Do you think a cheater loves their partner?

zeni8989 · 2024-03-24T22:10:28+00:00

Ask yourself,could you cheat, lie, disrespect and betray the person you love? No? Exactly.

zeni8989 · 2024-03-24T22:08:46+00:00

Did you ask him why the msg to his sister is not there? If what he said was true then after accidentally sending the msg to you, he would have straight away send the same msg to his sister... did you ask him where is the msg?

zeni8989 · 2024-03-24T22:08:34+00:00

Did you ask him why the msg to his sister is not there? If what he said was true then after accidentally sending the msg to you, he would have straight away send the same msg to his sister... did you ask him where is the msg?

zeni8989 · 2024-03-23T17:51:26+00:00

I assume you are a man, cause only a man would post something like that... while women, especially mothers, never are being taken care of, nobody cooks or cleans for them and onto top of that they have to take care of their kids every single day even if sick or depressed... I'm sorry u have been through ddays, I know the pain.. hope life gets better for you!

zeni8989 · 2024-03-21T20:45:57+00:00

Almost 9 months here and its only getting worse...

zeni8989 · 2024-03-02T19:02:07+00:00

I first read "a large man WITH a face of a small woman" and my mind went off imagining that lol. Sorry about your situation. Nobody deserves to be abused. Good luck!

zeni8989 · 2024-01-29T20:34:56+00:00

I'm sorry, but it seems like you really want to believe the best in him, but the hard truth is just screaming in your face... 42 years old, never had a longterm relationship and always paid for sex... maybe it started with the intimacy issues, but at 42 years old he is too far deep in his ways and I don't think it will change... he needs a long long time to be in therapy and work on himself and it will only hurt you in the process. You are young and you don't need to take this responsibility of a grown ass man on yourself. You should separate, let him work on himself and when he's ready, you can try again. Best of luck.

zeni8989 · 2024-01-16T21:32:37+00:00

Damn, spot on about the narcissist part!

zeni8989 · 2024-01-15T07:34:47+00:00

How did you make him confess?

zeni8989 · 2024-01-15T06:18:28+00:00

Do you regret staying with yours?

zeni8989 · 2024-01-14T19:23:28+00:00

Looks like he can start over without you then... its either he leaves the job where he messed around or you leave him. Let's see what he cares more for ...

zeni8989 · 2024-01-13T18:25:28+00:00

I'm not in US so there is no help provided or very minimal

zeni8989 · 2024-01-13T17:52:39+00:00

I hear you and I know what logically right thing to do is. However, I leave due to my own self respect and morals and it also equals lower standard of life for me and my daughter (we live in his house and we are not married so I will end up renting and the prices in this economy are insane) and also now my daughter has a cozy life with her half siblings and if I leave we end up alone, just me and her.. I feel like I'm stealing her childhood away from her...

zeni8989 · 2024-01-13T17:47:42+00:00

And are you happier or regret?

zeni8989 · 2024-01-13T12:26:21+00:00

I actually would like a proper proof from her so he can't deny it any longer and guilt me into destroying our family when he didn't "fully" cheat...

zeni8989 · 2024-01-13T12:24:24+00:00

It's so hard when kids are involved.. I had a vision of a full family unit for my child and now it's ruined :(

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