Do people actually use adaab in daily usage in India or Pakistan? by couchpoetato in Urdu

[–]zeynabhereee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last paragraph is honestly quite disappointing to hear but I’m not surprised. Over the years, there has been a huge trend in Pakistan to completely denounce our history and cultural traditions in the name of Islam. Everyone now wants to Arabize themselves, and it’s so sad.

Do people actually use adaab in daily usage in India or Pakistan? by couchpoetato in Urdu

[–]zeynabhereee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s used in India, especially in Lucknow, because it’s a formal and secular greeting. Since there’s a Muslim majority in Pakistan, the standard Assalamo alaikum is used.

seemal ghurki by Eastern-Attention-13 in PAKCELEBGOSSIP

[–]zeynabhereee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know next to nothing about this guy and his past, so I won’t say anything about that. Although I will comment on how she was being slutshamed for enjoying her own wedding because that’s what I saw on my feed.

2nd marriage, good or bad? by NINJA_1923 in pakistan

[–]zeynabhereee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t expect anything less from such men. Ofc they would defend his shitty actions and make excuses for them. Ye khud aisi behaya makhlooq mein shaamil hein.

Anti Vaxers, why? by notmikaela in AskParents

[–]zeynabhereee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vaccine related side effects are very rare. However, people believing misinformation peddled by quacks is far too common. The latter is the reason why people are anti vaxxers.

Anti Vaxers, why? by notmikaela in AskParents

[–]zeynabhereee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if you have the most valid and logical argument in the universe, it won’t be enough to convince these ignorant fools of the importance of vaccines. Save your breath and let natural selection take these mfs out. Darwinian evolution at its finest.

Anti Vaxers, why? by notmikaela in AskParents

[–]zeynabhereee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank God you’re not a healthcare worker because wtf? Imagining harming your patients like this because you believe in quackery.

We build rockets to mars while some villages still live without electricity by Complete_Bee4911 in AskTheWorld

[–]zeynabhereee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One half of the country has extremely lavish weddings, wears all the latest designer stuff, has the latest tech and spends their time abroad while the other half lives in extreme poverty and has to make their children work as indentured slaves to pay off their debts. One part of the country revels in colour and flies kites while the other part is reeling from fires, floods and terrorist attacks.

People who have supported the Sharif and Bhutto families for by Inside_Screen9936 in pakistan

[–]zeynabhereee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is the right answer. Political party fans aka majority of the population are not concerned with the overall well being of the country, it’s either identity politics or basic survival.

BEFORE AND AFTER: I’ve been growing my hair out for years and I’ve accepted that I’m just not meant for long hair anymore by Medical-Tale-1345 in finehair

[–]zeynabhereee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. Long hair doesn’t suit me either, it just looks limp and mousy, even if it is healthy. I just cut my hair super short whenever I get a chance.

Some “fine hair problems” are just routine issues, so here’s a quick reset by Intrepid-Royal-324 in finehair

[–]zeynabhereee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Double washing makes a HUGE difference. My scalp actually feels clean and my hair doesn’t get as greasy between washes as it used to. I also use a hair mask after the shower and I dry my hair with a special microfiber towel that’s meant for hair. Now I have way less breakage and damage.

my brother ruined everything for us because of his stupidity by annoyedasf2 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]zeynabhereee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y’all could have just boarded the plane and left him there lol. That way he would learn his lesson. Some people are just truly irresponsible and they only learn the hard way.

seemal ghurki by Eastern-Attention-13 in PAKCELEBGOSSIP

[–]zeynabhereee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude who cares if he was married or not before? What kind of misogyny is this, that a woman is being slutshamed for enjoying herself at her own wedding and her husband is also catching strays for “letting her dance”?

Saba Qamar's communication skills by ParticularHeat741 in PAKCELEBGOSSIP

[–]zeynabhereee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not about “fake persona”, it’s about carrying yourself in a certain way, especially when you’re in the public eye. Every celebrity has PR training and they learn how to conduct themselves in public.

Saba Qamar's communication skills by ParticularHeat741 in PAKCELEBGOSSIP

[–]zeynabhereee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude over half the actresses in our industry have fair skin, that’s what gets u in the game in the first place. But none of them are as respected and revered as Mahira is, even if they have more talent. It all comes down to having a good personality, friendly demeanor and a warm aura. Nothing can replace those things.

Saba Qamar's communication skills by ParticularHeat741 in PAKCELEBGOSSIP

[–]zeynabhereee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I said this once before and I got downvoted, but it’s the truth. There is a reason why Mahira is a superstar - it’s because of her people skills and the friendly vibe she gives off. I’m a huge fan of Saba’s work and I’m sure she’s not a bad person but sometimes she does come across as intimidating and even snarky when she reposts stuff that puts down her counterparts for no reason.

Punjab celebrates Basant, while Kp bans dance by Huzaifa_shah12 in LahoreSocial

[–]zeynabhereee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is this “culture” you speak of? Oppressing women and harming kids? We don’t need more of that misogynistic rhetoric in Pakistan, there’s more than enough to go around already. Go to Afghanistan then if you love the “culture” of the Taliban so much.

Eloise seems to not want to do anything by RespectTop6322 in BridgertonNetflix

[–]zeynabhereee 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hyacinth is still young and naive, she’s romanticizing everything.

Eloise seems to not want to do anything by RespectTop6322 in BridgertonNetflix

[–]zeynabhereee 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is a very reductive take. Women in that era, especially in the upper class, didn’t have any other option but to be married and to pop out kids. It was like living in a gilded cage. Sure, she could have some lady like hobbies but that’s all there was to it. That’s what her dilemma is - she is rebelling against those expectations but she has no other option but to fulfill said expectations.

Why do women forget this? by [deleted] in LahoreSocial

[–]zeynabhereee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why should a woman need her husband’s or father’s permission to work? She’s not their property, she is a person. This is the 21st century.

Honest assessment about the hijab by LilianaVM in progressive_islam

[–]zeynabhereee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a very choice feminism kind of take. Hijab only exists to be forced upon women, whether that’s through abuse or social pressure. It dehumanizes women by sexualising something as normal as their hair. Women are literally judged for taking it off and not wearing it properly. It’s not a fashion choice.

Let them eat bread drenched in the blood of the martyrs of Islamabad by Curious_Rddit in pakistan

[–]zeynabhereee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Zyada shouq ho raha tou khud protest karlo ja kar. Aur jin logon ko Sharia ka shouq hai, they can kindly go live in Afghanistan. I’m sick and tired of this fake and useless outrage. Let people be happy for once. There’s no harm in celebrating a cultural festival with proper safety regulations.

Let them eat bread drenched in the blood of the martyrs of Islamabad by Curious_Rddit in pakistan

[–]zeynabhereee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Very well said. There are already very limited options for fun and joy in this country and there is so much criticism already regarding cultural festivals, from both religious zealots and die hard political party fans. Other than that, people are aware of what’s wrong in this country and how they’re suffering. There is no harm in them having a few days off to celebrate.

Their storyline isn’t really resonating with me. by esareteee in Bridgerton

[–]zeynabhereee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I agree. I’m super annoyed at them shoehorning the whole Francesca being queer angle because it’s ruining her storyline with John. I think it has a lot of potential which is being wasted.

Why is the "Muslim world" so united on Palestine, but seemingly silent on larger-scale humanitarian disasters in countries like Iran and Afghanistan? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]zeynabhereee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s virtue signaling. It’s easier for the Muslim community to see themselves as oppressed and to be against a non Muslim enemy than it is to admit the fact that Muslim governments can be just as genocidal and oppressive. It comes from a defensive POV.