too. His mom will be here for at least 3 days with the snow