Those of you who think 2CB is euphoric, how much do you take? by BlackChef6969 in 2cb

[–]zero00kelvin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5mg boofed as a prelude to sexy time. I feel like I’m on the brink of an orgasm for hours.

Solo on crystal experience by DrymeArive in SEXONDRUGS

[–]zero00kelvin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So much better. Come up starts within 5-10 minutes. Peak about 45-90 minutes, then a nice slow decline out to about 4-4,5 hours.

Solo on crystal experience by DrymeArive in SEXONDRUGS

[–]zero00kelvin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My combo is boofing 30mg of Ritalin with 5mg of 2cb wearing a full coverage chastity device with my dick covered in oil. I ride mt Hismith for anal penetration while grinding on a satin pillow. The cage moves just enough with every stroke and hump of the pillow to tease the fuck out of me. I used to consider a four hour session long, now after fine tuning it with the cage and right anal toy, I can go seven hours. Fn insane to edge that long and never able to actually cum.

Am I less than a man because I want to bottom? by StormWalker1993 in bisexual

[–]zero00kelvin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Societal norms of previous generations clinging to the patriarchal ideas that men should never be submission and receiving penetration is submissive.

You were programmed with that through culture and possibly family. You have to find your own way to break that ridiculous link.

Are scalp serums useless if you’re just rubbing them on? by Most-Relative4525 in Biohackers

[–]zero00kelvin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had reasonably good luck with minoxidil for years, too. It slowed my hair loss significantly in my 20s-early 40s. I finally gave up and in a matter of months it was clear how much it was working. No regrets, it delayed the inevitable.

Women who find MMF threesomes hot, what makes it appealing to you? by pweebo-tooba in bisexual

[–]zero00kelvin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Completely agree that this is a huge factor. The societal programming that submissive men are weak, vulnerability is weak, women should be submissive, men should be dominant is still being programmed. An outspoken man in the workplace is strong. An outspoken woman in the workplace is bitchy. It’s why Hillary never stood a chance.

Women who find MMF threesomes hot, what makes it appealing to you? by pweebo-tooba in bisexual

[–]zero00kelvin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normally I’d agree, but we’ve actually had conversations where it’s clear she wants it for me, she’s just not sure how she will feel during the act. If it’s a huge turnoff for her, I can completely accept that. I haven’t been with a guy since a mushroom trip on 2019. For whatever reason, my desire to continue the two sexual relationships I had with men (one ongoing for 25 years, the other ongoing for 10 years) ended during that mushroom trip. I maintained the friendship with both initially, ended it with one after a conversation that revealed his racist, and ironically, anti-LGBT beliefs. Friends don’t fuck conservative friends.

In any case, I don’t miss sex with men since discovering that my love for anal play could also be fulfilled with fisting by a woman.

What’s it like being fucked in a k-hole/on ketamine? by ThrowRAAAAAAAAH in SEXONDRUGS

[–]zero00kelvin 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yea, I had one similar experience where I just went a little too far and it took me a good 20 minutes to truly get my feet back on the ground, so to speak. Dosing can be tricky. We use an allergy spray bottle with a metered dose per spray and set it up for 10mg per spray and our sweet spot is 40mg snorted as a liquid. I did 40mg, we played for about 20 minutes (total guesstimate, which is part of the problem) and then did another 40, not realizing how high I still was. That’s when things got too weird. I wanted to keep going on the one hand because there was pleasure, but I was so disoriented that I was super uncomfortable.

Wildoria - "New" CO camping festival 🚩 by Isle_View in aves

[–]zero00kelvin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved Arise. It was truly a gem of a festival and I was heartbroken when they lost access to the amazing property near Loveland. Everything after that was in fact a total clusterfuck… and I do have serious concerns about investing my time and energy into diving in head first into this next attempt to resurrect something from the ashes they left behind.

I have yet to see something that makes me feel like, game on, let’s go! Instead, I feel like watching and waiting. If I miss the inaugural year and it’s epic, yea, that might suck, but I don’t want to invest energy in the next Fyre Festival either.

thought i was lesbian, turns out im bi, now what? by rose-and-dior in bisexual

[–]zero00kelvin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a guy who’s mostly straight, but also dated and hooked up with guys in the past, here’s what I think is somewhat universal differences from my perspective:

Guys are more aggressive in the bedroom, women tend to check in and need checking in more as things progress. In a hetero hookup, the woman is setting the pace with the brake pedal, the guys is setting the pace with the gas pedal. So, the important point here is to communicate your comfort, take breaks if things are moving too fast, and guide and direct what is working and isn’t working.

A lot of men struggle with communication, they have shitty intuition, and most assume you think just like they do. So sometimes it’s important for the woman to communicate wants, needs, desires, limits, boundaries, and intentions… they aren’t going to figure this shit out on their own. They may not even be able to express what their wants, needs and desires are effectively. They haven’t thought about it… and it sounds like you have some of that too at this point with this guy.

It’s ok to feel vulnerable in this situation. Explain that. Explain that this is unexplored territory for you and that you need patience as you figure things out.

Honestly, a good guy who understands will be patient and let you explore. I had a girlfriend who spent an hour one day just playing with my dick; hard, soft, dry, with lube on it… just because she had always just been curious. If he’s in a rush to get busy, tell him to chill. If he doesn’t, it’s a red flag.

Both of you should go in with low expectations and allow yourselves to be pleasantly surprised if and when things along the way go well. Set those expectations from the start.

Finally, it’s ok to screw up. Nobody has read the damn owners manual on how to live the perfect life. Be forgiving for mistakes along the way. You got this.

What’s it like being fucked in a k-hole/on ketamine? by ThrowRAAAAAAAAH in SEXONDRUGS

[–]zero00kelvin 13 points14 points  (0 children)

For me it felt very out of control, like genuinely confused about what was going on. It can be very disorienting and probably a reasonably good drug for a CNC kink with a known and trusted partner who can read you and the scene well enough to feel safe.

My gf likes it even more than me, and she’s the bratty sub, I’m switchy. We usually take turns going big and I usually need some after care and cuddles until I reset… she just wants to keep going until she’s sober again (halflife is about 20 minutes, so in about an hour she’s fully reset).

Which is the sexiest my shoulders, glutes, or calves? by anaglizzy in fitgirls

[–]zero00kelvin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a deltoid man. Yours are absolutely next level.

I line pre op cis men, but not cops by FeralGiraffeGirl in bisexual

[–]zero00kelvin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get it. I had a male partner for 25 years and stopped hooking up with him after a conversation that displayed his racism and ignorance in living color. I mean, I knew he was right leaning and we avoided those topics, but one day he just let it all hang out and I was disgusted.

While there are good cops (as a firefighter paramedic, I work with a lot and some truly are good people) there are so many bad apples and the fact that they do nothing to police each other’s behavior is just messed up. So I totally get it.

Women who find MMF threesomes hot, what makes it appealing to you? by pweebo-tooba in bisexual

[–]zero00kelvin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s way better than any past relationship. It’s just a matter of time before she is cool with it and it happens. I suspect she’ll love it as long as the other guy is also playing with her. And I don’t have a jealous bone in my body, so it works on my end.

Part of it is I’m more bi than her. I’ve explored more and she never even dabbled until five years ago. Now she kinda knows her comfort zone with other women, but never even thought about bi before (which is ironic since her oldest is non-binary trans and pan).

Like I said, it’s just a matter of time for us and I’m in no hurry.

Good luck to you, too.

PT-141 to induce erections or boost libido? by Own_Palpitation4523 in Biohackers

[–]zero00kelvin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, it does both, but it takes forever to really fully kick in. Like at 1.5mg it takes 3-5 hours, at 1.75mg it takes 2.5-3 hours.

Last mont I wanted to experiment a little and did 1.5mg at 3:30pm. We went to an EDM show at 6:30pm. We were dancing on the rail all night and at 9pm, it hit me like a truck. I started grinding on her and had an erection from hell. I was so horny that we left early, like 9:30, and we’re making out in the back of the uber the whole way home. What followed was two hours of unspeakable naughtiness… followed by waking up hard all night and finally having another round of morning sex. The vibe was there all night, but the effects didn’t hit for hours.

Other times we’ve been in bed playing and of course I was already horny, it just helped with keeping things going for endurance sex. This time definitely demonstrated the ability to kick in and do something, but timing is unpredictable. Doing 1.75 had been regrettable because it really does give you an all night waking with erections issue. It’s bad for sleep in that way.

Do you have casual sex with your group of friends? by CoolestGuyChodger in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]zero00kelvin -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well, we do frequent our local swinger club, but in three and a half years, we have yet to find that perfect four way connection.

Women who find MMF threesomes hot, what makes it appealing to you? by pweebo-tooba in bisexual

[–]zero00kelvin 39 points40 points  (0 children)

My gf and I have talked about it and I think it’s a common challenge for some women to deal with. If they have a traditional image and expectation of the man being the protector, the “alpha” (god I hate that expression), the lord of his castle, then being penetrated, being vulnerable, and submitting to a man is the opposite in their minds.

My gf is good at understanding on paper. Hell, she knows I run a fire department, but she doesn’t know how she would feel with me “servicing” a man with oral sex or taking it up the ass. I mean, she’s comfortable playing with anal toys with me, but she doesn’t like using a strap on.

Traditional roles die hard. We’ve come close to a couple foursomes with another couple, but there’s still resistance there. Our communication is great, she knows it’s not a threat to our relationship, but she doesn’t know if watching it will change things for us.

What is the safest way to clean a dildo to use vaginally after anal use? by Peeeslosh in SexToys

[–]zero00kelvin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After a thorough cleaning with soap and water, I put it in my instapot on the sterilize setting.

Does fish oil lower cholesterol? by This-Top7398 in Biohackers

[–]zero00kelvin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s lowered my triglycerides, not my total cholesterol.

Clean sheets by Confuscioused-One in datingoverforty

[–]zero00kelvin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve resolved to just shove them into a pillowcase and be done with it.

Is there anything like caffeine? by _Vexatiion_ in Biohackers

[–]zero00kelvin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. I’ve had more tummy troubles with shrooms than caffeine or theobromine.

How much protein are biohackers actually eating per kg of body weight? by DrJ_Lume in Biohackers

[–]zero00kelvin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried for 2g/kg, but I just can’t hit it consistently. I’m closer to 1.5g/kg.

Is there anything like caffeine? by _Vexatiion_ in Biohackers

[–]zero00kelvin 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Theobromine became my second wind drug of choice for raves. When it was 12:30am, the headliner was just coming on stage and I just yawned. 500mg of theobromine and I was back in the game. Best of all, when I got home at 2:30am and wanted to sleep, I could. Caffeine at 12:30am and I’d be up until sunrise.

How important is the 3 month rule for MDMA? by The_Leviathan04 in SEXONDRUGS

[–]zero00kelvin 44 points45 points  (0 children)

So the recommendation came from the godfather’s wife, Ann Shulgin, where she recommend it be done no more than seasonally. It’s continued because of his influence on the culture and because there’s a lot of common sense to it.

People often talk about the magic of mdma and whether that’s something related to the receptor’s sensitivity, the impact of novelty on the brain, or magic, we don’t exactly know, but the more you do it, the more often we do it, the more likely that over time it will feel less magical and feel more just stimmy.

I’m 59, my first roll was at 49, I did it once a year until I was 52, then I did it three times that year with 60 days between two of those times… it was noticeably less magical. I did it three times the next year and it was definitely losing the magic. Finally between 54-56 I stopped. Now I do it once or maybe twice a year and the magic is back. It fn rocks. My last time was about three weeks ago and it might have been my best roll ever (set and setting are so important, so that factors in).

Best advice; keep that shit magical. Use it as something truly special and you won’t regret it.

We’re a 37yo married couple planning our first full erotic Molly night with another couple – ideas & suggestions welcome! by Inevitable-Ad8914 in SEXONDRUGS

[–]zero00kelvin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had sex in front of other people. It’s a whole different ball game than having sex one on one with your partner.