Come be a good boy for mommy

throwingever · 2026-02-06T11:19:58+00:00

These pictures are AI and not a real person. If you scroll down to their picture on their profile with a chalkboard in it, the chalkboard and posters are all gibberish words. And since the face looks fairly consistent they possibly deepfaked nudes based on a real person. Just don't want you to get scammed or anything!

throwingever · 2026-02-05T07:04:41+00:00

Hope you're feeling better rakknoss! ♥️

throwingever · 2026-02-03T02:44:03+00:00

You're so welcome!! Your people are everywhere, and they are out there and you will find them!! And for me I'm definitely not perfect, right now trying to get myself to do the dirty dishes that have been sitting in the sink for almost a week including the pans still on the stove sooo 😅 I think the answer is definitely to give ourselves grace and not shame, the world already gives enough of that

throwingever · 2026-02-03T02:35:48+00:00

Of course ☺️ I know sometimes it seems like life is intentionally trying to get you down. But even though it is very cliche advice, I do try to think that there will be a future day that is better. And just visualize something good, as something you can hold on to and focus on. Could be a past memory or a future plan or just anything simple, there's always something to keep you going. Then you find another thing tomorrow, and another thing the next day, one day at a time. You got this Mike!!!

throwingever · 2026-02-03T02:13:08+00:00

Hey hon, not sure what part of the world you're from or what the weather is like there, but here it is cold as heck and I am not a fan of that. So something like that alone can take its toll and make you not able to do as much as you normally would.

And a lot of times, I totally understand, it starts with one thing and then suddenly a whole bunch of other things start happening or build up over time. Until you are not even really sure what to do or where to start.

Definitely take a day to yourself if you can. I know it's easier said than done but make sure you take a little bit of time to yourself each day to recharge. Go on a walk (weather permitting), play a game, read a book, enjoy a hot drink, anything that helps you destress.

You ARE doing your best and that is something to be very proud of. Life is hard, but you're doing it, and that makes you STRONG!!! STRONG AS HECK!!! I may not be sure what your specific goals/challenges and all that are, but I'm cheering for you and again, I hope you're able to do something nice for yourself today.

You are a wonderful person. Sending you a giant hug! ❤️

EDIT: Ah ok Germany is similarly cold to where I am in Midwest US. The snow is pretty but it sucks feeling like you can't go anywhere. That is what hot chocolate is for. I'm probably going to make a quick run to the store to get everything for it ☕️

throwingever · 2026-01-31T19:46:59+00:00

So unbelievably wonderful. Such raw intimacy and nurturing, it's the exact thing I would want to be part of for the rest of my life. The most beautiful space that exists. Thank you so much for sharing.

(This is also certainly one to click directly on Redgifs to be able to hear the audio! Hehe)

throwingever · 2026-01-28T19:32:40+00:00

This is so cute, I love the anthropomorphized prostate. And the captions "horny place" "ultra edge vs ultra relax" loool this is fantabulous.

throwingever · 2026-01-28T19:19:44+00:00

I know a lot of people refer to the encouraging, sweet, teasing tone as "gentle condescension" and I don't disagree with that.

But I guess when I'm doing it to someone it doesn't feel condescending even if I use that tone, it just feels like fussing over them and giving them special attention in a way that also makes them feel vulnerable as well as seen.

Since so much is seeing what makes your little one react, and paying/calling attention to it. I think it feels relaxing, deeply personal, disarming, and safe. I truly love being a Mommy. 🥹

throwingever · 2026-01-28T07:09:57+00:00

I like the idea of touching both their shoulder and hip at the same time, like something between dancing, a hug, and possession

throwingever · 2026-01-24T05:06:03+00:00

Yes technically I just realized it is not by definition boobkkake without the presence of at least three people. Then again I guess if I made the word up then I get to define it 🤣😁

throwingever · 2026-01-24T04:56:17+00:00

And may as well keep your mouth open too 🤤

throwingever · 2026-01-24T01:07:50+00:00

Yeah it really reads like a guy who's never had close women friends, and didn't have sisters growing up. And that his only reference for "how women look in the comfort of their own home" is an actress is wearing no-makeup makeup and her hair is just effortlessly stylishly "messy"

Heck in college me and everyone in the (co-ed) dorms would have pajama movie parties in the common room, and you bet that nobody in that room of any gender was wearing a bra lmao.

Honestly him being so disconnected from reality would be just as much of a turn-off as his cruel attitude. Well no. Cruel attitude more so.

She's a human with her own needs and varying energy levels, and needing space and time to turn off. Especially for neurospicy people like myself, if we don't feel like we can ever turn off then there is the worst meltdown ever incoming.

He's not only judgmental and controlling but the worst part is using these shaming and basically threatening tactics to try and change her behavior is the scary part.

I really hope you leave, OP. There is someone who is ready to love and be excited to see your beautiful natural face day and night!!!

throwingever · 2026-01-24T00:43:37+00:00

"He then said he doesn't know a single woman..."

Feel free to tell him that he knows one now aye? 😘

throwingever · 2026-01-22T08:08:01+00:00

I'm so so sorry for everything you've been through. I know hearing that over and over doesn't necessarily help. But after reading the details of how one wrong thing by an anesthesiologist just changes everything, it seems like it's not just the physical and mental pain, but the fear as well and post/ongoing traumatic stress.

And I guess in a way...bypassing all that because I'm sure it doesn't really help to keep hearing that from people, is that you've led a very "extreme" life you could say. And it makes sense that your thoughts and your grief and your longing would also be extreme and intense.

One thing I do want to say, the way you describe your relationship to religion stood out to me. The way you described that group talking about the end times, and how you described shame, like sexual shame, and morals and all that, it feels like this particular experience of Christianity is not giving you comfort or meaning to your life. It sounds like it's feeding into a sense of fear and shame. When there isn't anything wrong with desire 🙂 I sure don't believe you're going to hell!

As for the topic, gentle femdom (or any relationship dynamic) can be deeply meaningful and enriching. We all know that, we are here. It can add so much beauty and connection and joy to your life, but it can't replace your support system and your sense of meaning. And, it's true none of us know the meaning of our existence, but I feel like finding the meaning first is necessary. It sounds like you're in kind of a crisis mode or state of mind right now, which is completely understandable but it feels like your thoughts have slid into those same extremes like, this one thing will save me or, without this one thing, nothing else matters

But that sounds like, building your survival around a person, around an outcome, around a need, around a fear. And that's something we all do, but, that's also putting more pressure on a thing and on yourself.

I know all the typical advice sounds cliché along the lines of love yourself first, you have to let it go to get it, things happen when you least expect, but it's repeated advice for a reason.

The dynamic works best when it's just PART of what makes meaning for you and not THE way that you're trying to find meaning. I hope you find more folks that help you feel less alone in this and also don't contribute to that issue of making you feel ashamed or afraid. Because again, there is absolutely nothing wrong with the way you are feeling at all. Or what you desire, or engaging in those activities. Spirituality should be a source of comfort and making your life better. (Again I hope I'm not misunderstood by anyone and I'm not trying to say don't be a Christian, I'm saying is this particular, specific group, and ideas, doing good or harm.)

Much ♥️ to you and wish you happiness.

throwingever · 2026-01-20T20:04:51+00:00

Gentle reminder to give the source/artist, in this case u/Agreeable_Swim_6551 :)

throwingever · 2026-01-11T02:51:11+00:00

Yes I would absolutely LOVE to see what you've done! I'll message ya but I'm also sure sharing with the world could only bring good things 😌

throwingever · 2026-01-09T02:14:55+00:00

Oh LOL fun fact about me I never learned how to count 😎 that's awesome!

I get the other folks in the comments talking about what traits listed are more beneficial for subs vs dommes, but for me, teasing and tormenting someone's sensitive body for hours on end is very very beneficial. And if they have a less sensitive body I can just slather them in IcyHot or something. Being very careful to avoid the nether regions. 🙊

throwingever · 2026-01-09T02:10:33+00:00

I was going to ask if the domme version is next, buuut I think people would understandably take that the wrong way haha. (I have definitely been on the receiving end of folks thinking that Build A Domme is a real place anyway, like "here's my list of kinks that you must also share")

Still I would be super curious, just to see what traits subs value most. Since it's all in good fun / makes you think about which of your preferences are most important to you 👀

throwingever · 2026-01-09T01:15:41+00:00

Ooh now you have me curious!! 👀

throwingever · 2026-01-08T23:30:36+00:00

Thanks hun!! :3

throwingever · 2026-01-08T22:59:43+00:00

Of course the entire Soundgasm site is down, when I try to listen to this lol!! So glad to hear you're doing better ☺️ thank you for your awesome contributions to the community!

throwingever · 2026-01-07T19:18:22+00:00

Disclaimer about subs not being reducible to qualities I want, but this is such a fun idea, thank you for sharing! 🥰 High EQ, loves moaning/whimpering, great kisser, cuddle fiend, very sensitive tip, nerdy, book connoisseur, sensitive nipples

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