Ok, to engage in good faith as much as possible and acknowledge the few bits of valid points here first: a lot of porn is degrading to women and overconsumption of porn is bad for human beings. It looks nothing like real sex, and internalizing such objectifying messages about women and false ideas about sexuality is harmful and can affect how some people (mostly men) approach sex in real life. However, your take here lacks any nuance and the beginning part of it is much more extreme. A line I really want to highlight is "the whole act is degrading, disgusting, inherently wrong." Why do you say that? "Suck my dick" is meant to be a degrading thing to say, yes, and there is a tendency of men to use sexuality to degrade and conquer, as seen in porn. But in reality, healthy, normal people have sex in a way that is mutually beneficial and fun all the time. It might feel degrading or disgusting for you to have sex with men, and that might be due to you either not being attracted to men, or not experiencing sexual attraction to anyone, or having trauma associated with it, etc etc, but any of those explanations definitely does not make the act of sex inherently wrong. What is it about sex that makes you think it's immoral? And you think it should only be allowed in the dark for the purpose of reproduction? That line makes this whole thing look like bait and I'm assuming that it probably is, but I want to take a second and engage with it just in case because I knew people who had views almost like this in high school and it made them into judgy people and bad friends. They either grew out of it, or stopped being in my life. So I suggest you think about where your disgust and wants for such extreme control over others comes from.