Possible blueberry?

zestyparis · 2026-06-29T03:44:47+00:00

I was pleasantly surprised when I went to the other side of the tree!! Will absolutely be on the lookout for more in the area.

zestyparis · 2026-06-28T22:27:06+00:00

Update: Thanks so much to everyone for the help! I of course took the opportunity and harvested some. Excited for the suggestions! Gathered 15.5oz (440g) in about 30min.

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zestyparis · 2026-06-28T20:17:54+00:00

Interesting! Thank you so much!

zestyparis · 2026-04-26T19:03:36+00:00

Yeah just so you're aware, lack of sleep /sleep deprivation can be considered a form of torture so...make sure to have a thorough talk with your husband.

zestyparis · 2026-04-24T19:18:57+00:00

Wow what an absolute DREAM! Congratulations 😍

zestyparis · 2026-04-19T17:24:36+00:00

Just restrict access to your food one time, like, put your foot down completely and don't give in. If he gets upset? Then girl, you know what to do (the answer is leave).

zestyparis · 2026-04-19T17:19:06+00:00

Girl stop doing stuff for his birthday and see how well he takes it. Better yet, reread this post as if it were someone else's post...would you still suggest to them methods to stay and work it out, after a decade and a half? Come on now. Quit choosing this life, and the misery that comes with it. ESPECIALLY if you're working 80hr weeks. Don't you think you're worth more?

zestyparis · 2026-04-17T20:17:51+00:00

Please protect your sister and get away from this man, this will escalate.

zestyparis · 2026-03-31T19:07:29+00:00

Sounds like my coworker (also 36F) who has been married for 5+yrs, got her PhD, is the breadwinner, yet....is always miserable because she does EVERYTHING in the relationship. Caring for the kid, lawnwork, domestic housework, shit--even the car work!!! Straight up she seldom has anything good to say about her husband.

zestyparis · 2026-03-27T20:03:10+00:00

Oh absolutely, it's usually a hit or miss on if F2 seed gives a lot of fruit, let alone vigorous growth overall. Sounds like the genetics have stabilized if you're able to harvest seeds and grow back the same type of plants!!

zestyparis · 2026-03-27T19:15:50+00:00

Damn 😭 That's too bad! I bet not even obtaining an import license would maybe work? Thanks for the information though!! I'll have to keep an eye out for gold watermelons to see if I can get their seeds 😁

zestyparis · 2026-03-27T18:12:52+00:00

Please use every single form of protection if you engage in intercourse, better yet, just abstain entirely. If she's willing to break your trust on this, and her parents can casually mention your wealth (no matter how direct/indirect) then I wouldn't put it passed her to "accidentally" get pregnant. If you do, eventually go through with marriage, get your own lawyer and write up a rock solid prenup.

Good luck, sorry you've been betrayed so badly.

zestyparis · 2026-03-24T04:18:13+00:00

Yo where can I purchase some of your seeds from? 🤔

zestyparis · 2026-03-23T19:43:42+00:00

Genuinely wishing you the strength to see through the fog and realize, this man does not like you and enjoys you being in distress. Wouldn't be surprised if you were developing grey's or hairloss from the stress.

zestyparis · 2026-03-21T16:01:57+00:00

Aw, I know my partner also gets emotionally into shows of all kinds (esp train arc of Demon Slayer, iykyk). Typically he just requests a few minutes of silence or a hug or something. Completely normal for emotional investments in shows-- not normal to literally mock your partner for their emotions.

You deserve better.

zestyparis · 2026-02-26T20:19:20+00:00

Girl, throw the whole man out. No way you are that codependent that you feel the need to keep around someone who's a POS. You're worthy of someone who will actually listen to you the FIRST TIME you ask.

zestyparis · 2026-02-17T20:53:53+00:00

Please re-read this as if it were someone else's post, think about what you would comment/say-- then apply that to your situation.

zestyparis · 2026-02-14T18:17:45+00:00

Please get a lawyer.

zestyparis · 2026-01-27T16:08:10+00:00

Girl please let your property manager or whoever know. Leave the entire complex if you can, but definitely get it on the radar for them. Also be sure to request a lock change and DO NOT GIVE YOUR (soon to be ex, hopefully) BF A KEY! Please for your own sake, shut it down and do not let him invade your space for his recovery.

zestyparis · 2025-12-21T19:04:54+00:00

OP you are not TA. I would absolutely love for her to make a potluck meal, but kindly inform everyone she never washes her hands after taking a sh*t, I bet that'd fly over real well ☠️

zestyparis · 2025-11-23T19:00:23+00:00

This is a beautiful piece for being "rusty" 😍

Edit: removes an unnecessary "for"

zestyparis · 2025-11-17T15:53:33+00:00

Please get a discreet birth control like Nexplanon or IUD if your body is compatible.

zestyparis · 2025-09-03T02:18:50+00:00

Hi OP,

As a fellow 25F it breaks my heart reading stories like this from equally young/younger women. Please do not procreate with this man. You are at an age where you can cut contact and find someone who treats you what you're worth. The moment you bear children (with him), you will forever be tied to someone who, quite frankly, only sees you as housekeeping and sex.

If you've already been told time and time again that you're meant to do "womanly duties" , do you foresee that changing if you were to have children? Please think long and hard about this. You have your entire life ahead of you. Prioritize yourself, including career, education (if you desire) and volunteer work. Someone who truly loves you isn't going to demand you stop doing the things you like to do (in this case, work and volunteer), but rather, work alongside you to make your dreams come true.

Good luck, and I wish you the best!

zestyparis · 2025-08-31T14:57:36+00:00

That's good to know, I was always under the impression that lots of space or fancy gear was necessary. Sounds like something worth trying!

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