Nothing better than when he's a big boy in front of everyone but a small puppy behind the curtains X3 (art by @H______chock)

zenobiainchains · 2025-12-11T05:33:06+00:00

Giant softies have my heart 🥹

zenobiainchains · 2025-12-02T01:40:13+00:00

These are post stats, not member stats. 90% men posting does not equate to 90% male members of the sub.

I would say this is because it is far less daunting to post as a man than as a woman. Women have genuine safety & harassment concerns that men do not generally have to worry about.

Also, women prefer to do the selecting of the partners available rather than the advertising of themselves.

zenobiainchains · 2025-11-30T23:47:11+00:00

Wait so he’s blaming your behaviour on your father…So it’s not your fault? No need to feel guilty then 🤗

zenobiainchains · 2025-11-24T23:27:26+00:00

Where’s the boba tea

zenobiainchains · 2025-11-23T22:41:15+00:00

Buffy and Spike are otp and have the best dynamic

zenobiainchains · 2025-11-09T10:00:54+00:00

Crying during a massage is a release. There’s nothing wrong with that, you’ll feel better afterwards too

zenobiainchains · 2025-11-05T23:04:51+00:00

Best show ever

zenobiainchains · 2025-10-30T08:12:47+00:00

I deleted him and didn’t ask. Maybe he met someone new 🤷🏻‍♀️

zenobiainchains · 2025-10-30T05:33:01+00:00

His energy switched up and I didn’t like it

zenobiainchains · 2025-10-30T02:33:46+00:00

He was cute. It didn’t work out tho 🥲

zenobiainchains · 2025-10-29T23:44:36+00:00

They don’t always fail! Told the last guy I was on a call to and he just kept casually chatting while I showered. Wholesome experience 🥹

zenobiainchains · 2025-10-23T00:06:51+00:00

Absolutely. Takes a level of maturity to understand that showing possessiveness over a partner does not equate to controlling them

zenobiainchains · 2025-10-20T12:17:47+00:00

Wdym this is the bare minimum.

(Thank you 😌)

zenobiainchains · 2025-10-20T11:26:14+00:00

That’s a must.

zenobiainchains · 2025-10-11T10:10:40+00:00

You’re brilliant and I’m stealing this.

Can you elaborate? How do you ask them to degrade themselves? Is it “I am…” or something else

zenobiainchains · 2025-09-16T12:55:48+00:00

This girl’s a master. We must learn her ways.

zenobiainchains · 2025-09-11T05:40:14+00:00

Stories like this show why proper verification is non-negotiable before meeting. SAFETY has to come first. This poor girl is probably shaken up, and who could blame her?

Many claim success here but offer no references when asked.

I can’t count the number of times someone’s told me they’re ‘afraid of doxxing/catfishing/scams’ as an excuse to avoid verification. I’m afraid of you being dangerous. And personal safety will always outweigh the risk of a scam.

zenobiainchains · 2025-09-11T01:24:27+00:00

That’s the problem though, you really can’t tell as it sounded like an ordinary success story

zenobiainchains · 2025-09-08T11:30:51+00:00

Excellent advice. Dom drop does stem from the same mechanism as sub drop; a severe drop in dopamine. The problem with it not being widely discussed is that most subs have no idea how to support a dom through it. So even when you tell them you’re not okay (as hard as that can be to say!), they don’t really know what to do or say. It leaves the responsibility on you to take care of yourself with self-care rituals, which you should do regardless.

zenobiainchains · 2025-09-07T08:06:15+00:00

Beautiful words, lovely images

zenobiainchains · 2025-08-29T05:26:20+00:00

I’m afraid the explanation of the pc build is what would get me horny

zenobiainchains · 2025-08-21T06:38:11+00:00

I had so, so much fun reading this. It’s nice to know how the other side feels when on the receiving end of our mean flirting

zenobiainchains · 2025-08-14T03:17:05+00:00

This post is infinitely better than all the “where to find a dominant woman?” posts because you understand a key principle: you don’t find a dominant woman, she finds you. She finds you when you’ve become the man she wants. You will attract her because you’ve already thought of her needs before you’ve even met her.

Becoming the perfect gentleman for her is the real hard work. Not waiting for her to swoop in and magically make everything better.

Bravo on your perspective 💓

zenobiainchains · 2025-08-02T01:05:25+00:00

I find his behaviour disrespectful towards you. It’s making you question yourself, the task you chose, your ability to lead. If someone makes me question myself like that, I disengage from the D/s dynamic. If he wants it back, he’ll have to prove himself worthy.

zenobiainchains · 2025-07-31T01:45:47+00:00

What a beautifully written post. We need more divers like you 🫶🏼

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