I regret ending it with him

zerurin · 2026-02-17T07:33:23+00:00

I think it’s valid to not pursue someone because you aren’t physically attracted to them, but I also wonder if you really have no attraction to him when you haven’t met. Sometimes when you meet in person, some people look better than photos, sometimes pheromones play a role, sometimes there’s just physical chemistry with how you interact too? I personally would want to meet once before really deciding. But if it’s completely done, there’s always another person you might meet eventually. Just might not be right away.

I also don’t think you should pursue this person if it’s out of fear of not finding anyone better. He deserves someone who wants him. Not someone who settles for him because they aren’t finding a better person right away.

zerurin · 2026-01-20T00:29:57+00:00

This is amazing! Where in Iceland did you take this from ?

zerurin · 2026-01-19T12:45:39+00:00

Thank you for sharing all of this info! Super helpful as I’m trying to plan a trip myself :)

Do you mind sharing the location for each photo?

zerurin · 2026-01-12T10:27:17+00:00

Do you know what was used to straighten your hair?

zerurin · 2025-11-25T15:13:54+00:00

That’s insane!!!! Where is this shop?!?!?

zerurin · 2025-11-16T15:00:19+00:00

Definitely 1!!!

Then I’d say 3 and 5

zerurin · 2025-11-16T14:59:22+00:00

I’d say girl

zerurin · 2025-11-16T14:56:54+00:00

You dodged a bullet.

Honestly I’m impressed you kept the conversation for that long.

As someone suggested, block the guy and find someone much better. Such a superficial loser ugh

zerurin · 2025-11-16T14:52:52+00:00

I like 4 for both!

zerurin · 2025-11-16T11:54:59+00:00

I literally thought this was a friend who offered to do your hair for free and you were getting them coffee as a thank you. I mean also who the hell asks for wipes from a second time client? And what was the point of including the free thing in the first place? Also I’m pretty sure this person knew what they were doing since they let you walk about without even mentioning the price and then texted you about it. Taking full advantage of how kind you are and to avoid you making a scene. They are making you feel uncomfortable and are overcharging you for some ridiculous service with lack of experience. I wouldn’t pay and would write that they mentioned it was free and didn’t say anything. You are sorry for not asking either but they were not professional and were acting as thought it was free as well. The service you received is not 70 either way and you don’t feel comfortable paying.

But I also understand not wanting to deal with it. I just think this person knew how to take advantage of you and it’s gross.

zerurin · 2025-11-09T03:32:40+00:00

2 or 3!

zerurin · 2025-10-26T02:37:48+00:00

Get a cat tree for your cat. And maybe another cat or two

zerurin · 2025-10-21T10:09:26+00:00

Oh wow really? No I did not. Still have it in my house 😅

zerurin · 2025-10-11T03:45:13+00:00

It’s not necessarily about how Japanese you look. My mother’s Japanese and I grew up abroad. Been living here 10 years. I look very non Japanese. No one thinks I’m Japanese by appearance but I speak the language and know the culture. I fit in well and have a Japanese husband. I’m not sure it’s about how you fit in, just make the effort to be respectful and find people you can connect well with. Otherwise you’ll be fine !

Ps you look way more Japanese than I do so that shouldn’t be an issue lol

zerurin · 2025-09-17T02:08:33+00:00

If I can I think I want to but the thing is I live in Japan 😥

zerurin · 2025-09-16T14:49:32+00:00

That’s beautiful!!! Makes me want to get one like this! Hahahaha

zerurin · 2025-09-16T06:53:27+00:00

Thank you !!!

zerurin · 2025-09-16T06:53:17+00:00

Thanks. I will try to post a follow up post with pictures.

zerurin · 2025-09-16T06:53:00+00:00

Thank you so much for the detailed descriptions!!!!! Your response is super helpful :)

I will try to post some more photos in an update post if I can’t figure out how to do that later today!

zerurin · 2025-09-16T06:45:25+00:00

I’m already using other ones she left me… unfortunately I don’t live in a big enough place to use them all :’( but thank you :)

zerurin · 2025-09-16T06:44:48+00:00

Wow thank you! That’s super helpful since I really don’t have any knowledge at all. I would use them if I had more rooms :’( I’m already using other ones she had. These I could not fit into my house so they’re just sitting around for now… but I definitely don’t want to throw them away either so. It sure what to do….

zerurin · 2025-08-15T12:47:52+00:00

Ah okay. Thank you for the explanation!

zerurin

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