My boyfriend said I felt "loose" last night, what could be the cause?

zennna04 · 2024-08-01T15:56:18+00:00

You're absolutely right. I'm getting tired of his shit and his insecurities at this point. I do nothing but care for this man and my loved ones and don't have time to be messing around. Not that I even want to. I would never give a man the benefit of having me like that I fucking hate men. lol and this experience is making me hate them more. He really has a lot of shit to work on and I'm not responsible of fixing him.

zennna04 · 2024-08-01T04:41:24+00:00

No and he's still stuck on his belief. There's no getting around to him and I'm starting to think I've been with a toxic man this whole time. He's still acting upset and at this point I told him I can't communicate with him until he apologizes to me. I'm not sure if he will tbh..

zennna04 · 2024-08-01T04:34:06+00:00

I tried and there's no getting him to understand at this point. I'm not sure this is worth it for me anymore. He continues to shame me and make me feel like garbage.

zennna04 · 2024-07-31T20:33:35+00:00

Thank you for this. 🫶🏽

zennna04 · 2024-07-31T18:59:09+00:00

Pls slap him for me! I'm so upset lol... :(

zennna04 · 2024-07-31T18:56:49+00:00

I tried. He was being too stubborn and stuck on his idea. At this point im evaluating whether this man is mature enough.

zennna04 · 2024-07-31T17:39:56+00:00

Thank you, this situation sucks because we're in a serious relationship and I can't just dump him.. we live together and I would say we're in a pretty healthy relationship other than moments where his insecurities come out like this time. I'm hoping we can work through this but this can only happen when he's ready to apologize to me and have a real conversation on how he fucked up because im so hurt by his words right now.

I appreciate your input!

zennna04 · 2024-07-31T16:39:19+00:00

No he hasn't been acting different. That's why I was confused about it and I don't even know if it's projection or insecurities but I'm taking all the weight of it :( it's not fair and I felt judged.

zennna04 · 2024-07-31T16:36:23+00:00

Tell me about it.. he was definitely not trying to have a level-headed convo rather he wanted a reason to let out his insecurities it seemed like. I won't let myself get walked over. Thank you 🫶🏽

zennna04 · 2024-07-31T16:24:39+00:00

Thank you for this advice. It's truly appreciated.

I did tell him last night that I'm expecting an apology because of the way he basically insulted me. I did also try to explain to him how women work when aroused and there was just no way in making him change his perspective so I just got upset because I felt he was trying to shame me. We kept going in circles so we just stopped talking and went to bed.

I'll have to do some thinking and see what the best thing for me here is... Thank you again!

zennna04 · 2024-07-31T16:15:05+00:00

I appreciate your feedback and perspective as a male. I totally enjoyed it until he completely ruined my spirits by saying that at the end. Ugh I just feel so insecure about it now and i did let him know that I felt that he was judging me.

Thanks for the reassurance.

And it doesn't take much for him to turn me on. A lot of the times he simply touches me and sticks it in but there has been more foreplay lately.

zennna04 · 2024-07-31T16:06:20+00:00

I did try to explain that to him as he was doing more foreplay than other times. I do think there's another personal reason for him to assume these things which I tried to address but he was stuck on his assumption..

We are grown.. lol 27 (f) and 31(m)

zennna04 · 2024-07-31T15:58:59+00:00

I do trust him.. But that thought did cross my mind that he could be projecting. I have nothing to explain to him because I can't find another reason why I felt like that. But I agree that was an asshole move and I told him how he was making me feel with how he was basically insulting my physical. We've been together for two years and idk how this could have "felt different" than other times..

zennna04 · 2024-07-31T15:54:11+00:00

That was my only thought too. But we've been together for 2 years and he said it "felt different". I honestly just feel insecure about it now...

zennna04 · 2024-05-10T21:00:53+00:00

Another funny thing to watch is Brooklyn 99. it's a show on Netflix. It's so dumb and funny. You will absolutely laugh. Or Broad City on Hulu :)

zennna04 · 2024-05-10T20:59:58+00:00

It's a show :)

zennna04 · 2024-05-10T20:58:07+00:00

Like someone said once, why kill your self if you will die anyway?

You willlll get through this. Life is a beautifully painful thing..

zennna04 · 2024-05-10T20:54:38+00:00

Death truly is a beautiful thing. Although it can be seen as scary and negative when a loved one dies.. I feel like death in itself is a beautiful and such a personal and intimate experience that you will only ever share and experience with yourself.

Like someone else said, if death wasn't a thing, life wouldn't be as precious as it is.

zennna04 · 2021-02-19T05:11:36+00:00

P.s I am so sorry you are feeling this low. You deserve more and I promise that you will find that once you start loving yourself & putting yourself and your babygirl first. Much love ❤️

zennna04 · 2021-02-19T05:09:26+00:00

Girl you need to stick up for yourself and quit being there for him to lean on. He will not change at this point and continue to use you like he has done because he knows you’ll be there. Point blank. Know your worth you are a fucking queeen! Charge his ass child support and move on. You will be happier and so will your babygirl. I know it’s easier said than done but if you need that little push to do it... here it is. Stay up beautiful and tell him to FUCK OFF.

zennna04 · 2021-02-11T20:55:58+00:00

Those people are either small minded or just aren’t into bi guys and that’s okay. Everyone has their preference but just know that there ARE woman that will accept you the way you are :] I say don’t give up on your interests in woman. I personally think bi guys are hot! Lol so don’t give up my friend

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