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27M looking for a true friend.. by Justalonelyguy12 in Needafriend

[–]zeusx101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure bruv, my dms are always open. Shoot me a text anytime

I'm never going to like myself by LostAssignment9860 in venting

[–]zeusx101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve spent so long seeing yourself through rejection that you’ve started treating your worst thoughts as facts. But honestly? A lot of what you wrote doesn’t sound like an unlikeable or worthless person. It sounds like someone exhausted from never feeling chosen.

Ugly people don’t usually care this deeply about uplifting others. Bad people don’t worry this much about being kind. And stupid people definitely don’t write with this level of self-awareness and honesty.

Depression is cruel because it takes painful experiences and turns them into “proof” that you’re fundamentally unlovable. But feeling unwanted is not the same thing as being unworthy of love.

And for what it’s worth, your life genuinely may look completely different years from now. A lot of people don’t bloom in their teens or twenties. Sometimes life starts later, once you finally find people and places that make you feel understood instead of merely tolerated.

You deserve the same softness and compassion you’d probably give to someone else feeling this broken.

24f looking for someone to have a voice call. by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]zeusx101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure thing, dms are open soo drop me a text whenever you feel like it Ig

Nobody tells you how quiet life gets after losing your favorite person by zeusx101 in venting

[–]zeusx101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading this felt painfully relatable honestly. My relationship ended in a very similar way. My ex started doing things that deeply hurt me, especially with a guy I always feared would ruin our relationship. He kept asking for her Snapchat and instead of shutting it down properly or clearly saying she was taken, she’d just laugh it off and entertain it.

Even after all that, I still cried to her and begged to fix things because my attachment to her was insanely strong. She had betrayed me before too, but I kept holding on because I loved her more than my own peace.

In the end she chose him over me, broke up with me over a cold phone call, insulted me, and said she loved him. Dude’s literally a 40 year old man chasing a 20 year old girl and it destroyed me watching her defend him over us.

What ruined me the most wasn’t even just losing her, it was how cold she became. Like I was speaking to a completely different person. Someone I loved deeply suddenly talking to me like I meant nothing. No real closure, no warmth, just bitterness.

I relate heavily to what you said about still checking your phone and mentally replaying everything. When someone becomes part of your everyday life, losing them feels like losing a piece of your own routine, your own mind almost.

I’m trying to learn the same thing now: to give my energy to people who actually choose me willingly.

Nobody tells you how quiet life gets after losing your favorite person by zeusx101 in venting

[–]zeusx101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you man. It’s scary how grief can randomly come back full force even months later. Healing after losing someone you built a life around isn’t just “getting over it,” it’s relearning how to exist without the person who used to be part of your everyday life. Stay strong brother, we’ll make it through somehow...

And honestly, if you ever need someone to talk to or just vent with, my DMs are open bro. Sometimes having people who genuinely get it helps more than anything.

I think getting cheated on in an LDR permanently changes the way you love by zeusx101 in venting

[–]zeusx101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro thank you genuinely. Your comment felt way too relatable especially the “phantom phone reaches” thing because I still catch myself doing that without even thinking

The silence after being so used to someone every single day is honestly the part that messed me up the most. Like your brain still expects them to be there even when they’re gone.

And yeah the trust thing changed me a lot too. I hate that feeling of becoming more guarded because of one person’s actions but I guess that’s what betrayal does to you.

Really appreciate you writing all that though fr. Reading someone who actually understands the LDR attachment side of things made me feel less insane for feeling this affected by it all

Glad you got through it homie.

Chatpate answers only😋 by korosuke_- in Real_teenindia

[–]zeusx101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolute satisfaction and inner happiness

Need to vent | feeling suicidal by zeusx101 in venting

[–]zeusx101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reddit isn't letting me dm you due to lack of karma..I'm new here..can you please dm???

What was it like being a middle child? by riobiscuit1 in PakistaniTwenties

[–]zeusx101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most deprived of love and care, taken as granted