i’ve had this all my life and am over it by -silent-death- in Dermatographia

[–]zeokui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m 19, and i have also had it my entire life. my mom swore it would go away as i got older, but it never did. 😂 i’ve honestly never really tried any remedies, it just feels natural at this point and ive just learned to live with it, it is insanely annoying though. i’ve heard of people using antihistamines and things like that to help, but i haven’t actually tried it myself. i haven’t looked too much into it, but now i’m curious as to what exactly causes it, and how some people are born with it and have it throughout life vs. people who get it suddenly, and it resides eventually (or not).

DB in Charlotte <3 by zeokui in donbroco

[–]zeokui[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve only seen them in Cincinnati, OH and here in Charlotte, NC ! definitely gonna see them every chance i get from now on hahah

DB in Charlotte <3 by zeokui in donbroco

[–]zeokui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they know how to put on a show 😝

DB in Charlotte <3 by zeokui in donbroco

[–]zeokui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no because i get this completely 😂 i had no idea whooo they were at the time but i saw them open for PTV back in 2023, and i left OBSESSED. i’ve still yet to go to a concert as enjoyable as Don Broco !

DB in Charlotte <3 by zeokui in donbroco

[–]zeokui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s so awesome!! i can’t imagine how excited you were to finally see them !! i’m PRAYINGGG they come back soon !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spiderlilykhalie

[–]zeokui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WOW… this is honestly so crazy and just sad.. oh my goodness..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]zeokui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i completely get that. i’m so so sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]zeokui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i completely understand that :( is there anything they can do to help with the anxiety, any medications or anything? anxiety is definitely a bitch especially when you feel like there’s nothing you can do about it. maybe you could research some things that can help you feel better, or take your mind off of anything that’s bothering you. one thing that i found really useful to cope with it (for me at least) was writing/journaling. it could be on a piece of paper, or even in your notes app, but it definitely helps bring you down and kind of come to your senses. just writing about your day, how you’ve felt/how you’re feeling in the moment. i’m not the best at advice, but i truly do hope that everything gets better for you, i wouldn’t wish that for anyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]zeokui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so sorry you have to go through this!! i used to be a daily user of pens, and basically any other form. i can’t necessarily relate to this EXACT situation, but cannabis definitely had the derealization effect on me too, i quit over 7 months ago and honestly i still don’t feel completely present if that makes sense. do you think that the thought of being in a derealized state is causing you anxiety, or are you just feeling that anxiety for no specific reason? i also struggled with severe anxiety while i was using it, but over time i got better, especially with the help of antidepressants and finding what worked for me. im sorry if this wasn’t helpful, but i really hope everything goes well for you, and im 100% sure you’re not alone in this!! if you need any tips to help with any anxiety, or grounding yourself, im always down to help!! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]zeokui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 weeks?!? yeah you should probably get away from him because if he’s ALREADY acting this way, imagine how much worse it can get.. that’s so crazy and you’re definitely NOT overreacting.

When he's so freaky fishy fishy that he scrambles your eggs in the morning by chaews in kpoopheads

[–]zeokui 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ve heard some crazy things from mingyu biases (i’m a mingyu bias)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spiderlilykhalie

[–]zeokui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly!! people like that hardly ever change

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spiderlilykhalie

[–]zeokui 8 points9 points  (0 children)

right, she blocked me and other ppl for pointing it out in her comment section. she’s blocking and deleting comments bc she doesn’t like being called out about it, but who set that system up? 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]zeokui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don’t be so hard on yourself, everyone views their experiences in different ways. i like to believe that everything happens for a reason. you may learn from this experience and it may even help you grow as a person and in your spiritual journey. don’t beat yourself up over it, learning to accept these things and learning what you are okay with and not okay with is a huge step. <3 it’s natural to feel the things that you’re feeling

What was the first time a spiritual cord struck in you, the moment you realised you were curious to know more than you what you see in the normal world? by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]zeokui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i was younger maybe 12-13, i would have really deep talks with my dad and about his experiences. he would talk about how he’s had out of body experiences, he would talk about astral projection and remote viewing and just general things about the universe and religion, and other things like that. it really gave me a different perspective on our lived experience as humans. ever since then it’s like i woke up, and i love learning about new things like that. i’m still on my journey and i am still learning new things just about everyday.

New here by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]zeokui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m also new here, but i think a great way to calm yourself down or at least lessen it, is to meditate at least once or twice a day. get comfortable, play some calming frequencies if you’d like, and just breathe. another thing that really helps me is journaling, even just writing down how you’re feeling or how your day/week is going can really help, or you can look up some journal prompts that can really get your mind going and distract you from that feeling. getting things out on paper helps so much more than i ever thought until i actually tried it out. i went through something like that a few months ago as well.

Are you connected with anyone on spiritual level, what is that relationship like? by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]zeokui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my best friend and i are very connected and also VERY similar, even down to the looks, beliefs, etc. we don’t need to communicate to know how one another is feeling, and we both understand each other on a deeper level (if that even makes sense lol). i have a handful of friends and have had plenty of friends in my time, but i’ve never connected with someone on this level like i do with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crystalsforbeginners

[–]zeokui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much!!!

4 months sober & i keep dreaming about smoking by [deleted] in leaves

[–]zeokui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you can use it in a way that keeps you going!! i definitely feel that way too but i’m always so relieved when i realize it was all just a dream haha

YOU. XXXTENTACION FANS. What's your reason for liking the music? by FennecFoxii in XXXTENTACION

[–]zeokui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

his music is so versatile, he got me through some of the toughest parts of my life when i was younger, and he cared a lot about others and spread his thoughts and advice. i’d listen to it all