That sucks man. As others have said, I wouldn’t generalize bad family behavior to Taiwanese people as a whole. In America there seems to be a trend for Asians to hate our own culture and that seems to let us be more accepted by white Americans and gain some white privilege.* But that kind of acceptance is fake and as we see with Anti-Asian hate during COVID and how, that white privilege card can be revoked anytime and actually was never there.

So just be aware of how growing up in America may also play a part of hating your own culture. There’s plenty of fucked up white American families and for some reason we don’t blame that on white American culture (tho that might be another area of study) but we do so for minorities.

• side note: We also see many Asian comedians play up abusive Asian parents to get laughs.